I was wondering what the youngest age was when you were supposed to make out with someone. My mom is totally stuck in the 60's where guys walk you to your steps and then leave ((no kissing)) you should get your first kiss when you're 18 yrs old. You should lose your virginity at 20 and then between 18-20 you can make out with boys. But only if you truley love them.

however, I've kissed, hugged, held hands with, made out, and been groped by guys before and I'm only 13. Does this make me a slut/whore? Because I don't wish to be...frankly, I don't think anyone does.

i started in the 6th or 7th grade when i was like 11 and 12...
you're not a slut...
if anything im a whore...
and the ages you're mom gave aren't form the 60's... everyone was too high back then to give a damn about abstinence...

kinda depends. i mean..if your looking for sex then i would call you a slut but if your just expressing affection then i understand since i do stuff like that too and im 15.

It depends if your ready or not.

it depends if you feel ready or not.

^^whats groped?

The ages your mom gave aren't that bad. Losing your virginity at 20 is better than waiting until marriage which usually never happens at 20. Your first kiss should happen when you're younger than 18. The making out thing isn't so bad but you shouldn't be making out with random guys, so there has to be some form of attachment.

It doesn't necessarily make you a slut or a whore but it's not exactly good... You're only 13, why are you getting groped by guys? I was 14 and in my opinion, that's pretty bad...but then again, it was only one guy, not "guys."


Groped = felt up, fondled, things of that nature.

Maybe this should be in Relationships...or maybe the Lounge. I'll pick Relationships. Why has this been here for so long?

haha
Don't be worried about what other people think
^ i agree with Chii though

the ages are nice she gave
if you don't plan on waiting til your married.

Just don't go to far at a young age?
maybe thats the best.

yeah the ages are not that bad
i only just started making out, and i'm 16
there's no age limit usually, it depends if you're ready or not

The things your mom advised is a pretty good idea. But just because you did all that, doesn't mean that you're a slut. Unless, (like Chii said) you made out with random guys. If you're comfortable with the person and ready, then it shouldn't be bad.

I'm thirteen too,and I've made out.
but with only one guy,and I'm still with him.
I had my first kiss with him,too.
but 13 is way too young to be groped,in my opinion.
like ew.

I don't think that the ages that your mom gave is all that bad. As for your question...no I don't think that you're a slut/whore...but to me, making out and being groped at 13..is...kinda pushing the lines a bit. But that's just me. Holding hands is fine and kissing is fine too.

i agree. but you're not a whore at all! some people have sex with multiple guys at 13.


i myself haven't made out with anyone though.. and i'm 15. so i don't consider your moms ages all that bad. but thats just me.

do you run hogsmeade_layouts?

everybodys definition of a whore/slut is different. if your comfortable with what your doing then go with that, but once you start to feel like your being used then re think your decisions, until then have fun....but not to much fun to where you can relate to lifetime movies

I'm 14 and my mom doesn't care about...

-holding hands
-hugging
-making out
-kissing

stuff like that!

she just doesn't want me having sex or anything like that.

I am 18 years old. I have been in love, I have fallen out of love, and I have made out with people. When you hit college, all of those things that your parents told you about how not to have sex and etc really come into light and you realize that some of the stuff that they said was true and some of it was a complete lie.

In these days, sex is everywhere. Your parents tell you not to do it till you are in love because if you sleep around, you will be called horrible names. I know girls in my area who have been with at least 4 or 5 guys. I know girls who have gone to drunken parties and had sex with random guys and don't even remember there names. This is actually becoming socially acceptable.

This is my thought: Yeah, sex is great, but wouldn't it be better to wait for the experience and do it with someone who will truely care about you in the morning? So sex and all of that stuff is acceptable now among many people of your age, but wouldn't you like to do it with someone who cares about you with all of your heart? A person who will wake up with you in the morning and not have to throw their pants on and run out the door, but a person who will smile, kiss your hands, and thank you for sharing a passionate moment?

I guess this is just me and my old romance films talking. The old black and white ones....

This question doesn't seem to be random at all…

you've been groped and you're only 13? well...that's young. personally, i would wait till i was older to get involved with somebody.

Craaaaaaaap! Thanks for catching that error. I had no idea why I put that. lol. Usually I catch mistakes really quick. Thanks for catching that for me. :3

lol dont worry about it XD

my lil sis just finished elementary or however you spell it XD

and she tells me 5th graders always make out...

eww XD

xD It definitely doesn't make you a whore or anything like that. You felt close enough to those guys to kiss them and stuff and it's not abnormal for other girls to do the same things. As far as being groped by them.. you can't help it. It's their actions and they obviously think you're hott. Don't sweat it, you're not a hooker.

i think 13 is a.. bit young but i guess it's okay. it depends who the guy is and if you're mature enough for it. i mean mentally.

No, it doesn't mean you're a slut/whore, but you're still young so I wouldn't suggest going further at your age. My mom thinks 18 years old is too young to get kissed. Like makes it out to be equal as going wild and then ending up homeless someday cuz I didn't study enough cuz I kissed someone.

erf.. i didn't do anything with anyone untl i was 16... then, i just went crazy

what i think:

don't get phisically attached to a person you're not serious about. it only makes things worse when you break up. This doesn't mean you don't have a little fun. Just make sure you have to right mind set.