aholic_sb
May 3 2006, 02:54 AM
I have a friend making rumours about me and the girl that i liked. and now the girl i liked is pissed at me... anyone know what should i do?
This Confession
May 3 2006, 02:58 AM
talk to her
and tell her the truth
You need to talk to your "friend" as well.
Its really immature to start rumors.
misoshiru
May 3 2006, 02:58 AM
Tell her the truth about it, and think about it, why are you even friends with this guy/girl anyways if they make up rumors about you.
starlette
May 3 2006, 03:01 AM
take a pen and a peice of paper, grab ur rumor telling friend, STAB HIM/HER IN THE EYE WITH THE PENCIL AND PUT THE PAPER OVER IT TO STOP THE BLEEDING. Or just tell them to grow up because the things they are saying hurt you. And actually, if they were ur friend they wouldnt do that. DO re-evaluate this friendship. And tell the girl that its all lies and if you ever had anything to say about her you would say it to her face. Even if you wouldnt. Or stab her in the eye too. <3 </violence>
SarahxJoy
May 3 2006, 03:16 AM
^I'm sure he'll wanna' go with that second choice there.

1. I'd talk to the girl you used to like and try to convince her that the rumors are false.
2. If that doesn't work, then talk to your so-called "friend" and find out
why they're ever spreading such rumors in the first place. Then either make amends or end the friendship.
3. Now, consult #1 after completing #2.
aholic_sb
May 3 2006, 07:00 AM
my friend is actually a girl, she dont want me to go out with the girl that i like, thatswhy she made the rumours and now the girl i like is starting to believe the rumours...
Your pain is not love
May 3 2006, 07:07 AM
If she's doing that, then she's just doing the best for you. You should talk to her and understand why she's doing it and what she actually thinks about the girl you like. If she doesn't even know the girl you like then you should tell her to give you space until she has facts.
You just need to get to know the girl you like first if you want to show that your rumour-spreading friend is wrong. Don't blow up on her, she's just doing it because she cares about you.
aholic_sb
May 3 2006, 08:48 AM
the girl that likes me hates the girl that i like so...
priyas
May 3 2006, 09:02 AM
QUOTE(Your pain is not love @ May 3 2006, 5:07 AM)

If she's doing that, then she's just doing the best for you. You should talk to her and understand why she's doing it and what she actually thinks about the girl you like. If she doesn't even know the girl you like then you should tell her to give you space until she has facts.
You just need to get to know the girl you like first if you want to show that your rumour-spreading friend is wrong. Don't blow up on her, she's just doing it because she cares about you.
I agree also.
Your pain is not love
May 3 2006, 09:06 AM
QUOTE(aholic_sb @ May 3 2006, 9:48 PM)

the girl that likes me hates the girl that i like so...
If they have
good reasons to dislike each other so much, as in - if they know each other enough and proof for such dislike, then I think you should steady their relationship first and ask them to reconsider on their views.
Uronacid
May 3 2006, 09:12 AM
Tell her the truth, if she doesn't believe you... also, confront the person spreading these rumors about you... confront them on a one on one basis...
here's a really helpful article about conflict and how to confront people in a respectful way to get possitive results ;)
link ;)
aholic_sb
May 3 2006, 09:34 AM
the situation is getting more and more worst... now the girl that i like blocked me in msn... i think shes really pissed right now
fatal emotions
May 3 2006, 12:51 PM
your friend (if it's a girl) may like you as more than friend. Or maybe she's just jealous.
it may sound crazy, but it sometimes happens like that.
aholic_sb
May 4 2006, 10:31 AM
the more i convinced the girl i liked the rumours are spreading to more and more ppl, and now the girl that i like totally believes the rumour and she now thinks that is me who made it up and she seems to be very angry now...
Your pain is not love
May 4 2006, 10:49 AM
Talk to your rumour-spreading friend first. Ask her to stop, she shouldn't have done it in the first place. You liking a bad girl or not, she still doesn't have the right to hurt/humiliate you that way. And then clarify it with your crush.
PrincessAda
May 4 2006, 06:26 PM
Talk to your crush..Tell her whats really going on.
Your friend or whatever might be jealous and telling lies because she actually likes you and wants you all to herself..
Uronacid
May 4 2006, 08:03 PM
he just did... i think your ruined man... im sorry, you can give up if you want... and i wouldn't blame you, you may like her but your lucky your not in love... its ok, let the rumors die out... and a new fish will swim along... believe me, you'll like her just as much :D
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