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blurrr
i wanna tell the guy i like that i like him...he knows i like him n i know he likes me back...he told me he does...so i might see him this weekend....so i was thinking about telling him in person but that would be scary but i kinda wanna do that becuz that would have alot of cute moments to go along with it...but maybe i cud do it over the phoen which wud be much easier but not as cute/romantic....soo...any advice??? also whatdo i say? like not only what do i say to tell him...how do i lead up to it n stuff? thx 4 ur advice!
priyas
I think you should do it in person. It usually works better.
SimplicityGirl
Eh, if he already knows that you like him...why do you need to tell him again?
_sarcastic_
^agreed.
but either way, it's better to tell him in person
xbby_charmz
gurl on phone the guy cant see your emotions like your face expressions that ur really into him, in person its much better and it goes smooth and yah .
silver-rain
Yeah, it's better in person. That way, he can see that you really do like him through your facial expressions and emotions, etc. But, why do you have to tell him again if he knows?
waccoon
If you think you won't be able to handle telling him in person, do it over the phone. Granted, it won't be as personal, but you can be a little more at ease when you tell him.

I find the best way to tell someone that is to just be blunt. Forget subtlety and just tell him straight out. "I kinda have feelings for you.", or something along those lines.

It might just be me but it really pisses me off when someone beats around the bush.
This Confession
person would probably work easier..
don't be so nervous though..
and just be honest with him.
SarahxJoy
QUOTE(waccoon @ May 18 2006, 8:31 PM) *
If you think you won't be able to handle telling him in person, do it over the phone. Granted, it won't be as personal, but you can be a little more at ease when you tell him.

I find the best way to tell someone that is to just be blunt. Forget subtlety and just tell him straight out. "I kinda have feelings for you.", or something along those lines.

It might just be me but it really pisses me off when someone beats around the bush.


Nick..I have feelings for you. wub.gif
laugh.gif Jaykay. But don't worry, you still hold a special place in my heart. throb.gif

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Seeing as how this guy already likes you, I say tell him in person. If you didn't know that he did like you, maybe it'd be better to do over the phone, because it would be embarassing if you told him you liked him only to find that he didn't feel the same way.

But yeah, give into peer pressure (I kid) and go with what everyone else says here: Do it in person. biggrin.gif
PrincessAda
I say tell him in person or whatever you feel confortable doing.
Uronacid
yeah... um... just tell him when the time is right... damn, i can't give advice right now for sh*t... my head is all wrapped up in my own problems...
Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg
IN PERSON! I can't stress enough on how much it bugs me when people tell another they like them over the phone or internet. The way I see it, it shows that you're too cowardly to have a relationship by not telling them in person. And how do you expect to have a relationship at all if you were too shy to even tell him you like him?
OhxMyBass
Eh.. I'd do it in person.
destineebaker
if you can do it in person, it has more meaning, and its not like he can just walk away from you. on the phone, he has the option of hanging up, but i doubt he will if hes a good kid. besides, my friend asked his gf out over the phone; they've been going out for 8 months.
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