medic
Aug 26 2006, 09:02 PM
America does not want you to be thin. Considering that a large percent of Americans are actually over weight, it is the fashion industry that puts a heavy hit on it. Don't blame it on just one country.
fameONE
Aug 26 2006, 09:30 PM
Civilians are fat and disgusting.
Kathleen
Aug 26 2006, 10:06 PM
^ Haha. Gee, thanks.
My self-esteem went down about twenty points.
fameONE
Aug 26 2006, 10:30 PM
^No prob.
Seriosuly, I'm tired of all these schemes and programs to help people lose weight. It comes down to personal resonposibility. I've watched people, single-handedly, lose 50 punds in 3 months by doing simple physical training (running, pull ups, crunches). So when people complain about their weight, I'm not moved. They deserve to be fat and nasty.
bobby james
Aug 26 2006, 10:51 PM
^^ True. A lot of the obesity and fat is cause by laziness.
All of my "chubby" girl friends complained about how they wanted to lose weight and change their eating habits. What happens? "Oh, let's go to panda express after school" "let's order pizza for lunch" My one friend would eat something every 30 minutes, she wanted some hot cheetos or was buying some junk food from someone or complaining about her hunger, but then turned around and complained about how fat she was. Tell her to go to the gym and she'll look at you like you're crazy. Oh, but she wants to lose weight. Makes excuses about 'loving their bodies so much and not changing' but deep down my friends are so uncomfortable in their skin, excuses caused by laziness are the worse.
fameONE
Aug 26 2006, 11:53 PM
What people fail to understand is that your physical health is detrimental to a long and healthy life. These fat motherf**kers that walk the street and go from fast food restaurant to fast food restaurant are going to die and make things harder on their paulbearers.
If your plus sized physique is hereditary, that doesn't mean you can't keep in shape. but being fat just to be fat; c'mon now, that shit's lame.
pandamonium
Sep 3 2006, 12:25 AM
American doesnt want us to be thin America wants us to be healthy. We are all supposed to be living around the age 110 or 120 but most of us die premature deaths like around 60 -80 cause we eat all these bad foods and the pollution we live with. America just wants the new generation of kids to grow up healthy cause we are all eating this fast food and this bad stuff.
But on the other hand media tends to stretch it too far but show anorexic models like nicole freaking disgusting richie.
HakunaMatata
Sep 4 2006, 06:21 PM
It's not about being thin, it's about being healthy, like everyone here has said. Food availability here is like, humungously high. I can walk to McDonalds, Jamba Juice, Panda Express, Starbucks, you name it. Donut shop? Shoot, five minute drive. The media does portray that to be pretty, you must be skinny, but I think less and less people are buying that. Ads are coming out by companies like Dove and Adidas that are a tad more realistic.
yrrnotelekktric
Sep 7 2006, 10:45 PM
...because compared to everyone else, america is wambo.
Sheida
Sep 7 2006, 10:53 PM
I do not view larger people in any of those ways. I say if a person has a good personality it should not matter at all what they look like on the outside. I guess people need one more thing to make other peoples lives harder, and to feel less accepted just so they have a feeling of superiority.
But still, people should excersize and eat right to be healthy, not just to fit in.
starlette
Sep 7 2006, 10:56 PM
I can answer this in a simple statement. America is a country of extremes; if fat is bad for you we have to jump to the other end of the scale. People have a problem with being in the middle. and not enough people are campaigning to show the world that super skinny is unhealthy as well. So many people only see fat as unhealthy. but like I said, this country doesn't like happy-mediums.
twinkles6801
Nov 27 2006, 04:40 PM
id rather be smaller to be healthier and more comfortabe, but i would rather not feel so unexcepted because i am not slim, its hard enough.
Laughsalot
Dec 1 2006, 09:05 AM
hmmm i think it's the fashion/model society that thinks that girls should have an overall skiiny body. like tiny breasts, butt, waist, arms, legs. but in the hip hop or whatever is all about letting the thighs/ass and breasts grow out naturally while they should have a tiny waist. let everything grow out but keep the waist small kind of thing.
brandewijn
Dec 30 2006, 07:41 AM
Alright. I'm a larger woman. I wasn't once upon a time but that all changed about 3 years ago. :)
I don't see anything wrong with the govt. pushing for a healthier population. You whining about the push to a healthier lifestyle is like whining because I'm a smoker and there are "smoking is bad for you. don't do it" signs every which way I turn.
I'm obese, I'm on my way to a healthier lifestyle and I'm glad that there are people out there pushing people to be healthy. Not just sit around and whine about how it's "in the genes" and not their fault that they ate an entire bag of Reece's Peanut Butter Cups and a pint of Ben & Jerry's last night out of pure boredom. Binging, snacking, unhealthy eating has nothing to do with "genes" or bad metabolism. It has to do with the way you live your life.
I'm an American by birth but I grew up all over Europe. I was always thin until I moved to the US with lovely convenient McDonalds restaurants on every corner whereas in Italy, the closest was 2 hours away. I won't blame it on the food chain either, I blame it on myself.
I'm unhappy with my weight, unhappy with my clothing size and I can't blame it on anyone but myself. If you are overweight/obese and are happy with your appearance then, more power to you!
I don't think every female should be model thin. But obesity is a rising issue and people are getting larger and larger, as are today's children and tomorrow's will be even fatter. I don't think bigger people should be made fun of or looked down upon. But I don't think we should be given special liberties because we are lazy and/or eat too much.
Look at was it Italy or Spain who recently banned models from the runway who are too skinny? No, they didn't want fat models but HEALTHY models! Heroin chic is out. Healthy is in. Now we Americans are always the last to catch on.
Miss[x]Tiff
Dec 30 2006, 01:21 PM
QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 31 2006, 6:26 PM)

well...fat girls look...ugly(no offence). Also being fat/not fit isn't good for you.
It's people like you that upset me. Also how can you say "no offense" to a obviously
offensive comment? T_T
Anyway, as a few people have already said, just because youre thin, doesn't mean youre healthy. I know pleanty of skinny chicks out there who can't go up 5 flights up stairs without stopping. While me, a bigger female, can do it without a problem.
Also, skinny =/= pretty. There are some ugly skinny ladies out there. So don't give me that.
TheRisingSun16
Dec 30 2006, 01:37 PM
I think it has to do with T.V., music, and modeling. Everywhere you look you see skinny girls barely wearing clothes. It's pretty sickening that America sees this as the "natural woman." I'm not overweight, but you still won't see me in a skanky outfit. So actually it's an insult to just about every girl out there...
lightsabersavvy
Dec 30 2006, 01:41 PM
well it's pretty much americas fault, in my opinion. honestly. you could feed like everything in the world with all these fast food restaurants around. and the problem is that it's almost like it's available to everyone, because it's so cheap. and it doesn't help that there are huge servings of it all. people back then were just naturally thin because, hey, they had to do all the work and they had to go find other stuff to do rather than just sit inside on the computer, playing video games, watching tv, etc.
and i don't think america necessarily 'puts down' over weight people, but it is unhealthy. me, i'm not thin. ha. i weigh a lot, actually, but i don't really look it. i have a lot of muscle, is all. it kind of dissapoints me how i get heavier even though i think i look thinner.
okay, now i'm ranting. but yeah. some people just can't help it.
Joss-eh-lime
Dec 30 2006, 02:28 PM
It's just the media using skinny girls to be the front person of every commerical,
magazine, business, or tv show to imprint in our minds what the right way to look is.
It's true, before our time a curvier physique was better, but I'm sure even then
there were many who couldn't measure up. Whats desired in socitey changes
& they are usually only a small amount of people who can achieve "the look".
I think the best thing anyone can do is just strive to feel confident in themselves
and be healthy at the same time.
vash1530
Jan 3 2007, 11:44 PM
bcuz tha country is too fuckiin fat as a whole
My Cinderella.
Jan 3 2007, 11:46 PM
I understand that America doesn't their people to be overweight, but it doesn't mean they have to be toothpick skinny. I think its just society and the media that makes people feel that way.
redmoonflower
Jan 4 2007, 01:16 AM
I find this stupid Skeleton=MODEL!! Regular to heavy set girl=LOSE WEIGHT YOUR UGLY! I get sick of everyone saying that their fat!! But, also we have an obesity problem and it needs to be fixed, but going skeleton isnt good to your health.. you could even die but no one is seeing this. When people say "Obesity Strikes America" people start to think "Ohhh , my, gosh!! I'm one of those fat people who need to lose weight." Also the supermodel approach isnt helping either, sticking your finger down your throat to lose weight! it disgust me!! I mean.. I look tiny on the top but I have thighs and butt!! I cant change that, I know it. But, this is just outrageous.. and then they also blame it on stress... Yeah.. ok.. stress it hard, its takes it toll, but making yourself throw up over stress is dumb...
AngelinaTaylor
Jan 4 2007, 04:25 PM
QUOTE
Tiff' date='Dec 30 2006, 1:21 PM' post='2392307']
It's people like you that upset me. Also how can you say "no offense" to a obviously offensive comment? T_T
Anyway, as a few people have already said, just because youre thin, doesn't mean youre healthy. I know pleanty of skinny chicks out there who can't go up 5 flights up stairs without stopping. While me, a bigger female, can do it without a problem.
Also, skinny =/= pretty. There are some ugly skinny ladies out there. So don't give me that.
He's right about the part that if you're skinny, you're more likely to be healthy than if you're grossly overweight.
Come on, being fit is always better. You don't have to be super-skinny to do that either.
miiichellley
Jan 4 2007, 06:35 PM
It's weird how we're all under pressure to be so thin yet what do Americans seem to eat all day? Fast food, junk food, high calories, high sodium, high carbohydrates, the list goes on. I hate it when people like models or anorexics or bolemics (sp?) force themselves to be toothpicks, but it annoys me when people don't watch out for their weight and get totally obese. So best advice..eat on a steady diet and excercise, but not too much.. to keep yourself in shape.
voguelove
Jan 7 2007, 07:48 PM
maybe it's because we're sick of the sterotype, "americans are fat."
miiichellley
Jan 7 2007, 09:34 PM
Also 'cause people think they'll look like a sexy supermodel if they shrink it down when it just makes them look like a retarded chopstick.
NYCin2009
Jun 2 2007, 11:52 PM
I think most it comes from Hollywood and our idolization of celebs. Most stars are often concerned about their weight, which makes us think that we should also be concernedd with our weight. I do agree that people should have some care about their weight, that doesn't mean we should all be thin, but it means that we should all want to be healthy.
Also, some of it probably comes from the us thinking that we need to me thinner since studies have shown that within the past few generations we are getting larger. America is also probably wanting to get ride of the recently increasingly popular stereotype that america is fat.
nishikigoi
Jun 13 2007, 10:20 PM
I think it's annoying when people say skinny people are unattractive, or blah blah. Maybe the focus should be more on overall health and WHY someone is at the weight they're at. What is leading them to their consumption, or lack, of food.
tilanguyenar
Jun 14 2007, 12:41 PM
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MyMichelle
Jun 14 2007, 03:24 PM
Because thin is beautiful and sexy and the only thing that tastes good. That's why.
SenorClean
Jun 14 2007, 05:40 PM
America would love it if you are fat. That way you buy more fast food from big businesses. and Cha Ching, Mo money!
USCavalry
Jun 14 2007, 11:14 PM
i don't have anything against fat girls, they just simply aren't as attractive as not fat girls. though you ask the question: "Why does America want us to be so thin?" why would you prefer being fat?
elaboratedream
Jun 22 2007, 04:54 PM
America doesn't want us to be "so thin".
America wants us to be a healthy weight.
Most people don't find people who are freakishly thin attractive, and most people don't find people who are fat attractive.
That's how it is. You're not gonna change it.
So you have three options:
1. You can bitch about it and blame all your problems on modern society
2. You can exercise, eat less, maybe even try using a weight loss pill (alli is the only FDA aproved one, but there are plenty out there) or if non of those work, get some sort of surgery
OR
3. You can get over it and be happy with who you are.
lorrytruck;
Jun 23 2007, 12:25 PM
QUOTE
maybe it's because we're sick of the sterotype, "americans are fat."
I completely agree. The first word that comes to mind as synonymous with America nowadays is FAT and OBESE. This may be a bit harsh to hear, but it's the truth. I was so appalled when I first arrived here (in Oregon) and noticed that only ONE person in my ENTIRE school was fat; contradictory to common belief that it's FULL of fat people. But then again, it's Oregon, right?
And according to statistics (USA):
- Eight out of 10 over 25's Overweight
- 58 Million Overweight; 40 Million Obese; 3 Million morbidly Obese
- 78% of American's not meeting basic activity level recommendations
- 70% of Cardiovascular disease related to obesity
- 30% of gall bladder surgery related to obesity
In the USA, for example (2005 statistics), only four states out of 50 have obesity rates below 20 percent, and 17 had obesity rates above 25 percent.Be healthy!
WaterMelon_Chicken_N_Grits
Jun 26 2007, 02:32 AM
OOOoook. Let me start by saying LOL @ retarded chopstick. Anyway,I think it's not so much America as it is the media. The image of beauty is so thin you can see your heart beating if your a women, and so ripped your veins are comin out of your head if your a guy. Thank GOD there are more people like Beyonce and Mariah Carey, who are embracing their curves. The thing that I do not see the media doing, is placing importance on being healty. THIN does not = HEALTHY. To me there is nothing wrong with having meat on your bones unless it begins to cause health concerns. I do not agree with people bashing and ridiculing people for being overweight, but overlooking the fact that there are all these high sugar, and processed foods that are clearly unhealthy but so obtainable because they dont cost much at all or within arms reach at a burger barn or a corner store. In America it cost money to be healthy, people who cannot afford to be healthy aren't, thin or meaty. People who can afford to be healty may not choose to because they have money to indulge.
As far as THIN=PRETTY and FAT=UGLY, thats where I draw the line. In the African-American community, we embrace curves. I am thick or solid w/e you want to call it :D. Thickness can range from Beyonce to Tocara. You can definately be meaty and be beautiful. Monique shits on most of the skinny hefas. She can dress her ass off and there is nothing ugly about her. There is pretty and ugly in all shapes big or small. I have seen some skinny people who look like night of the living dead and there is nothing pretty about that.
In the end its all buisness, money people fatten Americans with harful foods sold in markets and fast food chains across the country, then after they blow them up, they want them to go out and spend lots of money on diet products that promise to "get you to lose 10lbs in two days". And what do we as Americans do, we buy into it. >_< My mission is to save people from this vicious cycle, I am going to culinary school and I am going to open a resturant that serves fast and healty food in the heart of the inner-city where it is needed most.
And no matter what size you are strive to be healthy and not thin. THIN does not equal pretty.
medic
Jun 26 2007, 04:21 PM
Why is automatically America that wants everyone to be thin? I am pretty sure the fashion industry and private corporations are the ones who started the "loose weight" campaigns, and not all of them are American based.
It is also funny that we are the most obese country in the world. So if we want everyone to be thin, we are not doing to well.
steve330
Jun 26 2007, 04:26 PM
because god said so
medic
Jun 26 2007, 07:27 PM
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 26 2007, 04:26 PM)

because god said so
This coming from a Texan, I trust your judgment.
WHOngos144
Jun 28 2007, 09:40 AM
I agree with sakaitone
steve330
Jun 28 2007, 09:42 AM
QUOTE(medic @ Jun 26 2007, 07:27 PM)

This coming from a Texan, I trust your judgment.
and rightfully so
Aerjae
Jun 28 2007, 09:43 AM
McDonalds doesnt want to hold responsibility for your fatness. America doen't want you to be skinny. Why? Did she ask you to loose weight?
Trinie
Jun 28 2007, 10:25 AM
im chubby but im not looked down on. :)
i love me. and plus big girls have sexy curves :-P
but i dont think america looks down on fat people. there are plenty of plus sized women who are smart, sexy and are even models too. :)
steve330
Jun 28 2007, 12:14 PM
America doesn't look down on fat people because half the people are fat.
austinoutloud
Jun 28 2007, 12:26 PM
i think it's wierd that we have a problem with people being too thin AND too fat at the same time.
steve330
Jun 28 2007, 12:29 PM
I don't. Both are unhealthy. Gotta get justttttt right.
Mercy
Jun 30 2007, 04:32 AM
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 26 2007, 09:26 PM)

because god said so
Silly texan,dosnt your state only have 5 thin people and a bunch of my peoples living there?
As for I,I embrace thickness and curves as im latina and along with the afican americans,we arent biased towards plus size or curvy people.
There are truely some gorgeous BBW's out there,and its a shame that America TRIES to overlook them.
illriginal
Jun 30 2007, 06:21 AM
QUOTE(glorwen @ Jul 31 2006, 04:22 PM)

I mean, seriously. I, myself am not thin and I never will be. I have a large family, and I have a really bad metabolism.
Besides, back in medevil (sp?) times, women who were heavier-set were viewed as healthier, and ble to bear better sons... not that I want that last part... XD
So, this raises the question; why do Americans feel the need to look down upon us larger girls, and think that we aren't pretty, aren't as smart, can't do as many things, etc.?
Uhm.. Global Warming?
I don't know, maybe because it's better for their health. Plus do you know how uncomfortable it is just to be overweight? I do bulking and cutting phases in my diets and gym routine. So changing from thin/rip to fat/soft back and forth at least 1 a year, you'll easily notice a difference.
Prior to becoming a health freak, I used to be overweight. Was 245lbs and my blood pressure was actually high lol.
After the doc told me my vitals, I decided to join the gym, and hit the gym hard :D
I did cardio twice a day everyday except for sundays.
I would wake up at 5:45 AM and be at gym by 6:00AM. Start my cardio (treadmill) and run for a minimum of 30 minutes. Unless I do HIIT, which is something to do for at max 15 minutes, unless you're an athlete. Go home and take a shower, eat breakfast, and go to work.
Then after work (which was random hours of the day, most of the time past 5) I would go straight to the gym, change out, and hit the treadmill. For another 30 minutes. Thank God MP3 players existed back then :D
I love being thin, having huge bursts of energy, waking up feeling fresh and energetic etc...
So getting on a diet, isn't anything to be ashamed about. It's basically your responsibility to take care of your own body/health. If not, you'll just let yourself go and die from your own poisoning.
queen
Jun 30 2007, 06:31 AM
^ that's true, but i think the topic hints about the shallow aspect of being overweight. it's just in the general consensus (at least in america) that thin people are "more attractive". you could be a healthy thick person(which, granted, are pretty rare), and you'd still be looked down upon.
illriginal
Jun 30 2007, 06:41 AM
QUOTE(synkro @ Jun 30 2007, 07:31 AM)

^ that's true, but i think the topic hints about the shallow aspect of being overweight. it's just in the general consensus (at least in america) that thin people are "more attractive". you could be a healthy thick person(which, granted, are pretty rare), and you'd still be looked down upon.
Oh well in that case... hell yeah Americans are shallow. And I'll admit, I'm just as shallow. But the reason being is.. the first attraction is physical, second is personality, third is intelligence, and finally forth is her (and do not get offended ladies) womanly duties.
On top of that I have standards for a
dime chick that turns me on just lookin at her sexy self while listening to her intellectual opinion(s) :D
xKatt
Jul 1 2007, 09:13 PM
QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jul 31 2006, 05:26 PM)

well...fat girls look...ugly(no offence). Also being fat/not fit isn't good for you.
Um. How can she not take offense to that, honestly? And it looks like you need to step out of the debate forum if you're going to type up a post with the merit of a 1st grader.
I read an article once that said that people who are "fat" are not necessarily unhealthy. In fact some larger people are much healthier than some slimmer people. Seriously! I'm 5'5 and 99 pounds. Does that make me any healthier than a girl who's 5'5 and 130 pounds? Not at all!!
Believe me. I am the biggest pig you'll ever meet and I don't play any sports. I'm lazy and I eat candy and cake and brownies like no other.
It's something called heredity, my friend. And it works both ways. I know someone who's the complete opposite of me. She's athletic, is always involved in sports, eats just as much as she needs to and on a strictly healthy diet. But ... she's what you might call "fat". But she's lightyears more healthy than I am!
And America's not the only country that wants people to be thin. It's really hard to explain it. Sometimes people create a stereotype about fat people, like they're lazy or eat too much and those traits are unattractive.
If you're fat, be fat and proud damnit! Don't starve yourself or go on crash diets or anything that strays from a regular, healthy lifestyle. I know this is going to sound as cliche as anything, but having confidence will matter a hell of a lot more than a slim figure.
SinfullySweet
Jul 2 2007, 03:13 AM
You guys can't hold fast food restaraunts for america's obesity. They're not shoving food in our faces.
We choose to eat it. Sure, Mc Donalds is unhealthy, but the person that decides to eat it is their own fault, you can go around pointing fingers "MC DONALDS MADE US FAT" No idiot. You ate their food.
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