yes. i had my heart broken once again. i guess im ready to talk about it..

so i was dating this guy... and i dunno..things were goin great.. till he dumped me.. he didnt really give me a reason.. just said there was a lot of shit goin on in his life and he wasnt ready to have a gf at the time. but then two days later he has a new girlfriend. and he is constantly comparing me to her. he says she's more athletic, and has a nicer body and shes taller n such...

heres a convo.. i censored his sn

l 2 l Nekked: I dunno... she's alright, I guess. I dont really know her...
x: I really like her..
l 2 l Nekked: I guess that's good for you then..
x: Guess so. She's a really cool girl.
l 2 l Nekked: She seems pretty nice.
x: somethin wrong?
l 2 l Nekked: I dunno... I just thought you said you didnt wanna be in a relationship right now..
x: Well I didnt, but then I met her. I dunno what to say.. I'm sorry if that hurts you.
l 2 l Nekked: It doesnt.. it just kinda confuses me..
x: well, i mean she's just really nice, and i really like her; that's all


an hour later:
(i was asking what my teacher said was acceptable to wear at the chorus concert)

l 2 l Nekked: should i wear the white one?
x: Mrs. D said not to wear white cuz it might rain and..yeah.. boobs...
l 2 l Nekked: i dont have...boobs..
x: haha that's true, i guess.
x: steph has great boobs
l 2 l Nekked: err..thats... good to know?
x: i swear, she has a dancers body.. everythings perfect. she's tall and everything.
l 2 l Nekked: wish i was tall..
x: haha you midget..



ergh... whats his problem?

Some guys out there are serious assholes. Don't let this guy get to you anymore. He's like that and you can't change him. You'll find someone else.

Cheer up

Aww...Christina! This has happened to a friend of mine as well. I don't know why guys are like that. Don't worry about it - you deserve someone better; he wasn't the guy for you. Ugh. You're great, Christina. Don't feel so insecure - you're great. I think guys do that because they want to keep their egos up, you know? Besides...he treats her like some trophy...she's better than everyone else...she's mine...blah blah blah...you know?

Aw, Christina He's such a guy You deserve better than that. He seems like he's trying to rub it in your face, but just don't let him get to you. You're so pretty and really nice, you can do better Here ya go Just don't let him get to ya

Exactly, Kathleen!

Christina you are a wonderful person and if he can't see that there is obviously something wrong with him and he is NOT worth your time.

yeh i know how u feel! my ex did the same thing!!! but hey he's a loser! how dare he say he doesnt want a gf... and suddenly get another one? there's much better guys than him...

He's a loser. Forgot about him!!

that is one guy that doesnt know how to treat you right... id say f him... he aint worth it

He sounds like a dipshit to me! what IS his problem? Next time, just tell him to shut it. Why would you wanna know about his girl anyways? He's obviously trying to toy with your mind and you don't have time for that do ya?

... what a mean guy.. he aint worth it...

=/ poor you! they say one thing but they do another, guys. but it really does hurt when they start talking about another girl to you and you really like them. a guy did that to me awhile ago and this girl friend of mine said "if he doesn't like you he can just leave it at that and not make it worse!" she's right, but sometimes they really don't know you like them and they're oblivious. in your case it seems like he does know since he said "i'm sorry if this hurts you." hope you feel better, if you're not over him yet then you will be eventually, healing takes time.

*hugs*

What an a-hole... Guys just loving doing that, rubbing it in that their new girl is sooooo much better than you. Humph just wait til we get a guy two million times hotter than you.

!@#$..

Forget about him. Absolutely wasn't worth it.

Cheer up!!

oooo that guy is a.... damn.. i think hes trying to make you jealous or something. im pretty sure hes going to have a very, very short relationship.

pshh he's not good enough for you, i think you could do so much better. don't worry about what he says and such... it doesn't matter. you're beautiful and you know it.

ouch. i mean, it's great if he found someone else, but he shouldn't have compared you to her. even in his mind. he should go after a girl cuz they impress them. not be like 'oh she's better than my old gf. i'm going to date her.' they should be like 'wow. she's really awsome. i think i'd like to date her.'

i'm sorry!!!!

hes such a jerk! u dont deserve someone like this.

WTF?! *gets out bat* How dare you say that about you ! ROOOOOOOOOOOAR! Stupid guy.. doesn't even deserve a girlfriend

im gonna go over there and kick his ass for u! i know guys like that.. they are total jerks... dont worry babe ull find someone way better and hell love u for u :D

im sorry, trish. Some guys can just be clueless jerks sometimes.

aoushfgo[9ahuguih GIVE ME HIS SCREEN NAME i'm going to kick his A.aoigouahag ><

Just forget about him and move on.

helloo.. [first time on here] but anyways! guys are like that. something similar happened to me, and i know it hurts ... at least a bit if not a lot. i'm telling you! don't worry about it and just get a move-on, u'd probably find someone better or at least a bit more worth your time =]

omg tht is so COLD. gurl if u eva need someone to give him a check, holla @ yo gurl. ill take care of the trash. IM me if u want me to talk to tht fag


IM-Gerberbabygrl



(sry i just really hate guys like tht)

that must really hurt....sounds like a real a-hole.
people like that aren't worth it....

u kno, my ex said that to me too, that he doesnt wanna break up cuz he doesnt wanna start a new relationship, 5 days later he goes out with my friend i knew for 5years.. messed up huh? anyways.. i dunno who u are or how u look like, but dont compare u wit her cuz u kno u had him first and she probably cant replace what u and ur ex had... lol if im u, i would play with ur ex's mind lols cuz hes being a d*ck and i would like.. flirt wit him and make him feel like a loser for dumping u with a capital L = Loser =) hehe i hope u feel better and hes not worth ur time to care and think about

I know what that's like...

My ex-boyfriend, we had been going out for a year and a half, he'd cheated on me twice with two friends and I found out, and it turned out he'd had another girlfriend the whole time (who is actually a lot like me...wtf?)

Anyways, the last thing he said to me was, "I really did love you, you know, just more of in a sick, twisted little sister kind of way. Don't call or get up with me anymore cause ya know what, you were my step-sister and our parents just divorced."

It's odd...those words are gonna always haunt me, even though it's been three months and five days since it happened and I've been with my new boyfriend from three moths a four days...and I really love my boyfriend now, but deep down...I'm always so afraid, so I try not to believe that anyone can ever love me, but that's the wrong thing to do.

So, (2)nekked, don't feel bad about yourself over this. It's -NOT- you. Never let him put you down, or make you feel that you're not good enough for him. Because he's the one who's not good enough for you.

omg this guy is awful. you deserve soo much better girl! i think this guy's just tryin to make you jealous. i think he still wants you to want him, but don't! you need to stand up for youself and tell him that you're not stephanie.. and that he has no right to compare you to her or vise versa. and please don't listen to what he says cuz honestly i doubt any of it is true. take care girl

oh...what a mean person...he obviously is an @$$h0Le? really, though. he doesn't even seem worth your time. i know the aftermath of the relationship stinks...but next time, just put a little of yourself out there. don't put all your emotions, all your time and love into that one time. when you feel like it's time to put all your emotions on the table (maybe after he has?), then maybe you can risk a heartbreak? erm, my teacher told me something like that with my bf...

shoomahshoomahblahblahomgbastardishGAWR!!!

wtf is his problem? did he forget to go poopoo today or what? jeez... ia hte guys like that. the same lamo excuse "i dont think i can handle a gurl right now" sh!t along with the "im oging through alot right now..." crap. i mean, dont they know that by dumping a gurl, they're putting some of that luggage on her by breaking her heart and making her miss him? i mean, jeez. it's like...
well anyways, feel better. sooner or later, he's going to get sick of the whole "steph this steph that" crap, and he shouldnt do that sh!t. obviously, he has problems. you deserve better... and besides. WHAT"S WRONG WITH YOUR BODY?! NOTHING! jeez. boobs arent everything, thass what most guys need to understand. Just cause their mommas have like 36D's dont mean every gurl they be with has to have humongo boobs dang. its about the INSIDE and what the person is LIKE that counts. not if they hav a huge @$$ or whatnot. I hate ingnorant guys like that who are always comparing and sh!t. esp. to their ex gf. they need to f**k off and stop taking too many tums cause its making them go diahrea to much. okay. anyways. end of my rage.

Eh. What a jerk.
Don't worry about it. From what I see, he surely doesn't deserve you. You'll find a better guy sooner or later, so cheer up!

eww no good..im sorrie..but i agree with what a lot of ppl say..ppl like that arent worth what you give them..