I was going out with my now ex for a month and a half and all that he did was put his arm around me when i met HIS friends (i felt like he only did it cuz of them) and i grabed his hand ONCE and he freaked out. We r 17!!! is that normal?

he's a pussy.

get over him

he doesnt even have the "manhood" to do that.

NO GOOD! HE SUCKS! PUSSY PUMPER COME QUICK!

hahaha i am over him. i just wanted to see if i was weird for thinking that was unusual. he still dosn't talk to me for breaking up w/ him

i think that is super immature of him

and i am 14. even the annoying immature boys in my grade aren't like that.

i know! i can be a better dude than that filfthy dirtbag.

Most guys are more affectionate? Passionate? Hands on?
There was something with the guy, Maybe he had a deep secret and didn't want you to discover anything..that rules out any chance of a future marriage without being straight forward!

Yeah guys don't take that long to get comfortable with a girl usually, unless he had some wierd expierence with girls in the past.

maybe you have sweaty hands.

He most likely has a vagina, you might want to investigate that.

I didn't kiss my first girlfriend for 6 straight months.... I don't know, I guess I just didn't trust her... I shouldn't have either

why did you go out w/ sm1 u didn't trust? and why didn't you trust her?

...or maybe he's just shy/inexperienced and scared?

Poor dude.. grab his dick quick and put it in your mouth.. THEN HE WILL GET THE IDEA!

Worked for me.

lol when i went to spain(i just got back 2 days ago) there was this irish boy called poderick, and he liked me and i didnt know even though everyone said he did, and they were telling me to make a move on him but i said no cuz ive never kissed a boy before, so like i dunno what they planned with him but they got us into a corner and as soon as they went, he came on to me and i backed away cuz he rushed considering he didnt even tell me he liked me or anything, and he was like so ur not ready? and im like no sorry...how did u know i was frigid and he said his sis told him, then i was like oh...then i think i saw him crying and i felt like a horrible b**** and i was like hug? then we hugged for about a minute lolll, next time someone wants to kiss me ill just let him so i can get it over and done with

I THOUGHT SANDRA SAID THAT. :D

It took me like four seconds to get intimate. ._.
Actually, we were getting a bit touchy before we even started going out.

wow.
i think you should've dumped him waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay sooner.

wtf......... hahah he freaked out when you grabed his hand lmao , are you his first girlfriend? maybe give him some time? ask him, the best thing is for both of you to come to an understanding of each other communication key in relationship

.:tony:.

Yes but for him... maybe not.

So a guy has to touch a girl so a relationship would last? I tell ya, that's true haha!

Well if it was his first relationship maybe he didn't want to screw it up with you so he was nervous. Sometimes you don't know how comfortable a girl is with you. Guys get nervous and choke alot we just try to hide it.

Yeah, some of my boyfriends have been SORTA like that...not quite to that extent, more like they were really nervous to slow dance or kiss, but if you really like them you can just kinda talk them through it which is what I did. Your guy, however, sounds pathetic (if ur not his first gf). Seriously, at 17 its ok to hold hands!

the guy i was with...only our close friends knew we were together but even tho they knew...when we were all hanging out or if it was even just a few of us...hed never kiss me in front of other ppl...hed never put his armaround me or hold my hand when we were with other ppl...but he always had his arm around me when we were alone and we held hands when we were alone and of course hed always kiss me when we were alone...and he knew everyone knew ..he was so annoying...he was not shy at all when it was just me n him...and it wasnt like i was his first....hes 21!!