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janerz14
ha. this is so true. & after i read it, i feel that way too. why should i let someone stay with me if they dont want to.heartbreaks come&go, but hey what kills you makes you even stronger. its a part of life. let go.



"the truth"

There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk. I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.

When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead. You've got to know when it's dead. You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you
something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you .......

LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"
cassjamminx
very blunt. but very true. it makes sense. i like it. it's helping me out happy.gif
PrincessAda
Thats hella truee.I love this part most.
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People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
My Cinderella.
That's very true. But more easily said then done.
demolished
No. i dont believe them.

when that happend, fight for it. fight till the very end. the "end" is when the result is always the same.

i choose not to believe the post.

if you dont fight, you dont care.


same thing with a love relationship, fighting can make love stronger, right?
cassjamminx
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Jul 9 2006, 7:04 PM) *
That's very true. But more easily said then done.



yes yes, way easier said than done. _dry.gif
ANG33ZY
Good read. I have to start doing that.
SarahxJoy
QUOTE(Spiritual Winged Aura @ Jul 9 2006, 7:24 PM) *
No. i dont believe them.

when that happend, fight for it. fight till the very end. the "end" is when the result is always the same.

i choose not to believe the post.

if you dont fight, you dont care.
same thing with a love relationship, fighting can make love stronger, right?


I agree. I believe you should fight for the things which hold any bit of significance in your life. Otherwise, you'd end up with nothing in the end, because you let it all "walk away".

But then again, there are times when there is nothing you can do, no matter how hard you try, and so that is the time to let go.

I believe both point of views to an extent. _smile.gif
Kounouri
You will know when the time is right to let go.
If you let that moment pass and still hold on, the pain begins for real.
Gypsy Eyes
What a load of christian bullcrap.
cassjamminx
QUOTE(anqie @ Jul 9 2006, 9:19 PM) *
Good read. I have to start doing that.


yeah i do too _dry.gif
living in the past sucks. hard to get over sometimes.
Kounouri
Or you can decide to live a life of stubborn pain because you won't let go... on account of reading an article of "christian bullcrap"
priyas
this is pretty good.
GlecieC
I really like this. It's kind of too late for this now though. Still useful for the future though...if I ever run into this kind of situation.
doork
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Jul 9 2006, 9:04 PM) *
That's very true. But more easily said then done.


^ Yup. That`s true. pinch.gif
Gypsy Eyes
QUOTE(Kounouri @ Jul 10 2006, 8:26 PM) *
Or you can decide to live a life of stubborn pain because you won't let go... on account of reading an article of "christian bullcrap"

I'm sorry if I fight for things, I don't give up. Yeah it's caused some pain but it's better than doing nothing. It has nothing to do with this article.
pinayprincess
lol thats pretty cool happy.gif
xforgottenlove
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Jul 9 2006, 7:04 PM) *
That's very true. But more easily said then done.


yes i agree -___-
LaStiNg4EtErNiTy
wow. it's so true. but yeah..it's harder to actually do it.

but nice. it helps.
AngelinaTaylor
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Jul 10 2006, 7:41 PM) *
What a load of christian bullcrap.


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janerz14
hahahahahah well im glad this helps for some people.
Insecure Emotions
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Jul 10 2006, 6:35 PM) *
I'm sorry if I fight for things, I don't give up. Yeah it's caused some pain but it's better than doing nothing. It has nothing to do with this article.


there's a time where it will be right to let go instead of continue fighting, but you can still hold feelings for that person, but everyday is a new day to try and move on and you might discover something/one you'll put your time into that'll give you the time of your life =)
a painefull euphoria
QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Jul 10 2006, 5:41 PM) *
What a load of christian bullcrap.

i understand where you are comming from
and maybe you dont belive in christianity
or maybe anytype of religion
i give you credit for being bold.

but please dont bash a religion or put it in a vulgar context
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i do credit you for fighting till the end beacuse i am the same way.
execpt i will always come out victorious.
thats how i am.
AngelinaTaylor
What's wrong with "christian bullcrap"? She could've said bullSHIT. :)
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