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volcom
how do you makeout...is it just frenching over and over again?
how does it work
cassjamminx
is this a question asking "how do you personally do it".. or a "how do you do it, i dont know how" kind of question?

either way, it's just what's up to you. whatever you feel like doing with the kiss is what shall be done happy.gif very funn if i do say so myself. kisses are lovely. and so are make out sessions. lol.
volcom
i dont know how... _unsure.gif ....i was wondering if anyone can explain how they kiss in a makeout session because i need to know soon...lol im 16.
tbabbyx3
go with the flowww
pinayprincess
lol; just ... DO IT... you could say its like frenching over and over again.. but its kind of more to it... its hard to explain wacko.gif
volcom
its sounds hard to go with the flow because im soo nervouse about messing up or being bad at it.

do you keep your mouth open or what i just need to know the basics and i guess i can just go for it
Paradox of Life
OMG. I had the same question!! My (ex) boyfriend was like trying to make out, and I didn't know what to do. I actually didn't really like him, so it didn't come naturally, but if you really like the guy, it will. It's not something you can just explain. I guess it is like frenching over and over, only smooth, and you don't pull back. It's connected. And has rhythm to some extent.
nyctophiliac
^those links don't work
AngelinaTaylor
You stick your tongue into their mouth, and voila.
cassjamminx
when i first did it i was really nervous, but if the guy knows what they're doing you can kind of get away with copying him for a while and then do things on your own. some one once told me to spell the alphabet with your tounge. before i spelled "i love you" when i kissed boyfriend, they can't really tell what you're doing, not unless you tell them. lmao. sometimes my boyfriend will tell me to spell something and see if he can guess it, hahaha. it does just come naturally if you're really into it. there's no basics to it really.. well aside from open your mouth and stick your tongue in. just move it around...
This Confession
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 18 2006, 1:48 PM) *
You stick your tongue into their mouth, and voila.


oh darn, i was going to say that.
LOWinSKANK
I thought "oh go with the flow my a**, that won't work" but if you're into him, it'll come out right. The first time my bf kissed me was valentines day, i bit him [playfully], apparently some guys like nibbling.. o_O
just GO with it. don't start with an instant open mouth, they don't wanna kiss your front teeth. =D gradually open it & use your tongue, etc,. lalala get it?
cloudysunshine
Honestly, just go w/ the flow. I remember the first time I kissed my boyfriend- I was so nervous. Just open your mouth, and spread your tounge around his, it's such a great feeling- trust me.
felicity*aka*fe
best advice....don't worry about it. it just happeneds. just go with it....the guy should be the one initiating anyways
bballchick1
I don't know..I just follow his lead. I guess you could call it french kissing over and over, just follow him. _smile.gif
xforgottenlove
mmm just go with it. i guess it's like what you said ; about frenching over and over again. lols i guess the way I would put it is that it's sorta like talking, but with kisses ;D ahhaa sounds lame i know. but just go with it. if you really like him, when you guys start, you'll know what to do ;D
SarahxJoy
QUOTE(cassjamminx @ Jul 18 2006, 11:22 AM) *
when i first did it i was really nervous, but if the guy knows what they're doing you can kind of get away with copying him for a while and then do things on your own. some one once told me to spell the alphabet with your tounge. before i spelled "i love you" when i kissed boyfriend, they can't really tell what you're doing, not unless you tell them. lmao. sometimes my boyfriend will tell me to spell something and see if he can guess it, hahaha. it does just come naturally if you're really into it. there's no basics to it really.. well aside from open your mouth and stick your tongue in. just move it around...

That sounds fun, haha. Hrm.. shifty.gif

Anyway, don't freak out about making out with a guy you're really into. If there's chemistry, like the majority of the replies here have already said, it will come naturally. Just don't slobber all over him.. crazy.gif Don't try to eat his face or anything. 'Cause yeah..that's overboard. Just have fun with it and see what fits you best. _smile.gif
xo_lovalicious_xo
i don't know.. when i see in movies, they kinda french then pull apart and look at each others lips n do it over n over and over again..?!?!
elysium
lol...you girls are funny

Anyway, my boyfriend and I don't really do it the same every time. Oh, DON'T open your mouth before your lips are even touching, I had that happen to me and the guy got my nose! Yuck. Usually when I want to kiss him, I lean into him and press my lips on his, and he opens them a little bit and we kind of gradually kiss deeper as we go. Sometimes I softly suck and nibble on his lower lip a bit, or just massage his tongue with mine. There's a lot of...hand usage involved. Really though, your best bet is just doing whatever feels right at the moment.
xo_lovalicious_xo
but like this guy told me that his ex was a bad kisser because she was like sucking on his lips..
xBUTTMUNCHx
i've never kissed or ben kissed, lols, butt i think i have an idea of 'making out' ^_^
LOshortstuff
I made out with my boyfriend for like ten minutes then he was like your not that great of a kisser......how do you know these things...im sooo confused now
vn_cuti3
wat if u never kiss b4 n u jus went 4 it n the guy finds out???? then wat do u do???
ima_fake_
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wat if u never kiss b4 n u jus went 4 it n the guy finds out???? then wat do u do???



tell him before that youve never kissed neone... most guys respect that and usually find it better cuz they first off kno ur not a slut and they also get to teach you and say u were there first kiss but i mean its not a big deal first timei ever madeout with someone i just went along with what they were doing and after that he told me i was a really good kisser... soo whatev!
aubbob
haha that made me laugh.
just going with the flow.
ask him to teach you.
msladyliberty
Watch Basic Instinct 2 while eating ice cream.

-trust me, you'll learn wink.gif
oneandonlytammie
QUOTE(msladyliberty @ Jul 26 2006, 6:54 PM) *
Watch Basic Instinct 2 while eating ice cream.

-trust me, you'll learn wink.gif



Hahahaha.

When you're ready, you'll just...know. And the more you do it the better you'll get.
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