What I Learned About Girls/Relationships

I was quite bored, so I just thought I'd compile a list of what I learned about girls and relationships, and just share it with you guys. Some, or many, of them you may not agree with. This was just based on my experience. (Can you believe I spent an hour on this list!?) Anyways. There are probably a lot more I'm forgetting. But this is it for now.

1. Never indulge her with too many gifts. Whether it be chocolate, jewelry, flowers, or etc. Teach her to appreciate.

2. Appreciate her.

3. Never give her too much attention. Basically, don't make her the center of your life. Prioritize.

4. Find a hobby. Be passionate about something. Girls like passionate guys.

5. Prevent yourself from jumping into conclusions. Listen to both sides of the story.

6. If she jumped into a conclusion, patiently tell her your side of the story.

7. If she tells you she needs space, then give her space. No need to call her innumerable amounts. Give her time.

8. If she hangs up on you, call her back. If she doesn't pick up, try calling her once again. However, if she still doesn't pick up, give her some time. Wait until she calls back or call her back tomorrow.

9. Never, under any circumstances, hang up on her.

10. We all know men are horny. But no need to excessively show it. It's a turn off.

11. Don't be so touchy. Let her know your relationship isn't based on lust.

12. Don't be afraid to sing for her, even if you think you have a horrible voice. She'll love it.

13. Don't be timid around her friends. It's important to leave good impressions on them.

14. Make a CD for her with her favorite songs.

15. Make a CD for her with your favorite songs.

16. Be confident. Girl's like confident guys.

17. Don't be scared to reveal your soft side.

18. But, don't be soft all the time. Show her your tough side once in awhile. Take care of her.

19. Trust her. You don't need to know every place she goes, every guys she talks with, etc. She'll gradually, and slowly, gain your trust.

20. Trust yourself.

21. Don't call her when you're drunk.

22. Don't question her about her past boyfriends, or what bases she has gone upto. Not until you guys trust each other, and in a stable relationship.

23. If she told you, don't bring it up again next time. Don't get jealous.

24. Never talk to her when you're extensively infuriated. You will talk out of your ass and remorse with much regrets later on.

25. When mad, calmy tell her you need time. When toned down, gently justify your reasons for getting mad.

26. Keep a daily diary. Give it to her in your aniversary.

27. Take pictures with her.

28. Take pictures of her.

29. Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.

29. Keep a picture of you two in your wallet.

30. Cook for her.

31. Cook together.

32. Bake cookies/cupcakes for her.

33. Bake cookies/cupcakes together.

34. Learn to be aggressive, when appropriate.

35. Learn to take chances and risks.

36. Mark her birthday, your anniversaries, her parent's birthday, her siblings birthday and other important dates on your calendar.

37. Keep a good relationship with her parents.

38. Don't be afraid to hold her hands in public.

39. Instead of going to the theatre, rent movies at a local store and watch it at your/her house.

40. Watch disney/kid movies together.

41. Compliment her.

42. However, don't excessively indulge her with compliments.

43. Never lie. Even if you believe it's for the better of both of you, don't. Always be honest.

44. Joke around and be immature. Liberate yourself.

45. Learn to be serious when time calls.

46. Go shopping together. Hold the bags for her, no matter how minimal.

47. Draw a picture of her for her. Even if you're the worst artist in the world.

48. Let her draw you.

49. Subtly, leave a note on her pillow.

50. Engage in sports together.

51. Accept her for who she is, despite her flaws and her past mistakes.

52. Teach her how to drive (no matter how bad she may be. Actually... well..).

53. Go for a jog/run.

54. Go for a walk.

55. No need to pay attention to rumours from her/your friends. Talk to her about it. Not them.

56. Smell good.

57. Don't be afraid to smile. No matter how ugly you think your smile may be.

58. Always be there for her. No matter how nominal her problems may seem.

59. No need to hide your imperfections. Humans are only fallible.

60. Go to the library together.

61. Study together; I mean, actually study.

62. Recommend her your favorite book.

64. Introduce her to your family.

65. Be silly. Learn to embarass yourself in front of her once in awhile.

66. Hold her hand when you're driving.

67. Give her a massage.

68. Fall asleep on the phone together.

69. Turn on a soft/classical music while she's asleep on the phone.

70. Remember every little, insignificant things she tell you/say.

71. Write her a poem.

72. Recite it to her.

73. Compose a song for her.

74. Sing it for her.

75. Make her a scrapbook.

76. Don't be afraid to go buy a tampon/pad for her.

77. Go grocery shopping together.

78. If you want her to open up, try opening up first.

79. Don't try to hide your tears in front of her.

80. Wish her goodnight everynight.

81. Feed her.

82. Let her feed you.

83. Don't have high expectations. You'll only be let down.

84. Pray for her. Aloud.

85. Pray with her.

86. Rid of your pride.

87. Open the door for her.

88. Be patient.

89. Smile at her.

90. Cherish her.

91. Thank her.

92. Drink tea together.

93. Never drive aggressively when you're mad - atleast when she's in the car.

94. Pick out a seashell for her at the beach.

95. Win her a doll at a boardwalk.

96. Take sticker pictures together.

97. Go trick-or-treating together.

98. Let her do your nails.

99. Let her wear your clothes.

Last, but not the least, and most imporantly,

100. Always be yourself.

thats a pretty well thought out list.

i love being bored because it makes us accomplish such kick ass things.

Nice truths on the list though ^-^

Haha, thanks!

I think I'm in love.

.. kidding, kidding. But really, that's amazing.

I SEE SOME OF MINE ON THERE
woooooohoo
I cahnt believe you actually posted it up. I thought you were just doing this for your own purposes.
GD JOB

yeah man thats a pretty awesome list
kinda touching. as dorky as i feel admitting that. haha
good job

I think this list is nice.

Aw Seon Ho...I love that list. I've done some of those! And am currently doing one...well, similar. #26.
But yeah, I agree with all of those. They're wonderful.

Wow, that's rather impressive.
I think you've hit all, if not, some of the sweetest things that can go on in a relationship. Awesome work Seon Ho. :)

That was wonderfully heart-warming. I'm going to show it to my boy. ^_^ It's a really sweet list, good job! I like it how you made it kinda personal. It's good for both you and the readers.

Aww, that's a nice list.
I should show this to my boyfriend...

nice list:]
its too wonderful<3

wow. awesome list

i should do that too

8. If she hangs up on you, call her back. If she doesn't pick up, try calling her once again. However, if she still doesn't pick up, give her some time. Wait until she calls back or call her back tomorrow.

9. Never, under any circumstances, hang up on her.


THANK YOU. This is quite a good list Seon Ho <3

every last item on that list, is true. to me, (me being a girl), that is.

This is probably the best thing you've done on cB. (I don't know of any others =x)

Extremely awesome list.

HAHA~ yeahh im with you on tha list~ =D

You are the most courageous man on Earth, in a way.

wow...that actually is a damn good list.

I think I agreed with everything up there or extremely agreed with things.
Good call on the whole space thing and everything...nice, nice.
I like how you said to engage in sports together, I have learned that is a plus as well.

Great list, well worth the hour in my opinion.

beautiful list :]

Nice list.Most of them are soo true.

Seon ho, you're great.

The thing I quoted is so true. This is an awesome list.

this list is good, it can really help me out
Thanks

that is like what every man should follow. very good list of what a perfect man should do :p

#2
#29
#86

Best ones. IMO

- Solipsist

Amazing. This should become The Official How-to-Treat-Gf Guide in cB.

that's a HUGE list... can't be bothered to read it all, but i can see the effort put into it

You're useless.

- Solipsist

Good topic. Nice way to make girls go all mushy hahah.

BA-ZING

but donald, you really should read it.

^Agreed.
Fantastic list. Good advice. Being bored is a good thing.

haha this list is damn good.:]

* Modified!

#95 Try and avoid most insecurity questions as best you can when she asks about herself.

How you deal with this is completely up to you as long as you avoid the question. i've found that a kiss usually get's you out of tight situations like these.

Wonderful list. I showed it to "him".

Quite a good list, I must admit!

sean ho that's amazing. I wish more guys knew that...

I'm going to print that out and make my future lover study it.

this is amazing. perfect. you got it down.

why does everyone always seem to bring back old topics

*scrolls up*
never mind it was someone new.

I am pretty sure it is a VERY GREAT heads up for guys. =D

ummMMmm i must say that i agree with everything in that list - - you really hit it on the money! geeze i think im gonna print it out and show it to my boyfriend -- ive been telling him he needs to do like half the stuff mentioned in your list. lolz.

Impressive list. Great job.

This is a very good list. Now, I wish I had a boyfriend who actually did this haha.

Updated! Yes! Got upto a 100.

Seon Ho is like cB's Dr. Phil.
..except, he's actually good.

I like what you added there. :)
Good tips!

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!! lol i love that list haha

Dr. Phil commends you for that list! Even Dr. Phil, the master of all relationships, couldn't have thought of that! Props, and kudos to you!

hah, you created the perfect boyfriend <3 this should be passed around myspace for all the idiots out there >< jkjk...wait....