I don't know if i'll sound like a huge jerk when i'm explaining but if i do i apologize.


The only time I’ve ever been asked out was by this really weird guy. All my friends have been asked out by someone that’s actually nice. I think I’m pretty. It’s not like I don’t have friends, I have lots of friends. And a bunch of them are guys. So I don't know why they wouldn't notice me. I’m not shy at all. I flirt sometimes too. Has this ever happened to anyone else? What can I do to make them realize that I want someone to like me?

No doubt, you're a cutie (w/ a big booty), so why wouldn't they ask u out.

I'll do it then. colleen92, i been watchin you watchin me and i just wanted 2 know, would u make me 1 of the luckiest dudes in cB and go out with me?

(Random act of Kindness #1)

of course. I love you. forever....and ever.

guys might say stuff like "oh, looks don't matter in a girl, as long as i love them." they're wrong. they DO care about girls' looks, and they will try to get with a pretty/hot girl. it seems shallow, no?

just wait it out until a guy does notice you. or something like that.

I was the same way. Until, the guy im recently w/ asked me out. Just wait, and the right guy will come.

guys might think you're not girlfriend material.

how old are you, btw? if you haven't reached high school yet, then don't sweat it.

i've been asked out twice, but i didn't like either of them but i only saw them as friends.

maybe you just haven't found the right person yet.

just be patient

the day will come
although you could go out on the limb and ask someone out yourself.

and this happend to be all through school..
ive always had more guy friends.
but sometimes they just see you as only that
and sometimes they don't
and just don't have the guts to ask a girl out..
which i find odd and funny at the same time..

just takes time
i don't know how old you are as well
but if your like in middle school or something lower.
you still got plenty of time..

[or even high school]

i was the same way...but then one guy asked me out and he was AMAZING...only my parents found out about him ....

they've told me who they like...(it's that bad lol) and a lot of the time they won't ask them out. so even if one did like me...i probably wouldn't know...

just wait...someone will come along
why not you go up and ask them out?

Be patient.Theres really no good explanation why guys won`t ask you out because..every guy has a different taste for girls.I think that you should just ask someone out yourself or give hints more.

^Yeah. I agree.
The time hasn't come for the guy to ask yet. :]

Don't stress about boys. You're only 16, it's not that big of a deal. Hell, the worst relationship I had started when I was 16. They're much more trouble than they're worth. Let things flow naturally.

Moved to Relationships.

well i'm not quite 16...and i know i'm young, but it just makes me...i guess kind of jealous that everyone else has had someone that likes them...but i haven't

maybe guys just dont see you as anything more than a friend. and if you like someone, go ahead and ask them out.

Guys will ask you out if not now, soon. You just have to be patient and don't get desperate, you don't want to say yes to just anyone.

ew! sick no! lol i'd never get that desperate there's only one guy i have my eye on.

You think guys won't ask you out and thats bad?
Girls won't even look at me twice. Now theres something wrong there.

you need to dress in short skirts, listen to hip hop, and get a bigger cup size kthx.


Kind of contradicting your first point?

Yes, it's happened to me. But, it takes time for people to notice you--I mean, maybe you haven't fully...blossomed or however you want to put it. If you want/like/love a guy--then aim for him. Work hard and get him. If you want a guy to ask you out, work on him. I felt that way too last year. Every guy that I liked only liked me as a friend. When I look back at it, I'm glad they didn't like me back! LOL! But, someone will notice you and like you as much as you like them back.

It's like when you're looking for something you lost--if you don't look for it, you'll just come across and bam! You found it! In a way, that person will be like that.

1. Be patient
2. If you're confident about your looks, don't sweat it, you must be
3. Just because a guy asks you out, doesn't mean you should go for him, you know?
4. Do what you do best: be your self, no one else
5. Flaunt what ya got
6. Good luck!!! x 939648888

They're probably intimidated since you act like "one of the guys." you never know, someone might like you even if you don't think so!

i just saw your pictures on your myspace, and i don't blame the guys

that was extremely rude.

just givin you a reality check

a reality check? are you stupid? i realize i'm not the "hottest" girl ever, but that gives you no right to call me ugly. i don't even know who the hell you are. you don't know who the hell i am either. and in case you didn't read my first post, i asked you to help me, not judge me.

shhhhh... its not about being hot or ugly or anything physical for that matter... the truth is a relationship in your life will come along natrually... don't be impacient... let the relationship come to you... not the other way around :)

jerk.

There's your problem right there, bold and red. Guys can sometimes be pretty damn clueless. The guys you hang out with probably see you as a friend, not more. So maybe you should make the first move?

I don't think he looked at the rest of your pictures. You ARE really cute. And a girl who's really cool is automaticly cool to a guy too. Guys don't normally like to go out with bizzy natches, so your time will deff. come. In fact, I bet your guy friends get guys that like you all the time, but they don't tell you.

Just a few days ago my friend confessed to me that a few guys have gotten on aim and said, "Dude...don't take this the wrong way...but your best friend is HOT."

See what I mean? Tell your guy friends that this information is crucial and not to dally with it.

Not all guys are shallow. It depends on personality. And what you said was kinda hurtful.

You just gotta wait for the right person to come. They also may not think you're girlfriend material.

There's a difference between being realistic and being flat-out rude. This here is being rude and that is not tolerated here. This is a verbal warning.

Anyway, about not being asked out - don't worry about it. Having friends is good at your age. Anything more can wait. Consider dating a bonus to your current social life. And don't have the mindset of "I'm not pretty enough" or "I'm not nice enough" because it's not true. Guys are pretty clueless like Meg said. If you really want to get into dating, sometimes you have to make the first move.