So I have a few good guy friends. Several actually. & I can't help but get the feeling that some of them like me. A couple actually I know like me for a fact. & others drop hints.. like joking around about getting married & stuff. It makes me feel really uncomfortable. & I don't know what I can do to make myself feel comfortable around them without confronting them & making myself seem conceited if they don't like me?

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All you can do is be yourself in these situations. I've been in those type of things. When i went to public school I always sat with the guys and oddly i use to play sports and get chased and stuff.. really odd things. Anyway all you can do really is tell them yourself. Not sound like a complete "bitch" but just bring it up nicely. Or when they bring it up and tell them yourself. Idk I'm pretty sarcastic so i just say something jockingly right back as well.

Well just tell them that what they're doing is making you uncomfortable and if they won't stop, start dropping obvious hints that you don't like what they're doing. Or just have a serious talk with them.

^ I do both of those things. I am a pretty sarcastic girl as well & I joke around with them when they say stupid things like "Steph I think me & you should be together,".. My response would be, "oh hey, of course, we would be perfect together, lets do it!" *serious angry look.

sarcasm + obvious hints.

Maybe your "sarcasm" isnt working. Telling them you would be perfect together with an angry face doesnt exactly tell them 'I dont like you.'

Quit flirting back with them and be friends, and just friends. I have a lot of guy friends who like me, sounds concieted but heeey I do. I just let them know straight up i dont like them. When they ask for my number i say no. When they ask me out i say no. When they persistently bother me about them liking me and wanting to get with me or making comments about my body or how im the perfect girl for them i BLUNTLY say No. I dont like you. Stop being subtle, cos they obviously arent getting it.

Oh dear, i'm quite in this situation too. This guy, he very well indeed drops hints.

Darling, what I do is exactly what Bella (above post) said. I most certainly do not flirt back.

Oh no no no. Don't get me wrong. I most certainly say no in a non-joking manner.
I guess they just.. don't care?

Well you see they all know I don't like them. It's a known fact. & just about everybody in school that knows me knows that I'm not looking to be in a relationship. I just guess that they.. think it's fun to bug me? Plus keep in mind, we're all friends.. I can't just completely say "NO! " - it at least has to be a "No "

It's just how I go about things.. although I do call myself bitchy.. there are just certain people I can't act bitchy towards, if you get my drift.

when you say you have alot of guy friends that joke around, have they ever ask you to hang out on the weekends and you chilled at there house? or anything like that because if so. that means he wants to get to know you well.
the best advise.
would be. if you really like him.
just keep joking around with them and wait till they make a move. cause if a guy is really into a girl he will make a move. even if he thinks you dont like him.
so just wait till he comes and when he does dont make it awhard at all.
just go with the flow.

Yeah they (a few of them) do that.
Problem: I don't like them.

I'm in that type of situation, and I have a boyfriend. My first respond was just to ignore it. But I guess that didn't work since it became a sort of rumor between cliques. And it brought some painful shit talking. I think maybe you should be straight forward, unlike me, and tell them to back up.

Just be totally serious at least once and say "Look. I don't look at you that way, we're just FREINDS, and if can't respect that then maybe we can't tlak anymore" That should do it...

The ones you want to be with..ask them out or something.And the ones you don`t..try to talk to them about staying friends.

o..i have the same problem..but the guys never really told me they liked me..it was more like..i got the feeling and then their friends told me they did ..and i really dont feel comfortable either..b/c i dont like them back...but since they never really came up to me and admitted it..i cant really go up to them and be like..i dont like you..b/c itd sound conceited if the guy never admitted it to you.. its such a hard situation to be in.. what i usually did was once i found out they had a crush on me..id just send them signs that i dont like them.. not hanging out w/ them as much..not being as friendly as before.. which is bad b/c they are still my friends =\ i just really dont know how to tell them i dont like them..