to follow up on yesterdays topic thing ..
ok .. my problems just got worse .. last night i talked to "joe" and we talked for a while .. and he ended up asking who i like .. and i made him guess sorta .. so he knows i like him .. and i know he likes me .. but i havent talk to my friend yet. and i dont know how im supposed to bring the topic up. i mean last night he asked me if i wud ever go out with him .. and i told him why i cant. and he got kinna mad when i told him what my friend had said. and now i know that i need to talk to her .. and its not an option .. but i just dont know how im supposed to bring the subject up .. any ideas?

Well, your friend did break up with him, and it's not her place to tell you—or him—who you can or cannot see. It might be a bit different if he broke up with her—clearly his interest in you would look suspicious. But she broke up with him, he likes you, you like him…I don't see the problem.

I mean, I do see the problem. It's irrational on her part, but I see where she'd have a problem. I think you just need to tell her straight up what you told us.

Its not like she owns Joe..so why care what she thinks? I know she`s your friend and all but true friends don`t act like that.They wouldn`t trip over small little things like this.I suggest to talk to her and tell her full details. Maybe she`ll understand.

well .. ive sent her a couple messages on myspace .. and i even called her .. and she wont talk to me at all .. i didnt say anytihng about "joe" in the messages .. all i said was hey i need to talk to you .. and she read it .. and its been like 3 hours .. and stuff ..

well .. ive sent her a couple messages on myspace .. and i even called her .. and she wont talk to me at all .. i didnt say anytihng about "joe" in the messages .. all i said was hey i need to talk to you .. and she read it .. and its been like 3 hours .. and stuff ..

jeez, she said she wouldn't ever talk to you if you went out with the guy
and now your not going out with her but she isn't talking to you now. I don't see a problem you should just go out with the guy. I mean if she gets mad then talk to her about it and ask her why she gets mad about it i maen if its jealousy then she shouldn't have ever broke up with him.
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alright. thanks you people are a big help.
thank you