So when I was five, I used to live somewhere completely different than I do now. It's two hours away, but still in the same state. I had this friend, he was like my best friend and our brothers were friends too. But then I moved.

Last summer I found him on myspace. We talked on AIM. He has a girlfriend and apparently has gone through a lot of girlfriends.

For some reason, I really like him. He says he likes me and keeps wanting me to admit that I like him. He tells me everything I'd want to hear. We talk on the phone.

Would it be crazy to like him back, or is this just as naive as online dating? We're not going out or anything but I can't stop thinking about him. He tells me he will visit me soon, and we are going to visit each other soon, maybe when I get my license.

oo so this guy is some kind of smooth talker? well its really hard but it depends on you if you want to be with him or not. it seems like i said a smooth talker and some what of a player. if you are willing to take the risk go for it!. personally i dont like online realtionships or long distance because its hard sometimes for couples to get together on a special occasion if they live far away. but its totally your decesion and if you really like him...

Dont worry about whatever advise anyone here gives you, a bit funny coming from me hehe

I say do what you want and take a chance. How are you ever supposed to learn if you dont make mistakes in life? Take the chance, if it works you'll be very happy, if it doesnt you would have learnt some valuable lessons about how your feelings work

Cya

sounds like ... a player.

he's willin to tell you anything?

there must be some bs-ness that he tells yu.

Online dating doesn't make you naive...

Do what you want and what you think is right, if you like him you like him. But if he does currently have a girlfriend don't get to attached you'll end up getting in the middle of his relationship and may even hurt someone else. Although he likes you now aparently from what he says and if hes in a relationship then its pretty bad already. Yet if he isn't in a relationship at the moment and he likes you and you truly have sorted out your feelings and know you like him, then you can tell him you like him. I'm not promising that somethings going to happen between you two. But how old are both of you?
Because if your older then 15-16 then I think its fine, two hours isn't all that long of a way away.

Cmon, Dont even consider this guy until you meet up with him first! Just keep him hanging and hanging...then when your situation is perfect and you have the resources to see him enough to feel satisfied. Just stick with friends who talk on the phone. Dont admit you like him or else he'll think hes something special.

Okay, I'm still typing what I think, even if it is covered already.. *coughs*

He has a girlfriend right now, so don't get too attatched that this jealousy/anger thing spurts out of you...

&as Holly said... Online dating isn't naive in any way or form... I date my boyfriend via net, but he comes to visit when he can afford it...

Why is it you like him anyway? Is it just OoHh Boy! I like him! Yes! Manlyness! or is there something more behind the reasoning?

Don't let his sweet talking fool you, a lot of guys are like that, some do it just to get what they want...

Make sure you meet up first, and he's SINGLE, before you do anything

Two hours isn't to far away, but if he has a girl and he's leading you on... then he's nothing but a man ho.. ho fo sho

um..........i think u shouldn't put too much hope in this guy cuz he's just telling u wat u wanna hear

i`d say to just get to know
him a little better once you hang
out with him, etc. If you automatically
say yes and stuff without having chances
to be with him, then it could go all wrong.

You can't really have a fling thing in a long distance relationship... your friends, and all of the sudden... well, LETS DO THIS!!!

He has a girlfriend now and wants you to be his instead, so what makes you think he wouldn't do the same to you?

I feel bad for his girlfriend...because he's talking to you behind her back.

My boyfriend talked to a lot of girls online, and told them the right things. These bitches never knew about me. So I MADE myself be known. I hated that he gave his attention to a supposed "friend."

people change.

How do you know for sure that he wouldn't do the same to you?

Most guys get bored easily.

Sorry to be so mean, but I'm just letting you know what's up. Don't be so blind to the obvious.