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Chidori
I like this one girl in my school and I just got to know her. I don't know if or when I should ask her out b/c I am moving to LA and if I ask her, it'll soon turn into a long distance relationship which I have seen not work. We DO have a lot in common, but I am moving in like 2 months. I have NO clue whatsoever if I should ask her. It's a tough one for me. What do you think?
LiNHy POO
yeh that is pretty tough... im not sure if you should ask her out... but you SHOULD tell her how you feel.. thats important!
conster
well if u think u guys gona be happy for that 2months why not give it a try?? at least u were with her and u were happy...
DoOdOox3
QUOTE(conster @ May 17 2004, 9:37 PM)
well if u think u guys gona be happy for that 2months why not give it a try?? at least u were with her and u were happy...

totally agreeed
xjjajeengx
maybe you should just enjoy the two months you ahve with her. Go ask her out on a date, and just enjoy the time you ahve with her. _smile.gif
CEP
Enjoy the two months.
Then just dump her.
Yeah, you're gonna be moving close to me! w00t!

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
huihead
do whatever you want, as long as you're left without regrets when you move
Chidori
Should I tell her how I feel NOW? I just met her.
ThePrincessofTKD
you don`t really have to give YOUR ALL to her NOW.

just say "i`m falling in love with you" or "i`m starting to like you very much"

not "i love you"...so many people make that mistake...by rushing things..don`t rush this!

make the best out of it! have fun with her! but don`t go IN TOO DEEP or she`ll just cling on to you and JUST DIE when you leave. girls do that. biggrin.gif
Chidori
I am so lost and confused... I don't want to rush things but I am leaving in a couple of months. Argh. Should I ask her to a movie with a bunch of my other friends? She knows who they are.
ThePrincessofTKD
QUOTE(Chidori @ May 19 2004, 1:54 PM)
I am so lost and confused... I don't want to rush things but I am leaving in a couple of months. Argh. Should I ask her to a movie with a bunch of my other friends? She knows who they are.

go with just the two of you.

it`ll be special. happy.gif
Chidori
What do I say to her? sorry about all these questions, I am a newbie at this. I havent been on a date b4. Sounds loserish but I am a teen
ThePrincessofTKD
well...if you want to go on a date with her just say "hey..i`m free saturday afternoon/night...you want to go to the movies with me? just the two of us?"

and then after maybe a week of going out on dates or just plain hanging out together just to two of you..break it to her. tell her about you leaving. but make sure it`s a quite place when you tell her...it can`t be noisy and you don`t want it to end up yelling at each other..

so yeah...you don`t really have to take my advice. happy.gif

but it was nice of you to read my replies.
mai_z
well ask her out first, then talk about it afterwards....just make sure she knos ur leaving
Chidori
Ne other suggestions?
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