Is it right to be jealous of your friend who is super close to your 'crush'? If not, what do you do so you won't get jealous?

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It's not WRONG. Jealousy is a common feeling among all of us. It's alright to feel jealous...I mean, afterall, it's your crush. As long as you don't go bilistic and bitchy on your friend, then it's alright, but you might want to confront your friend about it (but if you think she's one of those people who won't take it serious, and start laughing, then don't).

For me, when I get jealous, I just start making a list of positive things about me so I feel better, and my self esteem is higher.

Its not wrong to feel jealous but it is wrong to not trust your friend. IDK if your friend knows that you have a crush on him but if you keep feeling jealous than explain to him/her the situation and he/she will probably try to hook u guys up =D. Theres nothing you can do to not feel jealous, its just something that happens but you can control it

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Thats the fun of it!

Being jealous is just being human.

jealousy is a natural feeling its not bad to feel jealous of your friend once in a while. if you really feel bothered by ur friend being so close to your crush why dont you tell her that you like him? maybe if you tell her she might back off a lil.

jealousy is fine. especially when they're friends with someone you have a crush on cuz you want to be close to that person.

but personally, i wouldn't be jealous, i would use it to my advantage. if your friend knows about your crush, then organize group dates so then you can be good friends with him too. get my drift?

jealously is a common thing to feel but when it comes to feeling jealous over a friend that is 'super; close to your crush you shouldnt blame her[?] b/c its really your fault for not putting any effort into trying to know your crush yourself.

Look, it isn't right to be jealous or envious of anyone... Yes, jealousy is normal and common, but does it mean that its right.

I would say this: Being jealous of your friend is to be expected, especialy if she is really close to your crush, but it doesn't mean that it's right. If you don't want to envy her. I suggest you get to know your crush. Talk to him for a while, ask him what he's doing after school, see if he wants to hang out, Become his friend, and then maybe ask him out on a few dates (you may find that you don't like him as much once you get to know him). Don't be jealous, you have all the time in the world. You have the rest of your life to find someone, and there will be pleanty of crushs to come. Chances are that he is not the one. You really shouldn't worry about it. If sparks fly, they will and if they don't well... WHO CARES... You are bound to meet or come into contact with thousands of guys throughout your life. ou are guarenteed to find someone jsut as cute, and if not cuter.

it's natural to feel jealousy.
if your friend is close to your crush, when not be even better friends with him.
hang out with him more often.

when i first met my ex, i said
'jealousy is a sign for affection for the other person'.

damn, it wasn't worth being jealous.

it's not wrong, but it's not right. but what the hell, we're human. and it's something most people go through. i guess to help you i'd say they're close friends, so what? that doesn't necessarily mean since they're so close they're in any way attracted to each other unless you ask yourself.

the same thing happened to me and it's not wrong to be jealous and you should talk to your friend. and just as long as she has no feelings for your crush then everything is A OKAY

I get jealous when other girls flirt with my husband..but I know he wouldn't do anything and pretty much tells them he has a wife 100% of the time.
Its just like c'mon..can't you see my rock?!? Back Off. Sheesh. Get your own man.
Anywhoo..Get closer too him than your best friend then. Try and get to know him better. Don't call him like a million times a day like I did with my first crush at 10yrs old. lol. Poor guy.
But yeah, try and just be better friends with him..also does she know you like him??

I'd definitly be jealous.
-but that don't make it right!

-why not all of you guys go out together.
-double date...whutevers!
-your friend knows you like him, so tell her to hook you up.

It's not wrong to be jealous over that. I would probably be a little jealous too, depending on the friend. If she knows you like him, and the friendship happened after u told her, maybe she's beginging to like him or something. IDK really, sorry..

Not wrong, but you shouldn't let it get in the way. And don't be rude about it. Don't obviously try to get her out of the way. Don't worry. Just stay focused on the prize.

there is nothing wrong being jealous...its perfectly naturally to be jealous of ur friend being super close to ur crush....but just dont let ur jealousy get out of control...

Jealousy is fine to a certain extent. If you stretch it out to far then it pretty bad and it will get bad. When it first starts to happen you should just talk to your partner about it, and it should be fine.

But if you keep it all inside then its not going to be good at all. Although I don't think you should be jealous, honestly. If you know your partner well enough I suppose you just don't see any reason to be..


It takes plenty of time to form a bond like that..

Nothing wrong with that...but I've had it happen to me and it wasn't very pretty.

Me and this girl used to be friends, and she was close friends with her crush. However, me and her crush are friends too.....and over time, we got to be close friends too, and he began to show signs that he likes me. And as a result he started spending less time with her. She got jealous, and even told me to stop being friends with him.....I said no to her because it was a stupid request and really I wasn't purposely doing anything wrong. She acted on her jealousy and cut off the friendship that we had...and of the friendship she had with her crush.

I'd say if you are very jealous of your friend becoming super close with your crush, have a heart to heart talk with your friend, and don't make it sound like she's doing this on purpose to hurt you. If she's a good friend, then she will listen to your side.

Its not wrong to be jealous.It comes off naturally.It ain`t like you stop being her friend or ruin it for the two.

It's not right to feel jealous, but it's not wrong either. It's just human.

If you don't want anything to happen between your friend and your guy, tell her. But tell her only if you know that you will do something about your feelings for sure.

It's really juvenile to let jealousy consume you.

If you like this guy, do something about it. Don't sit back and be jealous of the people who are close to him. People don't become close to others by sitting on their ass and admiring from afar. You have to put yourself out there, talk to him, and get close to him.

It depends how jealous you are.

If you envy your good friend with a rich husband who are both hardworking and live next to a wonderful ocean, you're a a complete selfish bitch.

why cant you be proud of your own friend? they try hard. they deserve the best.

it's natural to be jealous... but if you start getting all paranoid and accusing your friend of things, then that's wrong.

having a friend that's close to your crush can be useful though. they can get inside info

In your case it`s ok to be jealous.
I would hang around with that person
more to get closer to your crush