okay this gurl is my best friend but like shes all girly*pink*fluffy if u kno wat i mean & im like all tomboy*black*plaid .. but now shes tryin 2 act & talk like shes not girlie but shes only doin it 2 impress me so ill think shes cool..i no that bcuz i over heard her talkin 2 sum1 about it..i dont kno wat 2 do..help please..

Tell her you like her, pink frilly shit and all.

but like shes tryin 2 get me 2 be like her && when i refuse she duz sumthin else that i want her 2..like shell keep askin me DO U LIKE IT SHOULD I CHANGE IT about stuff && shell do w/e i say...its weird..its like im her boss or sumthin...

i dont kno what 2 do..she needs 2 be herself && stop tryin 2 impress me

I think you should just confront her. Tell her you like her just the way she is and that she shouldn't try and change for you or anybody else. It's like letting somebody else decide who you are.. And what kind of sane person does that? Not the insane kind, that's what.. (Ignore the last part.. I'm sort of insane myself >.<;;)

thanx ... but u dint kno how 2 tell her..what should i say?


like how should i start the convo?

Just tell her you need to talk to her and that you like her for who she really is. She doesn't have to put up an act or do whatever you say to get you to like her. You may also want to throw in something about how her always doing what you say makes you feel weird.

Wow.. some people have such hard problems.

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^ LMFAO!

dude....get a clue.....she likes you....and she's willing to do w/e....to get that...it seems like...

^ Yeah, take advantage of it.

Just kidding. Just straight up tell her and uhm..find a friend not so easily influenced.

tell her that she should be herself and not have to impress others.

This is good advice, seriously.

You could always, I don't know, communicate with her what you've communicated here about this situation.

tell her how it is ;)

Imitation is the best form of flattery.

But I guess...as everyone ELSE said, tell her.

Talk to her about it and tell her stuff like she doesn`t have to change just for u?

tell your best friend that you like her as she was, as herself.

Just act girly and stuffs.

Just say to her, "just be yourself!! and let me be MYself! end of story!!!"

then if she doesn't accept that... then just give her some time to think about it.

i'd probably be a complete bitch about it and I'D start acting different, not girly or tomboy, but like a complete MORON so maybe she'd copy it. then i'd laugh at her.
maybe she'd get it then.
no i don't know. lol don't listen to me nevermind.
just tell her you're friends with her because of who she is now, not who she's trying to be.

Tell her that you like her the way she really is.

Yeah like everyone else said, just tell her