ok, sense the beginning of this school year (and its almost over mind u) i had this crush on a guy i never had talked to before. He is hot, wut can i say? Anywho, someone told him i liked him and he asked me out. Note of the shock i had!! Never even talked to the guy and we were "going out"!! Now i know who he is, and he's even hotter! He is the sweetest person i know, and funniest, and hottest.......and i am not even close to being wut he decerves.

I feel so bad. Before me, he never had a girlfriend and so i think hes missing out on alot by being with me. Im not a good girlfriend, i know im not b/c im scared. That and im a deformity next to him, so i get all in "awe" when i see him. I dont know what to do. I think i'd wither without him, but i really think he should be with someone better than me. I've told him that and he says he'd die without me, but its not like hes going to say the truth to me. Hes too sweet to hurt anyones feelings.

Wut should i do- tell him to go date other girls and risk the chance of hurting him (which i'd hurt myself before hurting him) or just act like everythings fine and take advantage of the fact he doesnt know wut its like to be with another? Im so lucky to have him, i dont decerve him. Im dirt, and hes a god. I dont know wut to do... plz help.

i understand what you mean but let him decide whether hes good enough for you! if you don't trust him then tell him how you feel. hope i could help and i hope things get better for you?

Aww...don't doubt yourself! Don't be so insecure! I'm sure you two are perfect for each other! Why else would he go for you?

awww, thx. i do trust him tho. i mean, i'd do anything for him and i trust anything he thinks is right, i just mean i think he's going out with me for sympathy cuz he knows how obsessed i am over him lol...i'd chain him to my wall if i could.

How long have you guys been going out? Since the beginning of the school year? If it's been that long, I don't think any guy would stay with a girl that long out of sympathy.

since its his first time having a girlfriend, don't trip about this ! =] it seems pretty obvious that he loves you a lot .. and dont think youre dirt to him. because youre his goddess. =] ..did that make sense ?

aw.. it seems like you're LUCKY lol. don't say that. you do deserve him. He's w/ you, he loves you. and that's all that matters.

awwwww, u guys are awesome, thx a million

yeah. let him decide if youre good enough for him. apparently you are, so stop being so degrading of yourself!!