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roses_are_r.e.d.

Sep 12 2006, 07:41 PM

Well, you know how it goes, the usual...

You like a guy/girl, and you get to know him/her. Right? You spend, a lot of time with that special person... constantly. (I'm talking every weekend.) You two talk about personal stuff, you know, your likes, your dislikes, embarrassing stuff, and your love life. The two of you have spent so much time together, that the particular person loves to talk to you, and likes it when you make fun of him/her, it makes them feel noticed. Now the two of you are so close, you actually have nicknames for each other, really stupid, confusing, nicknames that the other person made up for a weird reason. You want to ask that other person out, but you know before you launch, you want to know if he/she feels the same, correct? And you'd like to know if you are still in the so-called, 'friend zone'.

Of course, this issue is happening to yours truly. It happens to everyone, I know... So I'm hoping people who have gone through this can perhaps give me a helping hand.

So... people, let's hear it! I will appreaciate any advice given, thank you! ^_^

digital.fragrance

Sep 12 2006, 07:47 PM

I say just go for it - you guys sound like such good friends, that even if they didn't return the feelings, the relationship would still be great.

blacknailpolish

Sep 12 2006, 07:58 PM

oooooo, this can get tricky...I don't want to disappoint you, but if you guys are such good friends, he will probably say no, and I'm speaking totally from personal experience. But I agree with digital fragrance, if you guys are such good friends, hopefully nothing weird will happen, so I wouldn't worry about that.

I'm not saying all this to discourage you at all. If you want to tell him, by all means, go right ahead. I'm just kinda giving you a little heads up on what will probably happen. Of course, I could be totally wrong

vn_cuti3

Sep 12 2006, 08:05 PM

go for it by this time he/she should have SOME interest in you cause he/she would give you nicknames and stuff that's what happening to me right now too lol

Uronacid

Sep 12 2006, 09:06 PM

Um... man, it sounds like you guys are in the middle of a relationship already. why not make it official.. unless your afriad of losing her as a friend. If that's the case you have to make the choice. You can live your life never knowing what could have been (that is... if you really like her that way.), or you can take a chance and find out if you two are really compatible.

OhMyAnniee

Sep 12 2006, 09:14 PM

ask him to hang out again. & the next day tell him about how much fun you guys have together and then if i were you, i would just tell him that i like him. it takes alot of pressure off of you and he'll probably be like " wow. cool. " but it would be worth it.

roses_are_r.e.d.

Sep 22 2006, 06:25 PM

Thank you guys for your advice. I'm actually going to see him tomorrow. (I'm a girl and he's a guy by the way. hahaha) And hopefully, I'll try making a move. Any tips on that one?

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