she's back. the chick that i went through all this bs wit just happens 2 txt me today sayin she needs to talk to me. i must admit that homegirl has a special place in my heart, but we've been on and off for the past 2 yrs. and i truthfully don't know if it's worth going back and riskin breakin her heart or havin her break mine. she f**ked me around enough times 2 the point where i was like "bump this". there's other females i can go after, but i keep thinkin of her. i would never intentionally hurt her, but i can't say the same about her
help me out cB

"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."

Consider the possibilities of what would happen if you two did get back together. Then consider the opposite. All I can really say I guess, is in time, where do you find yourself most happy?

And if you don't mind my asking, did she text you, asking to get back together? Or did she give any inclination of what she wants to talk about?

Maybe you should start thinking of these things AFTER you've talked to her.

^ I agree...just talk to her.

True love is all about forgiving and trust...if you two don't have both...then maybe giving it another try may not be such a good idea.

If you think that you'd be most happy
with her again, even if there are flaws.
Then I'm saying give it one more shot,
but lay down a couple of ground rules
with her. Let her know that if something
like your past relationship happens again
your gonna cut her out of your life and
such.

i have a friend that has a somewhat similar situation as yours. she and her boyfriend have been on and off again for the past year or two. when they break up, they still stay in contact and still have feelings for each other. sure, they might become very briefly involved with someone else for awhile but they always end up back together. they still have their tough times but they always seem to work out in the end because their feelings for each other are just that strong, been through too much to let go now.

you should consider the pros and cons and really just talk to her. tell her how you feel about the whole situation and ask her the same and make sure she answers truthfully. if she keeps reappearing like that in your life then maybe it's some sort of sign. if not then, you'll find someone else that'll be more memorable. basically, i'm agree with everything that everyone else has offered. good luck!

yea i agree with Tainted Angel

she said pretty much what i was going to say..

you should talk to her before getting to any of these conclusions on what you think she wants
unless she actually said that.

I agree with everyone else..talk to her..share feelings..

agreed.

"PU$$Y_PUMP#R_3000" i think you should change your name.. if very difficult to take you seriously when you ask these types of questions...

I think you should talk to her about it. Ask her what she meant by that text message. It's all up to you, sometimes people just need a second try at things. Are you willing to take the risk?

I would talk to her, consider what will happen if you do and don't get back to her, and see whcih seems better. Talk to her though.

stay as friends for a little while