Ok... i'm going with this boy and i really love him i mean we've only been goin together for like 4 months and like the 2nd wekk we said we loved each other.

Ok, but the problem is he likes to talk to a lot of girls and stuff and he be callin them sexy and all that stuff and sometimes i get mad because i dont do that to him and he jus make it so obvious...

so he broke up with me before because he sadi he was "moving back to califronia" and i was so heart broken... so i didnt talk to him for like 2 weeks and then when i did talk to him he was like my mom said we didnt have to move because i didnt wanna go...

And then he was like u wanna go back with me i was like i dont kno kno i gotta think about it and then after a week i went back with him.

So then a couple of weeks later he said he wanted my password for tagged cuz he was gon write somethin in it for all the boys to kno that i was taken and they would stop writn me messages. So i gave it to him and he gave me his... big mistake!! even though he really wrote somethin so sweet and i loved it but i was bein nosey checkin his messages becasuse he said i could, and it was like 50 billion girl messages that he wrote to them. and it was sayin like u my girl and u sexy blah blah blah.

And after a couple of weeks i told him all that stuff he is doin was makin me sad and it was hurtin me. I said why are u talkin to all those girls. he said those are my friends briana... and then he said u dont trust me.. abd he got mad and we broke up....

then after like 3 days he said "so u blamin me n u breakin up on me....n i aint even do nuthin briana i aint cheat on you or nuthin i wus jus talkin wit my friends who happen to be females im sorry if u think i did do sumthin but i didnt do anything whether u believe me or not i jus wanted u to kno da side of my story if it even matters at all n do u still love me? if u dunt its cool i still love u no matter what we go thru briana baby please u gotta believe me and take me back i didnt do anything please u gotta believe me" Awwww i felt bad but i still loved him so i went back with him...

But he hasnt really been doin it latley, but do u think this realtionship with last??? we only been together for 4 months and we broke up 2 times but i will never get over him becuse they're is no one out there who can make me feel the way he make me feel!!!

Whether it'll last, it's up to you guys. I think everyone will have the period where they feel jealous. Just trust him, and ask him to to say those terms to those girls "you so fine" etc. He sounds pretty honest there.

He actually sounds pretty sincere. Let him know that you don't mind if he talks to girls, but you would appreciate it if he would stop calling them certain names that don't really need to be said to his "friends" like "Sexy". He wouldn't give you his password if he knew he were guilty of being with other girls, or if there was something he didn't want you to see.

lmao........ this dude reminds me of my EX.. tryna get you back with the simple "you always gonna be my wifey and i always love you forever" WOW.. for ME; my relationship lasted 11months.. and it wasnt all at the same time! 6 months last yr then 5 months this yr.. we were ON & OFF b/c of simple problems like this.. now i learned my lesson and you still hear my ex coming after me lol

Let your boyfriend come after you [which he is]; and please please dont let that f**king "i love you" line get to you.. okay you two may "love" each other, but realize that its a lil trigger to get you to fall back into his arms, and have a some trust in him [as hard as that might be]; all boys are gonna have 'girl- friends' and him saying "oh you look sexy" is JUST a compliment, but if that dude FLIRTS right infront of your face, YOU BETTER HANDLE THAT BOY thats just a big NO NO... dont let him have the habit of always saying "i love you baby" when you arguing aright..

I think you should talk to him about his other little girl friends. Sure, he's not cheating on you, but make sure that he doesn't go outta' line with what he says to those other girls. I mean, having a girlfriend SHOULD give him some kind of indication that he shouldn't be flirting with other girls. But even so, just remind yourself that if he were interested in any other girl, then he wouldn't have asked for you to take him back, right?

Unless he's not trusthworthy enough for that. But it seems you trust him despite his fault, so just use your best judgement. And as to whether or not your relationship with him will last, it's up to the two of you. As long as you're both willing to work the kinks out in your relationship and be comitted, I don't see why it shouldn't last.

At first i seriously wasn't liking the guy; but at the end, i sort of did! haha
Relationships have its ups and downs; and its truly up to both of you to overcome any drama, dilemas, challenges that comes in your way. I can tell this is like a first love kind of thing; where you will always keep that one love somewhere in your heart! However, he was crossing the line; telling other girls their sexy and their his and what not, you should strongly tell him that you should be calling me sexy, not those other girls because im your girl, and its always gonna be that way.. something like that. In addition, don't jump to conclusions real fast that he's cheating on you, talk to him about it. Since he said he loves you, he should be a good listener also. Just keep in mind that there's a limit taking your boyfriend/girlfriend back into your life, if he keeps doing it constantly, this is where you draw the line, even if its hard, because all your doing is getting hurt back. Finally, i think your relationship is going to last, as long as you both listen to one another, talk to one another, trust one another, your love is just gonna get stronger everyday! I wish you guys the best of luck
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tell him to stop messagin other girls. i dont call my guy friends sexy, and my bf doesnt call other girls beautiful. if he stops then theres nothing wrong with stayin with him, but if he doesnt then no. love doesnt make it ok to approach other girls in a manner you should be approaching your girlfriend with

in my opnion i dont think its worth it if a guy keeps breaking your heart more than once but if you still want to be with him you better tell him that he can have his lil "friends" but he does not have to go around calling them "sexy" or watever. tell him how he would feel if you had hecka guy friends and you called them "baby" or "sexy". get him straight and tell him that he does his sh*t again its over. ( be a lil rough on him lol )

thanks u guys!! i love u all!! lol

I think you should talk to him and tell him to stop doing whatever he does to other girls.I think it can last if you guys try to work it out.