well, i have this bf that i met on myspace, but i met him from my cuhzins bf thats his friend. well i kno where he lives nd stuff like that .. but i never even seen an up close pic of him. should i stay wit him? he's a year older than mee. but i really like his personality..


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Is this some sort of subtle way to advertise your myspace?

And do you KNOW what a "boyfriend" means?

Too bad noone can see her myspace...:(

well if you know where he lives then why havent you seen him?....stick with people you know. personalies are wayyy different in real life than online

No one really can tell you if you can be with a guy..if you think he`s a good guy and he`s not a stalker or pervert..maybe you should stay with him.

One word. No.

Haha.

Two words. No No.
Hehe.

sorry Uhm if you know where he lives then why not go see him...unless he lives in another state ?

If your cut out for it. If your in a relationship with someone on the internet you need them to start taking pictures lots of them. If he doesn't want to and you never get close up ones I wouldn't trust them to much.

I met my boyfriend last year on october 4th. And we talked on myspace for a while and i went on all these myspaces and got his aim name. [hahaha] and then we eventually started talking on the phone which turned in to everyday and then he eventually asked me to be his girlfriend. And we met on the 4th for the first time. =] But the whole time he use to give me pictures all the time, we would be on the phone and he would take pictures and load them to his computer and send them to me and i would do the same, I have videos and stuff of him as well.

So if you really cut out for it, and you get stuff that makes you trust that hes the person he is then go for it if you want. But being a long distance relaitonship is not easy at all. or internet relationship i should say.

Whenever someone at my school [i go to an all girls school] has a new date and it is spread that they met through MySpace, everyone thinks it`stupid, weird, freaky...etc. Personally, i don`t see anything wrong with it, just as long as he/she isn`t a pervert/stalker. If it's just for fun, than I do see it as stupid. Whateves.

No, not in your terms.

No

Uhh..I wouldn't have a myspace boyfriend unless he was a guy that I knew in real life that just happened to have a myspace as well.

But, that's just me.

^ I agree.

Darling it's up to you.

Like other people said, if you know where he lives, why not see him? Unless he lives in another state..

And you haven't seen an up close picture of him? If that is really important to you (looks) then find them out before agreeing to go out.

Maybe you should meet him in person..

loooooooser, if u have to use myspace to get a boyfriend. seriously are you THAT desperate to get into a relationship??

Can't call her a loser. But why get a bf on myspace? I mean why not get boyfriends the old fashion way? Engineered flirtation never hurt anyone right? Because truly everyone can hide themselves on the internet. Anyone can be anyone. At least if you saw someone in real life and the person said he was skinny you can laugh at him when you find out that he's fat because at least you see his physical form.

well, im gonna meet him soon, but my cousin has met him before .. so ...

Well...if you are sure then you are sure. Nothing should stop your own opinions and beliefs. Hope for the best then.

thanks .. at least someone is a giving me a positive opinion.

uve never seen an up close picture of him? shows that he has something to hide......

Well not everyone has a camera where they can take upclose pictures of themselfs. Maybe he scanned it? Or maybe he didnt. But i dont think you should call her a loser...because arent there like dating services ? Like i see them on commercials & stuff..so why cant she meet someone on myspace..i mean yeah it might not be a good idea but she does get to see well not see but like get to know his personality. & if she's gonna meet up with him then he must not be hiding anything or he would make an excuse not to see her...i know lots of couples who are currently dating on myspace. There might not be that right person out there where we are staying. But she should be careful because you hear aboutt his kinda stuff on the news all the time, but she is meeting him...right..? -

I think if you have to ask, then it might not be the best idea.

i find it sort of pathetic

You know, you can reply without resorting to name calling. And that doesn't make her a loser. I know many people that have hooked up via online methods - My Space is one of them, including a very happily married couple.

sure that you dont know his real personality in such short time....

there was this article about myspace.

a girl met this person on myspace that said he was a 16 yr old guy (she was 15 yrs old). they talked and became good friends online. the girl kinda fell for him. then they decided to meet up in real life. he turned out to be 40+ and raped her. then ran away.

just something to think about.

obviously not going to 40+, but u dont know about the rest.

dating services are for people that CAN NOT get a date by normal means. it means theyve got flaws that are so pronounced that they cannot have a steady relationship with a girl by just meeting her in real life.

comeon im telling it how i feel. if ur going to resort to "fall in love" with a guy u met on myspace, dont live near, have never met, and think youre normal, might as well delude urself that being emo isnt bad for ur emotional health.

uhm...well its really pointless ( to me ) but i much rather go out withsomeone who lives around me and i really know them well. but in the end its your decision but guys can easily make up things you want to hear any guy can easily say hes a hot 20 year old model.. he wouldnt care because you dont live near him and stuff and you cant find out if its true. Its your choice.

Not everyone on myspace is a rapist/40 year old predator out to get young women. I mean if you have your facts straight it should turn out just fine. There is a bunch of people I know hooking up on myspace so whatever..

What in the WORLD?

Um honey, no. First off - everyone has flaws, not just people who use dating services. Like I mentioned before, I know a very happily married couple who meet via online means. Neither of them had problems dating in 'real life', they just found each other online for some reason. Have you ever stopped to think that online or any other type of dating service might be a GOOD way to find someone with similar interests? You might live in a town, date a few men and still have no luck. It doesn't mean that you are incapable of a meaningful or steady relationship, it means that you haven't found the right one.

And for goodness sake, where did: come from?

I'm sorry, I don't mean to go off. I just think it's ridiculously unfair to make such gross generalizations.

yeah not everyone on evilspace is a 40 year old pedophile..i still think it is dumb to have an online relationship

Maybe you should ask for a more clear picture of him, possibly talk to him on the phone... that might make the situation more, easy? But do you even live near him?

uhhhhhhhhhhhh

aint that the truth.

....are you serious.....

hahaha i did that.. i thought it was ok

TRUE!!!

what do you think of internet dating?
sorry if there is a similar topic like this
well I'm dating a guy on the internet right now.
But he lives around 20 minutes away sooo...
otherwise i think internet dating is awkward, waste of time, hopeless, just stupid.
I mean, they could be rapists for all we know

Been there, done that. BAD idea.

hahha

HAHAHAHAH, hilarious.

i couldn't stand talking to someone on the phone that i met on the internet
awkward um much?

Come again?

it won't be awkward if you talked to the person on AIM a lot and one of you is good with starting a conversation

yeah.
but it would still be awkward to me lmao

It's not so weird. Meeting in person is weird. You know the person..yet you don't REALLY know them. Some people when you talk on the phone, you have absolutely nothing to talk about. Others, you kinda click with.

PM for list of internet lovers here, who are really into this kind of stuff! I'll tell you their username and ect, so you can get their side of it :)

Doesn't matter. I could care less.
Although, I probably wouldn't try it....

Bad idea. Bad experience with guy from Switzerland. Obsessed with Marilyn Manson.

Don't do it.

my friend found the love of her life online. but for me personally, i would rather be able to see the person face to face, and not drool over their webcam pictures.

LMAOO EWH