When I'm not like totally in love with a guy.. I feel so useless. Actually having a boyfriend bothers me. But liking a guy that doesn't like me hurts. It's a lose-lose situation. I feel like I'm going to live my life chasing something that I will never get. Help me.

Also, people tell me that guys at my school like me. Everyday it's like "Oh, he's in love with you, you should go out with him" But I really don't see how it's possible that they even LIKE me. All of the guys that they mention either don't know me or I beat the crud outta them ALL THE TIME.

I'm going insane

maybe when you beat the crap outta them it turns them on?? haha..i dunno..and maybe the ppl who dont know you think your cute want to get to know you better..so maybe you should try getting to know them better..but everyone is in your situation at one point or another in life.sont sweat it..the time will come when you find a guy who you will fall in love with and he will fall in love with you and yeah..you'll live happily ever after LoL..also..dont wait/chase after a guy..make the guy wait/chase after you..or dont even try at all and when you least expect it..love will come your way..good luck

the one sthat u beat up probably thin ur flirting with them in a hurting them kidna way? hahaha thats so childish but guys don't understand signals...

and the ones that u don't know probably knows YOU from talking to others about u and stuff...

I think you have to go through the guys that you don't really like so much at the time to find the one you want to be with in the end. Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two years off and on and I love him more than anything, but the only reason I started dating him in the first place was basically because I was tired of being single but now I don't know what I would do if I didn't have him. Love works in mysterious ways so if you want to find that special someone you have to look for them and the only way to do that is to date guys and when you find the one for you you wont have to look any further.