Well, I'm sure his dad cares a somewhat... :] He sounds so cute and smart... OMG, a can't believe he called me Harry Potter... XD... I hate/love your son.... *super super big grin* LMAO.... awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
wwwwwwwwwwwwww... Stop, it makes me want to cry...

^OH YEAH!LOL
He loves Harry Potter and he was like: mummy tell him to paint his hair again black like in the movie. I've seen Harry POTTER 6 TIMES SO FAR..

he kept on: tell Harry to eat more cos he seems thin he ain't gonna be a good wizard and where's his thing on the forehead???

lol

Grrrrr.... >.> I eat like a maniac, unless I'm stressed out or depressed... >.> Your son is so smart... at 2 years old... he's already talking like that, Holly... you need to get your brother talkin like that LOL... Man, her kid put's your brother to shame! I love Andrew though... XD...

So many people say I look like Harry Potter that it's just rediulous.. LOL, I went to nicaragua... i can't speak in spanish, but these little poor kids that I was drawing pictures with started pionting at my forehead and making little lighting bolt motions with their fingers. I was so confused, and then the translater looked at me and told me that they were telling me I looked like Harry Potter... ugh, it made me so frustrated... xD

I just took Aaron and told him I'm talkin w/ Harry and he was like where is he mummy????????
Now I'm holding him and i show him ur graphics.lol

he likes ur avatar! he called it: really thin blue guy made from pipes. lol

LOL, your baby sounds so sweet. It sure seems like you are doing a great job. :]

My bro is being a paranoid w/ teaching him various stuff... I showed him some of your sketches he likes that one where there's a guy and a girl that hold a huge brown bag..(i don remember the name of it though) he didn exactly understood that there was a girl and a boy he said ghosts.. anyway..

AWwwww... comment on my graphics :D

YES! He commented on your graphics but i'm sure it's the most useless criticism u would ever get..

woah there, leave her alone.

anyways, I just noticed your name is Lucy.. My name is Lucy too. lol.

and now to be on topic, I wouldn't even have a baby because I'd be smart enough not to even be involved in that type of nature if I knew it was going to wound up in a situation like yours. but if I were to wound up in that situation.. I would put it up for adoption.
I'm adopted, so basicly I'd know what it would go through.. and I approve.
Lol.

Heyy.. If I was in your situation and I couldn't raise it on my own... I would put it up for adoption.. that would give your child a good home...

Hi Lucy -

First off, you are a very brave young woman to have made the difficult choices presented to you. Having a child, no matter who you are and what your life situation is can be very challenging, to say the least.

Doing it alone can be absolutely terrifying, especially so young.

I'm a pro-choice type so I'm not *anti* anyone's personal decision about pregnancy and adoption. Both decisions have a long term impact.

I decided to have (and keep) my child even knowing that he would never meet his father (long story and I'm not getting into detail about that here). I was older (24) when I had him, so the situation was different, of course. My child is a very happy person. He may not have a "father" but he has a loving family and everyone who knows him, adores him. He just has that effect on people.

You did the right thing (and anyone making such decisions such as these) are doing the right thing if you can take care of your child. The second that comes into question, you need to rethink those decisions or get more help (if help is available).

Guys, Aaron(he's my avatar now keeps on asking these things; where's daddy, he loves us, is he nice,is he bad, why i don know him etc.

What should i tell him?my bro thinks we should tell him the truth..

first off what you did was the right thing i personally woudln't be able to get an abortion, i know people who have, i'd give them up for adoption because i wouldn't be able to give them the best that they deserve. second you should tell him the truth try and keep it simple though and don't lie about it because if u do when he gets older he will be even more upset(if you lie i mean). he deserves to know the truth no matter how old or young in this case.

Heyy Girl... I agree with your brother... Your son deserves to know the truth.... it's his right

good on you for keeping, he will find the truth out one day, but you dont have to tell him right away if you cant

Be kind, please -- Madame C

Oh my brother insists on telling him the truth.. When i told Aaron@daddy loves u honey of course" my bro was like" Lucy stop that stop lying to him u know David doesn't give a damn about aaron and u stopit i'll tell him the truth and i don't care if he's young"

i would probably give the baby for adoption. but certainly not have an abortion. :D

I'd probably put the baby up for adoption. Abortion if no one adopts him/her.

I agree with your brother. Aaron needs to know about his dad, even if he's young. If you don't tell him earlier, he might be reluctant to accept the truth when he gets older.

You got pregnant when you were 13? Wow. That was very brave of you to keep him so young. I'm 17, and I can't even imagine if that were to happen to me... if it happened, I would probably keep it, but there would always be a possibility of adoption. I mean, it's not the right time at all - I'm still a kid, how could I possibly raise a child of my own? I might consider giving the child to a family who can't have children, they would be much better off. I honestly don't know what I would do.

Awh sweety, you tottally did the right thing. You took responsibility for your actions, and you love your baby boy. I'm honestly happy for you.

And to answer your question, yes I would of kept the baby too. Btw, Is he the one in your Icon? I haven't read the other answers, or responses, so I just figured I'd ask

sorry if i am rude but during pregnancy (if i was a girl) i would be thinking about his father the whole time. But if you truly love your son and looks like you do, thinking about his father should be the last thing in your mind.

Of course, the baby is my child afterall...

Yeah.

^^did you get him when you were 14? if you did, i comment you on your courage. I would be scared. cuz im fourteen.

Noooo. Abortion.

^^WTF SERIOUSLY!?!?!

isnt it scary? surgery is scary to me at least.

hell no, id get an abortion right after i find out

I would do the same.
I'm against abortion.

I would NEVER get an abortion...It's cruel and you'll have to live with the memory of killing your unborn child for eternity. I would have the kid and raise it with my own loving hands. A child deserves to be with his or her mother/father. In the end, going through labour is worth it to be able to see your child's loving smile each and every single day.

I'm only [my age] but I've seen the way my mom acted when she had my sister and her thoughts are pretty much the same as mine. Abortion is cruel. Period.

First of all, I wouldn`t have a baby even at my age. (17).
But if I did, I would keep it. I wouldn't give it up for adoption
because I can't stand the idea of someone owning a part of me.
That`s just me.

OMG!!! This is a REALLY sad story. I KNOW you did the right thing. I would've kept the baby too. I mean, it's just really cruel to the baby, in my opinion, to perform an abortion.

ehh. I wouldn't get an abortion.
I've only had sex once, but if I got pregnant,
I'd have the kid & put it up for adoption.
I have wayy to much stuff going on in my life to have a kid. /:

i find it funny 'suckme' spelt the word bastard as bustard like, 5 times.
anyways. i probably wouldn't keep the baby, i'd go for adoption to give up the baby to someone who's unable to have their own child, just because sometimes i even have trouble taking care of myself.

I know I would be very scared at that point and I think its great that you had the courage to have your child.

As for me, I don't know....I have no objections when it comes to abortion, I just don't think I could do it. I don;t think I would be able to kill a child growing inside of me (even though I think everywoman has the choice to do it). I'm a hypocrite, I know...

then why are there so many kids in foster care and other kids still in adoption agencies? kids aren't adopted with a snap and most people don't want to struggle with the process. to me, adoption can be just as bad as abortion.

Usually, some kids are older and have problems, so not many people want to adopt them.

BTW, you're talking about a whole different thing. Foster care is when the kid's parents/guardians die (or they're unable (as in they have a disease or something) to take care of the kid) and there's noone to take care of him/her. And usually, the kids in foster care are the ones that are older with more problems.


People would go through the process if they wanted a kid that badly.

Just a question; you said it was 3 years ago, so you were THIRTEEN (13) when you had your baby? Wow, that's like around my age. Now that I realize it, I guess I would probly give up the kid for adoption; i know that he/she'll get a good home.

yes i would keep mai baby i would never let anything that is mine to go into a strangers home....i think u did the right thing and ur baby is soooo cute!!!

i already am already stable career wise [17]
so i would keep the baby
and even if i wasnt where im at
id still keep it.
beacuse what some people realise
is if YOU f**ked up.
its YOUR fault you opened you legs up and you are now paying for it.
and then you think its alright to go try to cover it up.
your f**king sick.

and btw im not all pro life
i feel it should be a womans choice if it was life or death.
or rape,
but not to be used as a form of birth control for whores or people who lack the capacity of self controll

and thats great that you kept your baby god bless.

i wouldnt have abortion
but i'd give the baby to adoption
but it would be scary if i found out in the first place