I was signing a friend's yearbook today, let's call her "Abby".

Abby and my boyfriend of six months, Vincent, went out for a short time freshman year. (We're now ending our junior year.) That was before I met Vincent and before I knew Abby that well. Abby and Vincent are still friends, and I'm friends with Abby.

When I saw signing Abby's yearbook, Vincent had already signed it. At the end he put, "Remember, you'll always have a place in my heart." Vincent says that to me all the time! I doubt he writes that in just about anyone's yearbook.

Am I right to feel upset about this?
What should I do? I don't know if I should confront him about this.

mmm well i think u have the right to be upset because he is ur boyfriend and he writes to his ex that she's got a place in his heart.

Don't get upset over that. Thats like being selfish to me. You don't trust your boyfriend enough and he signed his ex's yearbook with you'll always have a place in my heart. If he says that to you and you two break up and he keeps up with his word on that then would you mind him keeping up with it?


I mean if you want to confront him about it if your that insecure and jealous or what ever you want to be over it, then go ahead. Maybe hes the understanding type and will tell you that he told her that one day and he's kept up with it.

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Again, I'm with Holly on this... My ex will always have a place in my heart, but I love my current more than anything, and I trust him, and I'm pretty sure he trusts me on the fact I'm not gonna leave him for my ex, or anyone else for that matter.... Uh, [/rant] yeah, what Holly said :]

You never forget the ones you care about. Even if they move on.

Okay, maybe it's a bit sketchy, but it's not like you're married to the guy. I don't see it as a big deal. Maybe a bad move on his part, but, eh, we're young, gotta make mistakes sometime.

Hmm maybe he was telling her that to make her feel good...I dunno really but maybe you should ask him about it or evan her to see if anything's goin on..but don't feel bad about it he was prob juz being a good friend by writting a nice comment.

Mells-Star has a good point. But if your really that curious, just ask him. Dont go ranting and raging like must do. You can do it like this: "Hey, i have to ask you somethnig that's be bothering a bit for a while....". Most guys do that sometimes to friends when they have girlfriends. Well, I know mine does and I'm sure i'm the only one.

Hey, if your upset about it... if you need to talk about it. Confront him, tell him what you saw, and tell him what you think... but don't make accusations... keep it strickly to what it made you feel and the thoughts that it aroused in your mind... let him know that you rally don't know anything, but you want him to know just so your on the same page...

convergence (being on the same page) is key i a relationship...

if you don't have to confront him, then don't... but if your mind is running away with this and its making you act strange... tell him

Well I would be a bit concerned if I were you, but that's just cause I'm a jealous person. But I'm gonna have to agree with This Confession. At least you know that when he says it to you, he'll mean it.

He could mean it in different ways to both you and Abby.So theres no point into getting soo upset over it.