Ok so I was going out with this guy and i thought he was really shy, so after a while we both agreed to end the "relationship" (this is one of the reasons why I agreed to break up because I could never talk to him about things) but now since we've broke up hes told my friends that hes trying to show me that he isnt shy anymore and hes being more like me, talkative, and well not shy around anyone. I dont know what to think besides why couldnt he be like this when we were dating and why does he need to prove to me that he isnt? I just want to know whats going through his head before I talk to him. please help x.x

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Well.. why don't you just talk to him.. as friends. Then, you know, if you do notice a change, perhaps think about dating again? I think you're overanalyzing this. It seems like he still wants to be with you, which is why he's changing [supposedly]. Do you not want to date him anymore?

You misjudged him.

Maybe you could give him another chance.

Im just so confused. I just dont understand why he would change when he was the one to first suggest that we break up.

He's probably changed his mind and just wants to prove to you that he still likes you...whats the big deal?

i think you should give him another chance
he's trying to show you that he can be more talkative now and more outgoing.

i`d say that he wants to prove it to you because he still likes you and probably wanted to break up only because he thought it was best for you.

QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Aug 30 2006, 4:13 PM)

You misjudged him.

hmm i partially agree.. you should probably talk to him some more and get to know him a litto more before you make any decisions.

Thanks everyone for your thoughts on this, I will talk to him about it as soon as I see him : )

no problem ;]

Spiritual for the win.

i think that when he realized that he lost you, he wanted to change because he wanted to make his and your relationship work. :]