I doubt ALL boys are like that.

agreed. oral sex is a form of sex, and what she said about the doctors is true.

if you're with someone who only wants one thing, well that's just that person. and if you keep finding someone like that.. then that's bad luck. because i know guys who aren't like that. it's just a stereotype on guys i think. because not ALL guys are like that.

Uh oh. Someone's bitter.

not all boys do i can promise you thatt.

So I guess masturbating is sex as well - because, you kow, a finger "penetrates" your vagina.

Unless his penis has entered your vagina, you haven't had "sex".

Anyway, back on topic: guys want sex because they're horny little bastards. Find a real man who will respect you regardless of your wishes to not have sex.

Or atleast a mature boy.

I don't know. It really annoys me when I find out a guy's using a girl for sex. I don't see women like that, but I guess that's just the way I view women. I always see women as a friend first, not an automatic "Oh, baby, I'll hit that." Sometimes if a girl's flirting with me, someone will have to slap me over the head and tell me she is before I realize because I'll just think she's being friendly. Unless she's, you know, doing the "extreme" flirting.

Ah. I am the same way. I hate the way some people disrespect women. I also sometimes can't tell when a girl is flirting with me.

Hormones, developing bodies, sexual exploration, etc, etc...

That should answer the question.