Okay..i've been with my current boyyfriend for over a year..and i used to be so happy with him..lately all we do is fight and i find that im not attracted to him as much anymore..and hes also done a couple things to make me lose my trust in him and he hasnt done anything to gain it back...then...

my ex boyyfriend..he was my first boyyfriend and my first love and i know i will always have feelings for him..but i am totally attracted to him and i miss him and i want to be with him and just the other night after 3 years of us not talking at all he IMed and called me because he wanted to tell me he loved me..but he also has done a lot of things to make me lose trust in him..

anyway..im wondering who should i choose?? im shure alot of you will say "dont choose either..stay single.." but i dont want to be single right now..and i need to choose...

hopefully that made sense..please help..

Go with your heart. That's the easiest way to put it. Go with what your heart yearns for.

i dont realli know how to go with my heart..a lot of ppl tell me that..but i cant..my head always gets in the way and my head tells me both haha

stay with ur current bf, but if he still does things to lose ur trust, choose your ex.

Kill them. Kill them all. See that they are all smitten by your own hand.

maybe you can do that instead.

That's what I would do.

erff........love is confuseing, buh wen you get it rrrite it will all be worth it

think of it in this way... which one do you really love? who could you see yourself being with.. ask yourself questions!

well i've always pictured my ex and i being together for the rest of our lives..and yess i know the word "love" is thrown around like its nothing..but i dont know..my ex and i have always had a certain connection..he even said it the other night and well...but just this afternoon we were talking and he totally blew me off and yelled at me and everything..i dont know..but thanks to those of you who gave me advice..