i have been with my boyfriend for 18 months but now he doesnt pay as much attention to me am i being to clingy?
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no you're not clingy
talk to him, ask him why.

If things start to change.... start questioning his activities, trust me that's a hard learned lesson through experience.

uh, way to be specific.
any details..?

just ask him what's wrong i'm sure he'll tell you maybe he's just busy with school??

A little more details would be nice, if hes not paying as much attention to you and you can really tell it, talk to him about and ask him why. He may not even know about it..
I don't think your being clingy though..

if it's been a sudden change then something obviously is going on.
but if it's been like for 18months you should've said something a while back...

but i don't you're being to clingy. being concerned about where things are going are just a matter of showing you care. not being clingy. just talk to him about it.

Considering you two have been together for so long, no, you're not being clingy. If you were both together for like..less than a week, then yes you'd be clingy.

Ask him what's up.

Talk. Trust me it is the key to s successful relationship.

That happend to me recently. We were together for 20 months and to me he seemed to be acting more distant, we hardly saw each other and we could go for a week at a time without talking to one another. When I asked him about he said that we were at a stage where we were "comfortable enough" that we didn't need to communicate that much to know that we were still crazy in love. I didn't agree and we talked about it.

So, no, I don't think that you're being clingly. Just as time goes on, things change a bit. Talk it out. It works.

P.S. 100th post!

^yeah, he probably thinks you guys have been together for so long, that he doesn't constantly need to remind you that he's still crazy over you, he assumes that you know.
idk.

we've been together for 18 months and its just that all of a sudden he starts ignoring me and acting like i dont exsist and when his parents ask him who he is talking to he says his friends.then he goes out he doesnt tell me until he gets home.i give him his space whats going on?

He is cheating on you.

^ It does kinda sound like it.....sorry hun

Don't make the girl worry for no reason... although it is a possibility, you shouldn't worry until it accually happens or you have reason to believe (other than the way he is acting)... You do need to talk to him and tell him how you feel tho. Relationships do slow down over time though. It happens in every relationsihp (some faster than others). Do you really expect to have the same burning fire passion you had when you start a relationship throughout the entire course of your relationship? Eventually people become so secure in their relationship that they don't talk as much, and end up talking only when they have to or when they want to hang out. The person in the relationship almost becomes a family member to you. That's why so many people say to watch how your <boyfriend/girlfriend> treats their <mother/father> because outside of being intimate they will treat you in a similar fassion... It may just be that he's used to you... talk to him... tell him how to feel, and tell him you need that attention to feel loved (if you do).

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well ask him if there's something going on. i don't think you're being too clingy. you probably just care a lot about him [: