I have/had a "bestfriend" that i haven't talked to for a long time. like 1 year now.
i guess that suits me because i ruined his life.
eversince that time i told him about his gf issues last 3 years ago.
everything was falling apart for him.
i figured that if i leave him alone he would be in a better place.
it's been a long time we didn't bond together.
and i miss that.
now that im leaving to go to Philippines this 31 of july
which also is his birthday
the problem is:
im so confused and sad about this whole thing.
should i call him to say goodbye and happy birthday and i'll see next time?
but one thing also is that
im scared.
from all the stuff that i've been hearing about him
i just got the urge not to talk to him but at the same time i want to
im scared that im going to destroy his life if i ever talk to him
and im also scared because he's not the one i met anymore.
i know i should take my chances.
but everything is so hard.
yes. i was sorry for all the things i did.
i don't know if i did something
but everything happens because of me. that's what i feel.
last time i talked to him
was just too awkward because it's the first time that he called me and thanked me.
everytime we talk it's always so fast.
no convos that really goes on.

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Nevermind. You beat me Dani...

how did you ruin his life? i'm sorry, i don't really understand....is he angry with you?

no he's not angry.
okay.
1. i helped him get with her gf back
then they fought after 8 months and broke up again.
then he got with this girl whom i also know then they broke up because of the first girl
then now everytime i talk to him
he always gives me the feeling
get the f**k off my life
so im yeah..
everything...
very confusing

Look, It's not your fault... I don't know what else to say

*sigh* w.e.

^ x2 yeah, i agree. it doesn't look like it's your fault.

you helped him, and...he seems awkward around you?

well, nothing much you can do there...unless you want to talk to him about it.

you guys don't understnd.
nevermind
someone close dis now.

um i say call him n say happy b-day n goodbye since he did called u once to say thnk u n stuff. then like jus let him kno wat's bin bothering u bsides it's not ur fault cuz u helped him wit his love life he should b thnking u instead

Either you don't understand your own issues, or you aren't explaining it all/well-enough... No-one seems to be understanding the severity of the issue. Instead of telling people to close the topic why don't you either....

Choices:

1: EXPLAIN THE SITATION BETTER SO WE UNDERSTAND.

or...

2: ACCEPT THAT IT ISN'T YOUR FUALT.