I'm not quite sure if this is pg-13 or not and if it isnt im sorry and the mods can go ahead and close it but anyways...

So I've been with my boyfriend for awhile... and hes amazing... theres been somethings that bother me like... how he street races... wants to go to bartending school to become a bartender... to pay for mechanics school to become an automotive repairs thingy... so that he can become an actor/model... but i havent let that bother me much... but recently i found out he has done "adult" movies... and I dont exactly approve of that... I dont know if its worth getting upset over because whats done is done and theres nothing i can really do about it... but lately ive been questioning our relationship... like whether i should stay with him or not... hes real sweet... hott... but theres just all these things i keep finding out about him...

I think that if you both have
a strong trust within each other.
You guys should have a talk. A
talk where you don't keep any
secrets hidden and you tell
everything to each other. It's
the best way to find out without
getting hurt later on.

You shouldn't break up with him
yet though. He could have
possibly changed. So just see
if you can talk to him about
telling you everything you don't
know about.

I agree.

You two should sit down and talk about laying all of the cards on the table, things about the past that you guys would think may cause trouble later on if they're left unsaid. Hopefully nothing bad happens while this discussion takes place, but it's better late than never.

talk about it.... O_o

Although everybody is saying it, you really have to talk to him. communicate with one another! let him know how you feel.

TALK TO HIM .. it works

its a renound and unanimous decision.... we all think you should talk to him >.>

okay... but the problem is... i ahvent spoken to him since like... monday... hes probably to hung over right now to answer the phone...

well, part of talking to someone is waiting until they are realdy to talk to you... find the right time and make it happen *magical* *bink*

Talk to him a.s.a.p.

Communication is the key.

key key key, put the key in the hole and make it happen... O_o

key key key, put the key in the hole and make it happen... O_o

lol... i made it work... i took everyones advice... especially tainted_angel's and like... everythings great and i owe it all to you guys!!

heyy.. im Crystal n i just broke up wt my boifriend todai for a sytupid gay reasun n i feel soo shiiittty

^ I'm sorry to hear that. But I don't think this is quite the right place to put that. Try the Message to Anyone thread.

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I'm glad to hear that you guys worked it out. So I guess this can be closed now?

^^yea... the mods can close this now...