I have this friend that has a girlfriend & they really like eachother but he also likes his girlfriend's BEST FRIEND and the girl's bestfriend likes him too but doesn't want to go out with him because of his girlfriend is her best friend. WHAT SHOULD HE DO ? does this make anysense ? lol

haha
very confusing.

But really, he needs to sort out his feelings and figure out who he really likes.

^ yeah.

because if he likes them both.. well..
gahhh i had this worked in my brain.
now its just confusing.

^lol
what i was thinking.


I don't think people should like two people, if they do their just confused. Because they don't know what they want, but both people hold qualities that he likes. But he needs to figure out who has more qualities and get to know them both.

that was a lot to take in.

well, like holly said, he needs to figure out who he really likes.

He really likes the girl`s bestfriend but he doesn`t wanna break his girlfriends heart because he did a lot of shit through their relationship & she kept forgiving him & yea.

well, seems like her heart's been broken too many times. she doesn't need him if he's going to do a lot of crap during their relationship. if i were her, i'd break up with him. so is he cheating on her?

^well I don't think she should have forgiven him if he really messed up. I know people deserve 2nd chances and all, but if their never punished and they keep doing it then their never going to quit until they get hurt for their own actions and suffering the consequences.

Anyway he needs to talk to his girlfriend then, because if he can't even talk to his girlfriend about what he feels and stuff, they need a lot more work in their communication. And if messed up so much in one relationship he needs to figure out if hes not going to hurt another girl like that again.

i think the girlfriend shouldnt be going out with him right now since he likes her AND her best friend.

and even if he did dump his current girlfriend and started going out with her best friend, dont you think the girlfriend would be crushed?

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you should knock some sense into the girl. he doesnt like her, she should get that into her head. it will break her heart, but better to know ahead of time before he dumps her.

exactly! thats what i ment.. haha

Well he can`t just go out with everybody..he needs to choose the one.

no he's not cheating on her... but yea. he`s done a lot of LITTLE things & she's super sensitive. she's my cousin haha but yea...

people shouldn't like two people at the same time, it either means that person doesnt like either of them, or he/she's really indecisive.

^just meas hes more than likely confused and sees qualities in both of them that he admires.

like i said earlier.

He should just save them both the heart ache and just shoot himself.

he should only love one girl .his girlfriend or his friend's best friend.
he needs to figure out who he really likes.yea love is not a game...yea

what an idiott.... well its very clear; the boyfriend wants to be with THE BEST FRIEND more than his girlfriend ; i would beat my boyfriends ass if he did that to me.... it not even funny

I had to read that twice to get it.
This friend of yours needs to figure out who he really likes, and if these feelings he has for his girlfriends bestfriend is stronger then the ones he has for his girlfriend now. Maybe he should just lay off both of them. I mean, the girls bestfriend was smart to say that they shouldn't be together because the other girl is her bestfriend. Chicks before dicks

lolz...same here...hahaha...

well...i don't see how he can like both of them equally...at one point or another, there must be something that makes the other one "better"...

but if he can't decide which one to choose, then maybe he should just forget it, move on with some other gurlz, & make the dilemma easier...lolz

He should probably break up with his girlfriend if he has feelings for another girl. If he goes after his girlfriend's best friend, he should be ready for her friends giving him the evil eye all the time.

I'll move this to relationships.

It's messy liking his girlfriend and his girlfriends best friend.
Not just because it confuses him, but because it has the potential to ruin the girl's friendship with each other.

I would suggest that he make up his mind. He can't have a relationship with one girl yet like her best friend at the same time. Tell him to get out of that habit now, it doesn't get easier later on in life.
If I were his girlfriend, I wouldn't even want to be with him if he had a crush on someone else, especially if it was my best friend.

Tell him to make up his mind, Either be with his girlfriend and forget about her friend. Or dump his girlfriend, wait a respectable amount of time [which i know he won't because he sounds a hella selfish, but that's iight] before he goes for the other girl. Actually, his girlfriend's best friend is OFF LIMITS at all times. Even if he dumps his girlfriend, he could still ruin the girl's friendship with each other if he dates the other girl.

Ok, just tell him the best friend is off limits and to stick with his girl IF he cares about her. He shouldn't lead her on if he doesn't really care. [Which it doesn't seem like he does since he's looking at her best friend]

Tell the girlfriend to find a better boyfriend, cuz there are some guys out there that don't have to make this decision when they date you.

to tell you the truth i think the guys girlfriend should break up with him if he is going to keep breaking her heart..and her best friend should not go out with him. i mean its really jacked up if shes her best friend and "secretly" they like each other while the dude is still going out with the other gurl. i mean cant she wait until they break up or at least talk to her about it? i dont know but you should tell the other girl (the one who isnt going out with the dude) to watch herself because if hes doing this now what makes her so sure he wont do it again when they go out.