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brittney414211
Do you belive in it...I do now...after seeing one guy for 4 hours and hanging out with him at a football game wanted me to throw away my boyfriend ive been dating for 9 months...our realationship is in a mess now....
illriginal
I don't really believe in it. People can easily confuse love and lust.
BabiiJay
I believe in it but never been through it heh..
kiSHBall
that's called infatuation. don't throw your 9 months away just yEEt!
AngelinaTaylor
You people need a reality check. Seriously. Love? Do you even KNOW what love is? How can you love someone you barely know? Not really possible, is it? "Love" at first sight is LUST at first sight. Attraction. But teenies have a hard time distinguishing those things.
This Confession
^I agree with Angelina.

I don't believe in love at first site, perhaps if you really got to know the person over time and such then perhaps you could love them. But you still wouldn't be loving them at first site.

Its just lust.

A simple physical attraction.

sorry.
illriginal
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Aug 27 2006, 2:10 PM) *
You people need a reality check. Seriously. Love? Do you even KNOW what love is? How can you love someone you barely know? Not really possible, is it? "Love" at first sight is LUST at first sight. Attraction. But teenies have a hard time distinguishing those things.


Beautiful post Angelina, totally agree.

I dislike the idea of little kids gettin into relationships, they're mentally not mature enough to handle a relationship.
brittney414211
Sry...i didnt mention i've know the other guy for like 5 years and we have always liked each other and kinda talked on and off and then we kinda started liking each other more...i guess it was love at first sight....i dunno how to explain it...
AngelinaTaylor
^ HAHAHAHA.. good one. Except not. It's funny how people suck at lying even online.

One more thing: there's no LOVE at first sight. First sight means when you see somebody for the first time. You cannot fall in love with somebody when you see them for the first time.

Is it really that complicated to comprehend?
goodcharlotte
rofl1.gif So true Angelina. So true.
illriginal
QUOTE(brittney414211 @ Aug 27 2006, 2:44 PM) *
Sry...i didnt mention i've know the other guy for like 5 years and we have always liked each other and kinda talked on and off and then we kinda started liking each other more...i guess it was love at first sight....i dunno how to explain it...


Heh... you've just lost your creditability.
goodcharlotte
Brittney. I don't mean to be mean or anything. But contradicting yourself isn't the best way to start yourself off over here. Also this may just turn into a spam topic so let's try to avoid that. pinch.gif
AngelinaTaylor
Poor little girl.
dani41790
Uhh yeah I agree with Angelina... love takes time. You can't just love a person when you first see them when you don't even know them. It's just infatuation not love.
mahokaida
I don't believe in it. However, I believe that feelings can start the first time you talk to someone, but not full on love. When I first started talking to my boyfriend, there was an instant attraction and connection, but it was certainly not love.

I don't think it's just teenagers who have a problem distinguishing between love and infatuation . I mean, look at the divorce rates. I think too many people are jumping the gun and believing that they are in love, when it is simply infatuation that dies out quickly. I guess, distinguishing between love and infatuation takes maturity, and half the people in the world aren't mature at all.

I would recommend getting to know this other boy more and reevaluating your current relationship. I wouldn't destroy a good relationship based on one incident. However, I do know the feeling of being completely intrigued by someone the first time you talk, but with my boyfriend I talked to him more to make sure he wasn't being completely fake. He wasn't happy.gif.
pinayprincess
hammer.gif love at first sight if so fake!!!
sakaitone
I sort of believe in love at first sight. Love at first sight is seeing a person for the first time and falling in love but I find that very shallow. I do believe that when you see someone for the first time, you can feel something not like exactly attraction but chemistry err...maybe potenial to become your love. I somewhat believe in love at first sight.
Just2Fresh
Love at first sight? It aint real.
illriginal
Love at first sight is plain and simple... you don't even interact with the person. You look at someone, and all of a sudden you fall in love. That's practically impossible. Like I said before, young people easily confuse love and lust.
Dazzle
Yeah this one time, I saw this girl right...I did her in my head. And then it wasn't love at first sight anymore. Needless to say, I JIZZED MY PANTS and bumped into her
blacknailpolish
^ rofl1.gif

Anyway, I can't believe some people still believe in "love at first sight". What kind of "love" is that??? You just like their bod, kiddies! Sure, maybe after talking to them, you get a CRUSH. REAL love takes time, ok?
Uronacid
QUOTE(Dazzle @ Aug 28 2006, 3:48 AM) *
Yeah this one time, I saw this girl right...I did her in my head. And then it wasn't love at first sight anymore. Needless to say, I JIZZED MY PANTS and bumped into her


hahahahaha

I believe in "LUST at first sight". Love is when you have those lusty feelings and you choose not to act upon them becuase you love your boyfriend even though you are in a fight.
mahokaida
Love is when you need someone because you love them. It isn't when you love someone because you need them. (And that's a quote by someone, I just can't remember who XD.gif)
Mistress Bags
Few people who think they're in love are really in love. Love at first sight is called lust and infatuation, but it most certainly isn't love. Love is when you have a deep connection with somebody, when you feel completely comfortable around him, when you accept all his negative along with his positive. You can't get that out of just looking at somebody, sorry.
M!ssMurd3r
I believe in it but I dont believe its smart. I believe that love is not an emotion but that love is a conscience decision...that has the side effects of feelings...and you can choose to fall in love within the first couple seconds, but its not the smartest choice.
blacknailpolish
QUOTE
I believe in it but I dont believe its smart. I believe that love is not an emotion but that love is a conscience decision...that has the side effects of feelings...and you can choose to fall in love within the first couple seconds, but its not the smartest choice.


You really believe that falling in love is a decision??? huh.gif You DECIDE who you fall in love with? If that's the case, then I highly doubt you've ever really been in love.

Truly loving someone requires you actually knowing something about them, and not something you can find out in the first two seconds of contact with them, like what their name is blink.gif.
Uronacid
Love is a descition, you can choose to love someone at first site, but is it the smartest thing to do. No, I don't think so... you shouldn't choose to love someone until you know enough about them...
expoised
There's no such thing as love at first sight.

There can be... lust, infatuation, or whatever. But not love.

Well, aside from my love for all things Christian Bale... there is no love when you've never MET the person and gotten to know them.
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