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missmari1
Ok girlz well i was wondering would you tell you bf you were on you period and do you tell him that you on your perido, its just a random question..
AngelinaTaylor
If he wanted sex..
missmari1
but how would you tell him like if you had cramps and he asked you whats wrong
thriftstoresecrets
you just say your tummy hurts, and leave it at that. humour him a little if he continues like "maybe it's something you ate...do you want some pepto bismal?" Ask him for an advil instead or something. no big deal.
But yeah, if he wanted to mess around with you, give him a heads up that you're on the rag. Maybe he won't mind, maybe he will, but he should have that option. (And if you ARE going to fool around regardless of the fact that you have your period, for goodness' sake, take the tampon out! it's only curteous.)
cassjamminx
i usually tell my boyfriend when i'm on my period because i usually get moody, it's just an excuse so he knows where i'm coming from. so he's not like "damn what happened to you?!" but yes, i usually tell him every month. and he knows what comes with that, so he knows that i have cramps, so he's usually really sweet about it and stuff. like he's all nice and gives me massages or chocolate. haha. happy.gif
AngelinaTaylor
Uh.. nothing complicated about it, "It's nothing, just monthly problems", or "I'm on my period."

o.O
PrincessAda
"Sorry,I`m on it.We`ll just have to do something else."
iROCKYOURSOCKS
i wouldnt say anything unless he keeps harrasing me about whats wrong..then i would say im on my period. lol
SarahxJoy
I just say, "Cramps" and he gets it, lol.
Well..but the thing is, I don't get cramps. He knows this too, but it's just easier to say "Cramps" I guess lol.

And he usually takes notice when I start talking about cravings.. happy.gif Lol.
WHIMSICAL 0NE
Haha, well I'm an open person sometimes. Well, around my friends and such.. but I don't go around announcing stuff. It's not really that big of deal if you just say "yeah, its that time of month" or something. Guys usually get it and then they just move on and not talk about it haha.
cassjamminx
keep in mind too that guys do know what a period is. if you tell him you're on it, i don't think he'd interrogate you any further.. unless he really doesn't have a clue. (which i think he does..)
LOWinSKANK
i actually told my bf today.. well he's pretty understanding but he doesn't GET IT that it's not really a time where you're going to mess around with him, it's gross to me. ;o
This Confession
yea, I could care less, and eventually mine always tells me to go do something active, so I say next week will be fine to do that.


Not like we can fool around or have sex or something anyway pinch.gif
da_SALSA
yeah--cuz he's gonna have to deal with it. it's just a heads up
EmmalieV
my bf knows when i get my period , he can remember that but not my birthday. lol
shannonx1
if he asks whats wrong then i just tell him i have cramps haha. he doesn't go like, "Ewww gross i didn't need to know you were on your period"; he's usually just like "Okay" lol
singingmathematician
I tell him, "I'm on my period." He can usually tell though, because I pms big time.
pinayprincess
i tell him straight up to his face lol.. idc [im very open minded] even if i have to go bathroom, ill announce it [pee or shit] -- i know, its un 'called' for.. but w/e lol, but anyways i tell him .. and knowing him im sure hes more comfortable w/ the "its my time of the month again" rather than "arghh f**k i have my period" laugh.gif
Nicolatofu
With my boyfriend, we are very open to each other. If I'm on my period and he wants to do something or if I have cramps, I just tell him I'm on my period. You shouldn't have to beat around the bush.
_sarcastic_
he usually can tell when i'm on my period, i get terrible mood swings and such.
but yeah, just tell him you're having your period, i mean he shouldn't take it as such a big deal.
broken inside
I don't have a bf, but anyone can tell when I'm on my period...I get crancky and I start wanting specific foods, lol.
lolita kitty
Well, you don't need to blurt it out at random. That's just un-nessecary laugh.gif But if he asks you why your stomach hurts, or whats wrong, then just say "I'm on my period".
ANG33ZY
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jul 10 2006, 11:57 AM) *
Uh.. nothing complicated about it, "It's nothing, just monthly problems", or "I'm on my period."

o.O


yeah for real.
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