Okay, so, people are going to yell at me but:

COMMUNICATION!

Your friend obviously has issues. One with this boy that you like and she went out with. Maybe she is just so insecure she just can't stand the thought of him liking another girl. Especially you. And if she says that she loves this dude's best friend then why the heck is she being so protective of him? I don't know the particulars about your relationship with your friend but your friend has issues. And..they need to be brought to her attention.

Honestly, if you like this guy, but although he doesnt like you, you've done nothing wrong really. You should talk to her though. And see what the heck her problem is.

Go talk to her about it. I mean if she just broke up with the guy give her time. Although its really rude that she dumped him for another guy. This thing can go like two ways. the good way and then the bad. The good way is to just bring it up and talk to her about it. I mean shes with someone new and she kind of backstabberd her ex bf for his best friend. I mean if you were to go out with him its the same thing she did to him.

But you need to talk to her about it all.
I doubt she "loves" this new guy, its that infatuation love.

If you like this guy and he doesn't like you then you can't really do anything about it. She shouldn't feel under the impression that he likes you if he wasen't going out with her. If he does like you and shes keeping you two from ever being together just because she got the impression he liked you and now their broken up i don't see the problem..


Although friendship should never end over some guy.

well .. i tried talking to her about it when she brought it up .. but she was all just dont ok and then changed the subject. she barely knows her bf and shes only going out with him (so she says) bc she sees him more than her ex and bc hes a better kisser than he is. which thats just wrong. (lets call the guys she says she loves bob . and her ex joe) joe knows how she feels about bob. and he seems ok about it. her and bob talk alot and say they love eachother , even tho they are both with different people now.
but i just dont know how im supposed to bring up the subject with her , to actually tell her i like him ..

Well..you should just tell her you like him..if she was a true friend then she wouldn`t care about this sort of stuff..I mean she doesn`t own the guy.She doesn`t even go out with him anymore so why care about what she thinks.

kk thanks for the help

its one of those teenage infatuations where they don't exactly know what love is, but its a learning relationship and i'm sure you guys are young? [how old are you guys?] And in the future she'll look back and learn that she shouldn't have done those things. Just give it time on them. I mean "Joe" I don't know exactly, it doesn't sound like he had very strong feelings for her and he doesn't mind her finding someone new. Which may be a good thing.

im 14 and shes 13 turning 14 next month .. but yeah .. he doesnt exactly know she found someone new .. atleast thats what she tells me .. she told him that she was breaking up with him because they dont see eachother and only talk on aim (which they would be talking on the fone .. but he dropped it in a pool .. and she knows that .. he was talking to her when it happend) but idk if he had strong feelings for her or not .. but ..

so u people think i should just talk to her about it?

Yea go talk to her about it.

I don't think shes mature enough to be in a relationship, she lied to her boyfriend about something she should have been honest to him about.

ok .. thanks

welcome, good luck too.

thanks .. i.ll need the luck