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Melissawilson5
Well here is the thing you see I like this guy and were close friends but I am not sure if he likes me..he has hinted but hasn't done anything about it....
well anywayz just as things are getting good and I am having fun he tells me he is moving away * Won't say the place* I am so upset because he tells me that he'll come down to visit but I don't think he will I am so upset....should I tell him I like him?
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yea
if you want him to know you like him, then go for it. Tell him you like him and maybe he'll admit that he likes you if he does. I mean I don't know how old you are, but if you two really wanted to. Long distance relationships aren't that hard. Easpecailly if he said he would visit?
Uronacid
look, this is so stupid, im getting so sick of people that ask this question... this isn't going to be the last time i say this... *grumble*

He is probably thinking the same thing as you right now. Neither of you guys are mind readers and both of you are probably playing games with eachother trying to figure out who likes who, but neiter of you will just admit the friggin truth... TELL HIM WHAT YOU THINK, BECUASE IF YOU DON'T YOU WILL REGRET IT!
Hiphop d[-_-]b
Why wont you tell us where ? Its not like we'll go and stalk him or try and steal him away.

Anyways, how far ? Cities away, states away ? Down the street ? If he drops hints about liking you and you like him, be bold and tell him you like him. Swallow pride and fear and grow some balls and take the first step in something that could turn into a great love and a good experience for later relationships.
SimplicityGirl
Tell him. The worst that can happen is him saying no and you guys staying friends. There really is nothing to lose. However, if you DON'T tell him, you won't know what could've been, and that's worse than rejection.
lakerfever2476
yea tell him..


if u tell him and it turns out he doesnt feel the same way.. you'll only hurt for now..

if u dont tell him ur gonna hurt the rest of ur life.. wondering if he felt the same way..
AngelinaTaylor
No. You're 16 - there will be plenty more guys to come (and go). Move on.

Taylor``
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^ you always tell people to move on..
Uronacid
Move on... O_o

naw, look... just like nike says... JUST DO IT!
AngelinaTaylor
QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 14 2006, 8:18 PM) *
^ you always tell people to move on..


Ok, suggest something better.

I state the obvious most times, because many people don't see it.

Taylor``
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^well i don't mind.
I usually like your opinion and how you see things. Also you tell people like it is. Which is something I can't do all the time or I'll get yelled at.
AngelinaTaylor
QUOTE(This Confession @ Jun 15 2006, 7:05 AM) *
^well i don't mind.
I usually like your opinion and how you see things. Also you tell people like it is. Which is something I can't do all the time or I'll get yelled at.


Meh you get used to it, and people eventually give up trying to hate you/yell at you.

Taylor``
mipadi
I ask, "What's the point?"

Sure, you could tell him, and get it off your chest. Maybe he feels the same way. But then he moves away and you're right back where you started.

I'm with Angelina Taylor on this. Just move on. There's no sense worrying about what could have been.
BryMonster
I agree with Josh. Go ahead and tell him how you feel before it's too late. Then as he moves away and you don't see him much anymore, you're going to regret never telling him.
seremela_culnamo
Tell him. There's no point of liking someone if they don't know. Even if they don't like you back and it hurts a lot, it's better than hurting yourself along with confusion about whether or not they feel the same way. Like you should move on, but I know it's not easy. So if you think the feelings are still going to be there for another long while, why not tell him? But in the end, regardless of all the advice, it's your choice.

I kind of understand how you must be feeling. A good friend of mines is going through the same thing. But instead of moving, he's joining the army.
PrincessAda
You should tell him..or he`ll never know your true feelings.
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