blurrr
May 18 2006, 07:45 PM
i wanna tell the guy i like that i like him...he knows i like him n i know he likes me back...he told me he does...so i might see him this weekend....so i was thinking about telling him in person but that would be scary but i kinda wanna do that becuz that would have alot of cute moments to go along with it...but maybe i cud do it over the phoen which wud be much easier but not as cute/romantic....soo...any advice??? also whatdo i say? like not only what do i say to tell him...how do i lead up to it n stuff? thx 4 ur advice!
priyas
May 18 2006, 07:48 PM
I think you should do it in person. It usually works better.
SimplicityGirl
May 18 2006, 07:53 PM
Eh, if he already knows that you like him...why do you need to tell him again?
_sarcastic_
May 18 2006, 08:19 PM
^agreed.
but either way, it's better to tell him in person
xbby_charmz
May 18 2006, 09:49 PM
gurl on phone the guy cant see your emotions like your face expressions that ur really into him, in person its much better and it goes smooth and yah .
silver-rain
May 18 2006, 10:12 PM
Yeah, it's better in person. That way, he can see that you really do like him through your facial expressions and emotions, etc. But, why do you have to tell him again if he knows?
waccoon
May 18 2006, 10:31 PM
If you think you won't be able to handle telling him in person, do it over the phone. Granted, it won't be as personal, but you can be a little more at ease when you tell him.
I find the best way to tell someone that is to just be blunt. Forget subtlety and just tell him straight out. "I kinda have feelings for you.", or something along those lines.
It might just be me but it really pisses me off when someone beats around the bush.
This Confession
May 18 2006, 10:32 PM
person would probably work easier..
don't be so nervous though..
and just be honest with him.
SarahxJoy
May 18 2006, 10:35 PM
QUOTE(waccoon @ May 18 2006, 8:31 PM)

If you think you won't be able to handle telling him in person, do it over the phone. Granted, it won't be as personal, but you can be a little more at ease when you tell him.
I find the best way to tell someone that is to just be blunt. Forget subtlety and just tell him straight out. "I kinda have feelings for you.", or something along those lines.
It might just be me but it really pisses me off when someone beats around the bush.
Nick..I have feelings for you.

Jaykay. But don't worry, you still hold a special place in my heart.

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Seeing as how this guy already likes you, I say tell him in person. If you didn't know that he did like you, maybe it'd be better to do over the phone, because it would be embarassing if you told him you liked him only to find that he didn't feel the same way.
But yeah, give into peer pressure (I kid) and go with what everyone else says here: Do it in person.
PrincessAda
May 19 2006, 12:32 AM
I say tell him in person or whatever you feel confortable doing.
Uronacid
May 19 2006, 07:41 AM
yeah... um... just tell him when the time is right... damn, i can't give advice right now for sh*t... my head is all wrapped up in my own problems...
Teenage Mutant Ninja Meg
May 19 2006, 05:41 PM
IN PERSON! I can't stress enough on how much it bugs me when people tell another they like them over the phone or internet. The way I see it, it shows that you're too cowardly to have a relationship by not telling them in person. And how do you expect to have a relationship at all if you were too shy to even tell him you like him?
OhxMyBass
May 20 2006, 07:24 PM
Eh.. I'd do it in person.
destineebaker
May 21 2006, 04:10 PM
if you can do it in person, it has more meaning, and its not like he can just walk away from you. on the phone, he has the option of hanging up, but i doubt he will if hes a good kid. besides, my friend asked his gf out over the phone; they've been going out for 8 months.
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