i juss came home with my dad... we were driving around and hanging out.. doin a few errands... soo we come home.. and my mom is mad... she thought he went out with sum lady... and i told my mom that it wasnt true... and she tells me he did it b4... and he mumbles *she found out*... my dad did joke around that he had a *gf*... but its no joke now...

now im upset... cuz i dont know wuts gonna happen

awwww...d0n`t cry y0u`re g0nna make me cry

i know from expirence (sp), my father cheated on my mother a few years back. if they really do love each other they will stay together. divorce isn't really that bad, double Chrismas', just joking, but you'll pull through. Just let them work things out on their own. Just remember, we're here for you.

too late.. i cried.. but im better! thanx for the support!

*Sigh*, you're not alone, though it is incredibly hard to face. I hope things work out for you.

do GOOD human has the tendency to cheat on their loved ones? stay with one people pleaze n if u can't then end one n move on to another, don't cheat!

ohh.... i feel so bad. that must feel terrabal for you. my dad told me the other day that when my parents were married my mom cheated on him with my mom's friend, an artist. i knew she dated him after they got divorsed, but i didn't know she was cheating on my dad. i don't know whether to believe it or not cuz my mom is the kind of woman who never lets a man beat her down and if he cheats on her, then she's out of there. no questions asked. but i'd probobly have to beat his ass for her. lol. so i don't know......... but this isn't about me....

i don't know what to tell you. i'm sorry though.

I feel very sorry for you and what you have to go through. I went through it. My dad was cheating, and it didn't work out for my family. I wish you the best and I hope everything works out.

that suckssssss. i hope everything works out for them..

I would slap him and tell him how could you do this and howcome....

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i'm sorry you had to find out like that. unfortunately it happens to many marriages. all you can do is hope for the best. your father wasn't being honest with your mother so they may split but it isn't right for them to stasy together when loyalty isn't there you know? if they stay together there will be arguments and they'll be unhappy. they still love you and it isn't your fault. so don't be too upset. be strong for the both of them okay?

i would yell at my dad for that.

i would say "WHAT GOOD WOULD IT DO YOU IF YOU CHEATED?! YOU HAVE A LIFE. YOU DON`T HAVE A LIFE WITH THAT OTHER WOMAN! YOU MADE A VOW WITH YOUR WIFE, MY MOTHER, `TILL DEATH DO YOU TWO PART!!! YOU ARE SELFISH TO DO SUCH A THING! YOU HAVE A FAMILY AND NOW YOU WASTE IT, THINKING YOU CAN JUST LEAVE LIKE THAT? YOU HAD ALWAYS BEEN MY FATHER EVER SINCE I WAS BORN. BUT NOW, I WOULDN`T EVEN CONSIDER YOU CLOSE TO A FATHER, MUCH LESS A HUSBAND."

then i would start cussing at him. i would have every right to.

but i couldn`t imagine my dad cheating on my mother. it would be hopeless.

im sorry to hear about that, my mom did the same thing...

wow, i would be pissed if i found my dad doing that.

I have no words to really that would sound good, but stay in there. Always know you can find someone to talk to in these forums

eek. this is a tough situation you are in. maybe things will work out, maybe not. hopefully, your parents won't divorce and be selfish and cruel enough to say the words "now choose who you want to live with." i know a couple of ppl who unfortunately went thru that shit. that's just wrong. wutever the situation is, make sure you know wut is going on before u come up with conclusions of ur own.

aww.i am sorry about that. i dont know why two people in a marrige should do that to each other

I'm sorry for that too. My mom also found out stuff about my dad and that he had an affair, but when she told me, she wasn't even mad. It was so weird, I would have kicked him out of the house, but maybe it isn't true...but yeah, I hope everything goes well for you.

i feel ya, man. my dadday cheated on my mommy for 6 years or so. he's a jerk.

they're divorced now. that might happen with your parents. but, then again, they might fix things up.

awwws thats sad to hear... my parents are seperated and they have their own life now, dad with his gf and mom with her bf... its hard cause i can't accpet their gf's or bf's cause i still love my parents, even though they seperated and left me hanging with like 2 fathers and two mothers... i still love them... i don't know what parents do that, their kinda old and should be mature enough to stay true to their wife/husband...

awww omg thats so sad!! thats wat happened to my dad and my mom too... they did a divorce cus of that...she couldnt take enuf of my dad's lie cus it was so obvious... well actually my mom didnt want to do a divorce becus u know how hard is to take care of ur 2 children on ur own?? it's freaking hard.... u have to take care of the insurances, foods, and electricities... my dad left us by marrying this lady i reallie hated.... i cant believe he didnt tell me and my sister that my dad liked this girl...and u know wat? he is a pastor... that was a bad thing he did. i cant believe my dad did that... i dont call him a pastor no more...but if he ask me if he is a pastor...i said yea cus i dont want to hurt him...but still hes no longer a pastor no more...for wat he have done.... my dad cheats my mom all the time. 24/7, he even go for the young ladies that are like 17 years old...i thot that was sick, but my dad's whole family is weird... the Roh's family... im sick of them... they all cheat... but i dont and im glad. im like my mom who doesnt cheat. sigh... hope everything works out with ur mom and dad...cus it's not good for ur parents to divorce...but if ur mom is bit nice to let ur dad be with her, i dont think ur parents will divorce... heh... so yeah... ask ur parents about it... and tell them how they feel. i couldnt do that cus i didnt know wat divorce meant wen i was in 6th grade...but after my parents divorced wen i was in 6th grade... i knew wat it meant...

Eh.. my dad's been cheating on my mom for like what, a year now? I've accepted what a a jack-arse he is. I feel sorry for him because his new gf is wasting away his savings account hahas. And after I graduate from high school me and mom mom are going to disappear so he will be left penniless.. mauahhas

Haha. Loan is mean.

it sux if your dad is cheating..i think you should scold your dad. my dad wouldn't dare cheat on my mom , because my sister always ask him " dad have you been with another girl ? " and always needs to know where he is , so even if my dad is late my sister will be all over his case. its quite funny ,but my dad is always comes home late...he's always at the casinos and stuff like that

Aww, don't worry it'll be ok. Talk to your dad and mom about it.