QUOTE(cassjamminx @ Aug 8 2006, 11:16 PM)

^ i agree. vaginal, oral, and anal are all forms of sex, hence why they're all called "vaginal sex, oral sex, anal sex.."
but when it comes to sex and losing your virginity, i personally believe that you lose your virginity when engaging in vaginal sex, not oral sex (if it's what your first do) because it doesn't tear the hymen.
that's just me.
Actually, I read somewhere that to keep girls virgins in some cultures, they encourage anal and oral until they are married.

For the life of me, I can't remember where I read that.

They don't consider it sex. I don't either. Sex is meant for reproduction. Oral and anal are for pleasure. They are also unnatural. Sex is natural.