swimgirlarc
Apr 29 2006, 12:17 AM
There's this guy i'm good friends with and have know his family for a while. I respected him a lot because he was so polite to adults, is a hard worker, and stays away from drugs. I dont have feelings for him or anything but i cried when I found out he's going out with an immature 8th grader. I know she's immature because i know her personally and the kind of people she hangs out with. Shes the kind who's gone out with 10 kids a month and the relation ships lasted less than two weeks. I dont know why but i just totally lost respect for him.
yeah im a crybaby
What are your opinions on this?
xforgottenlove
Apr 29 2006, 12:49 AM
mm well i think it shows that you care deeply for him because you probably want him to end up with someone that's good enough for him and she obviously isn't. maybe you should talk to him about it?
xbby_charmz
Apr 29 2006, 01:43 AM
I agree with the person up top
I think you should either have a one and one conversation wit this person for thats prob all you can do to get to him wit dis gurl.
but you gotto kind of realize that if he is wit dat person than usually that means that he likes her alot and maybeeh why she date on and off is cause she give people chances and if she dont like the way its going then dump em hah or sometin and yah
u just got to see it from both ways
GiggleBear
Apr 29 2006, 11:06 AM
Talk to him, don't hide things back.. tell him how you feel perhaps?
GREASEbaby
Apr 29 2006, 11:51 PM
I'm close to tears....
What x___F0RG0TTEN said, you obviously care very, deeply about him. He's like a brother to you, no? Talk to him, tell him that this is not the girl he deserves, but remind him that there's always one right around the corner (hint hint..haha)
PrincessAda
Apr 30 2006, 12:17 AM
Ahh your not a crybaby.He`s like your hero/role model.I would cry too if I lost respect for someone I have respected.Because being respected by someone is a really hard thing to get.Well..I think you should confront him.Tell him how you feel.But don`t be soo harsh because he can take it the wrong way.
priyas
Apr 30 2006, 01:24 AM
QUOTE(x___F0RG0TTEN @ Apr 28 2006, 10:49 PM)

mm well i think it shows that you care deeply for him because you probably want him to end up with someone that's good enough for him and she obviously isn't. maybe you should talk to him about it?
yeah. i agree.
Chii
Apr 30 2006, 01:50 AM
You are definitely not a cry baby. I AM! I cried the other day when I was watching that Disney movie Anastasia. I barely know why!
I believe that you cried because you don't want him to get hurt. He's your good friend, tell him how you feel about his girlfriend and her reputation. But, don't push him to break up with her. He needs to learn from his own mistakes.
Topic Moved to Relationships.
_sarcastic_
Apr 30 2006, 06:13 PM
^i agree
you just care about him alot and don't want to see him get hurt.
tell him that, tell him how you feel about him being with her. but it's up to him to make his own decisions.
lalalaLANUH
Apr 30 2006, 06:19 PM
I don't think you're a crybaby. You care deeply for him, and maybe you've developed this sister-like intuition that says this girl isn't right for him. Just have a casual chat with the guy. However, don't turn it into a one sided conversation. He seems to be a smart guy, so hear him out. Maybe you're just being protective or something?
misoshiru
May 1 2006, 04:08 AM
Talk to him since you obviously care. But if he doesn't listen, just let him go. Everyone needs to learn to pick themselves up when they stumble.
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