So I really really like this guy. like no one could understand. we went out for a while before but I messed up. and I realize now how stupid I was. but he likes this other girl a lot;;he says he loves herr, she's one of his ex girls. I know he likes me but not a lot. so what should I do?

Tell him that you like him and you understand that you messed up. But also you need to accept that if he doesn't like you at all and doesn't want to get back with you because of your mistake. Then you need to tell him that its fine, and forgive yourself for what you did and move on.

Well he knows I like him. He likes me back. but I don't want to get back with him if he doesn't like me as much as I like him. well ok he doesn't have to like me exactlly as much as i do.

move along, forget him

There's nothing you can do. Move on.

you could always tell him how you feel, but i can't say that he'll want to get back with you. just forget about it and move on

try getting closer to him. like becoming best friends or something. you learn so much more about each other! but the bad part to that is that you could get hurt BUT the good part is that if he realizes how much you guys can get along, he might like you more!

talk to him... and if it doesnt work out; consider it a lesson learned [b/c you cant FORCE him to like you... A LOT]

From what you wrote and what I presume, both of you are still very premature for a relationship. Well, to be specific, a serious relationship (that is, if that is what you are seeking for). Sure, go ahead, have fun, and experiment! But you guys both seem too young, with an unstable heart, for a sincere relationship.

well thanks all of you. not exactlly the advice I was looking for. geez my sister gives better advice and she sucks at relationships.lol jk but I like what lilannienie92 said.

Then why didn't you go to your sister for advice, dumbnut?

End your relationship. Never go out with a man who loves another woman. That is wrong and any guy who goes out with 2 girls in a LOVE RELATIONSHIP is a mother fucka .. Just end it or if you don't want to, ask your pops.

mmkay so obviously you didn't see the JK part at the end. hello she sucks at relationships.

and I can't talk to my dad he's in Jail and I hate his effing guts. and I would ask my foster dad but um he can't ever be serious.

why is your dad in jail.

long story. he's actually the reason I live in a foster home though. and because of him it's hard for me to get in a serious relationship.

uhm i dont know what else you want people to say if you said you havnt found the right "advice". personally i agree with what everybody says. you cant force someone to like you as much as you like them and you cant expect him to go back out with you all people are diffrent you might forget about certain things but other people wont. and of course you cant keep loving someone if they wont love you back. im sorry about ur father and i hope your future realtionships go good.



and if you really want to go out with ur ex-bf again you need to give him time and start from scratch and prove to him that you are trustworthy and you really love him. but dont pressure him if he wants to go out with other girls you cant tell him not to.

well I`m not trying to force him to like me and I don`t expect him to like me again. I just wanted to know what I should do about it. I don`t know many people because I`m so shy and the people I do know don`t talk to me much. people just don`t like me. so everyone has told me I should move on so I guess I will.

Tell him you like him.Maybe he likes you more than the other girl.

he knows I like him. at first he said that he was more attracted to me but then he said that he wasn't sure and we have plans to hang out but everytime we plan to something comes up.

Maybe he just isn`t worth it....

You can't make someone like you. He has to do it on his own accord. But I know how you feel, I went out with a guy for a while and we broke up and I got all depressed and bla bla. Anyways. If he doesn't like you anymore there isnt anything yo ucan do but be just a friend and move on.

just tell me exactly how u feel... leave nothing out... and then u just wait... dont mess it up for them cuz if u really like him u want him to be happy... and if ya'll are ment to be.. .ti wont work out for him and that other girl

thank you all for your advice and help.I'll use some of it I promise.