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rOckThISshYt
lol. what do you think?? i personaly think it's fine. if i said it was wrong, then i'd be a hypocrit cuz i've hooked up in public places more than a few times. that includes school (library and cafatiria), mall (outside the food court. twice. and in front of the office building at the mall. once.), my porch (multiple times with my ex), etc. i think it's funny to do it with little kids around. then they're moms go "look away!!!" and cover their eyes. lol. but i've never done it cuz of that. i just think it's fun.
LiNHy POO
holding hands, hugging is ok... but kissing and making out is not good! juss keep it innocent..
pikimoo
laugh.gif You're such a weirdo. (ooo, sexay!) I think it's okay.. but I really don't care. Hey, whatever floats yer boat and tosses yer cookies.
twistedfate
i think that it's the couple's business what they do. personally, i like giving p.d.a. w/ my one and only of course
DesperateXMeasures
Whatever popcorn's your chicken.
dani41790
well umm it depends where u r. if ur in sku then i think pplz should onli hold hands or hug but n e where else, then i think its fine to show all pda
illushun_eyez
let them express what they want to do
ref_inn_ej
hm.. i see ppl making out on the streets, i take a look and then continue with my own life
its their own business and it doesnt affect me so i leave them alone happy.gif
hair products
please no humping
177emories
just like kissing and like hugging for a short time i slie okay but when they start touching each other or like make out like mad, than yeha they should get a room, i do't wanna seee ppl all over each other in the public, there are kids around..
xquizit
Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.
im___radx
as long as its not in a park loaded with youngins, then i guess its fine. i get in trouble a lot for pda's at school, i hug one of my friends and then the teacher blows their whistle while screaming 'P.D.A!!!!' they over react constantly. rolleyes.gif
twistedfate
QUOTE
please no humping


lolz i agree, that's just too far
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
it's fine if you don't go too far .. there's a fine line between showing affection and love and being disrespectful in public.
mznina
QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ May 28 2004, 11:18 AM)
it's fine if you don't go too far .. there's a fine line between showing affection and love and being disrespectful in public.

correct..

one day i was at starbucks, id ont kno about u guys, but at our starbucks we have sofas and stuff,, there was this couple, they looked like they were literally having sex on the couch, giving massages..and she was stadleing (spel ck) him. its like they didnt care what ppl thought!
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
QUOTE(mznina @ May 28 2004, 12:18 PM)
correct..

one day i was at starbucks, id ont kno about u guys, but at our starbucks we have sofas and stuff,, there was this couple, they looked like they were literally having sex on the couch, giving massages..and she was stadleing (spel ck) him. its like they didnt care what ppl thought!

wow that's way too much .. being THAT affection should be behind closed doors with the person you love .. no need to be disrespectful in front of other people like that .. i know those starbucks couches are comfy .. but damnn!! that's a little too serious now >_< .. people need to learn to show self control!!
mznina
QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ May 28 2004, 12:22 PM)
wow that's way too much .. being THAT affection should be behind closed doors with the person you love .. no need to be disrespectful in front of other people like that .. i know those starbucks couches are comfy .. but damnn!! that's a little too serious now >_< .. people need to learn to show self control!!

lol they sure r comfy, lol but yeh u r right, it was just gross, they also has an audience. lol it was bad.

when my boyfriend holds me around the waist at the movie theaters or something i think thats already tooo much affection. i just cant belive people would do what i saw at starbucks!
ThePrincessofTKD
when i see couples holding hands or give kisses on the cheeks...i wonder what they have done lately to get that far.. rolleyes.gif

but if they start cuddling too much...if i`m in a good mood...i smile. if not, i glare at them or do worse. _smile.gif
illuminessence
Hmm...I am so used to PDA's cuz of my high school. I mean...ppl have sex in the damn bathroom! I see a lot of ppl feeling up on each other during lunch and eventually, I throw my own lunch away cuz it's just...so innapropriate. Eew...it's sweet to know you couples express your love through rubbing against each other as other ppl eat next to you. sick.gif pinch.gif
tinababy143
i think kissing and cuddling and everything is appropriate..but when it gets to feeling each other up and taking clothes off thats just wrong
charismatic_chick
while in school... me and my boyfriend will say bye to each other when we get to class... hug... kiss... then bye... it pisses me off most of the time when people we don't even know are yelling to the world "GET A ROOM!" it's not like we're doing anything serious! goodness gracious! usually me and my boyfriend will just play it off and smile because we don't wanna be rude... but when people start calling us names is when they push it too far!

the phrase "get a room" isn't a good choice of words anyways... they're actually making it worse for the couple!
NostalgicRockChick
i think passing people making out in the hallways is extrememly awkward and uncomfortable... dunno why.
MrTurtle
i`m not gonna be hypocritical. i think its nobodys business. if you have a problem with it, walk away. me and my boyfriend try not to do it in school but when we're outside, we dont care, we`ll make out forever.
lemonlina
Holding hands and cuddling are fine... but once they start making out it's like, "please, get a room for or go somewhere private." xP
LatinaLady
i picked
don't care. it's their business. not mine.

i dont mind. i do that when i have a b/f so yeah. lol. love it. why not show that person you "love" anywhere. not like your having sex
sweetlyz
to a certain point yeh i don`t care .. but gawd, if yOo start groping each other in places or in a way tOo intimately .. PLEASE get a rOom! No one needs to see that. I remember seeing this HUGE white girl and this scrawny, twig-like, white guy groping each other and kissin each other and tryin to lift each others` shirts up right in front of the damn theater! EWWW!! talk about scarred for life!! YUCK!
Kathleen
Hey...I don't care if stuff happens...just not me. I'll be minding my own business, walking the hallways of my school, reviewing quiz questions in my head when I see some random couple sticking their tongues down each other's throat in the corner. Then, I become so scarred that I forget my quiz facts. stubborn.gif
cleec
One of my friends and her boyfriend are all over eachother in school, first it was cute oh two people in their first stages of romance but now it's just gross. They grope eachother and feel eachother up in the middle of the halls all the while sucking eachother's faces

Uck. Develop some morals.
rOckThISshYt
QUOTE(sweetlyz @ May 28 2004, 9:24 PM)
to a certain point yeh i don`t care .. but gawd, if yOo start groping each other in places or in a way tOo intimately .. PLEASE get a rOom! No one needs to see that. I remember seeing this HUGE white girl and this scrawny, twig-like, white guy groping each other and kissin each other and tryin to lift each others` shirts up right in front of the damn theater! EWWW!! talk about scarred for life!! YUCK!

yeah... groping in public is so wrong. but just hooking up is fine, i think.
Spirited Away
QUOTE(xquizit @ May 28 2004, 8:35 AM)
Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

YES! Will somebody please think of the children?

My innocent little cousin, as annoying as she is, saw two teens making out on the bus... now she keeps on asking me about it... I wanted to pulverize those two kids.

I think that it's rude showing that kind of affection in public. If you don't care for your own image, then at least respect your partner, because people will think "what a sl_t" or something like that. If neither of you respect each other, then think about the children.
Viggen
Someone said in an earlier post that it is nobody's business to care about if they do it in public. I agree there but you just can't help not noticing it, and there will be people who will be offended by it anyway. Even if you do it right in the middle of a shopping mall with kids running around. Now what kind of example are you setting for those kids when they see some ass-rubbing and tongue action going on there? How do you feel in front of those mothers, fathers, and older seniors? Yeah they would not give a shit, another than they will think you just don't have any morals, period.

There is a time and place for everything. Hugs and a hand-holding walk is tolerable, kissing and tongue action stays out of public sight.
asdf
QUOTE(xquizit @ May 28 2004, 8:35 AM)
Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

i agree whistling.gif
Just_Dream
I piced 3. I don't care. It's there busines not mine.

COnsidering the fact that I'm always hugging my boyfriend and yea. I also hold his hand.. and kiss him on the cheek, a peck that is. I don't make out in school or anything. And I give him a peck on the lips =) That's about it. And usually that's duing passing period when I go to 3rd period and 5th and 6th lol. just a peck. No harm done. But when people are making out or touching each other all over their body or when a guy has his hands up the girls shirt (and I've seen that before eww PDA PDA!), it's a little.. too much. But hey, it's there business. Whatever they do, they might regret it later on becuase the guy who had his hand up the girl's shirt... they broke up later. And also, if they get caught, oh well, they shouldn't have been doing that. BUT, a vice-principal omg.. that lady (good thing she don't work at my school any more).. she said I looked like 'I was doing my bed stuff" when ALL I gave my bf was a HUG. She yanked my arm it hurted pinch.gif Grr no wonder EVERYONE hated her.. even teachers lol
s o o o CONFUSED
i think if it is like holding hands and huggin it koo but if it is like makeing out i think they could wait until they were in a private place to do that


like one time i was shopping and dis chica was bitin hurrr hubbies lip and stuff like all in ma way off shoppin lol tongue.gif
pikimoo
Well, it's okay to a certain point. Hugging and kissing is okay. But my friend and his girlfriend stand in the middle of the street next to an elementary school making out and he puts his hands in her shirt and starts massaging her boobs. That's just not right.
Ugh. I also hate it when you walk by people who are making out and they just stop and start glaring at you like you interrupted them. So annoying...
Sex in public is bad. o.O;
liSSa_x0
i picked #4. i think when they hold hands, hug, maybe kisses on the cheek or quick pecks, that's cute. but when they're all out making out (like i saw some people doing at dorney park) that's just gross. then it's like "get a room!" tongue.gif
simply_mehehe
its their business...........and yes we will hope that children aren't looking...........so long is it doesn't involve getting in ppls way or groping/humping what not thats just a lil disturbing there...........i mean me and my boo just give a lil peck thats showin affection enough..........if you guys really love each other then you don't have to show affection like that especially in front of children
hOeyx3
it`s really whatever. i mean, i like to biggrin.gif hehe but i keep it down to holdinq hands, holdinq each other, or little kisses. but sometimes i like to nibble wink.gif muhahaha..

but it qets qross when they make out or qrab her ass or anythinq else... *shudder*
onenonly101
i don't like it. it is okay to give a light kiss, but do not make oput in the hallways and try to cop a feel on your girl. that bothers me. Or on the side of the street...
rOckThISshYt
pda kicks ass!!! i do it and i love it. but it does get to a point where it's all like... ahhh!
vivieeeen
hands up shirt is a nono


... actually, hands up anywhere except the waist or hands or back is a NONO
hybrid
My choice speaks for itself.

Its their business. Not mine. _dry.gif
mai_z
i think it's cute....i mean like massive groping.....not in public, but holding hands, kissing, i think it's all really cute...i have this one friend who really hates it tho....it's sorta funny
ComradeRed
QUOTE(xquizit @ May 28 2004, 8:35 AM)
Personally, I don't do PDAs cuz I'd like to think that I'm a lady with manners and class. Short kisses and holding hands and hugging is ok, but anything past that I think is inappropriate. I mean, young children could be watching you.

Young children... and BIG BROTHER!!

Come in to the light, Winston... You must...
ComradeRed
QUOTE(Kathleen @ May 28 2004, 8:28 PM)
Hey...I don't care if stuff happens...just not me. I'll be minding my own business, walking the hallways of my school, reviewing quiz questions in my head when I see some random couple sticking their tongues down each other's throat in the corner. Then, I become so scarred that I forget my quiz facts. stubborn.gif


At least that's not in my school... that would just be WEIRD if that happened...

You need to assert yourself more. Punch them both and yell "FEAR ME!!!!" then walk away quitely whisteling a Nazi march or the Soviet National Anthem.
islandkiss
I have no problem with it. with p.d.a you could express your emotions and stuff. it's kind of cute when you think about it.. just as long as they like aren't really GOING FOR IT in public.
someflipguy
Okay...im all for the hugging and kissing..but making out in front of everone is a little over board..maybe take it to your car..or something...just prefrably dont want to see it...
ComradeRed
QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ May 28 2004, 11:25 PM)
YES! Will somebody please think of the children?

My innocent little cousin, as annoying as she is, saw two teens making out on the bus... now she keeps on asking me about it... I wanted to pulverize those two kids.

I think that it's rude showing that kind of affection in public. If you don't care for your own image, then at least respect your partner, because people will think "what a sl_t" or something like that. If neither of you respect each other, then think about the children.

"Won't you PLEASE think of the children?" is quite possibly the single most overused bad argument in the world.
Mireh
As long as they don't bother me...its all coo'.

and as long as they don't start calling each other like "shmuckums" or "babyface" or anything...yea..
Spirited Away
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Jun 24 2004, 9:03 AM)
"Won't you PLEASE think of the children?" is quite possibly the single most overused bad argument in the world.

Ah, overused, overrated, overstated, whatever the case may be, it still makes a heck lot of sense. To me at least.

I get uncomfortable seeing two people tounging and groping each other in public, and I'm not even a kid. I wouldn't want any children to be subjected to something they are not mature enough to understand.
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