um.. im not sure if this is PG-13... but i really need to know...

my boyfriend and i became quite intimate a couple months back.. and a couple weeks back.. we had briefly had oral sex (him doing it to me..).. and now.. im not sure if its related.. but after that incident.. i have little bumps under my pubic hair area (ive never had something like this before until after.. that..). They look like little pimples.. and they are pretty itchy.. but if i ever do itch them.. they start hurting a lot... did i get some kind of HIV / STI or anything like that... what's wrong with me? im getting nervous/scared... or is this something that has nothing to do with HIV/STI and something else? please help...

I'm not an expert but consulting a doctor would be a wise decision.

im only 17... i couldnt possibly tell my parents.. they are against me having a bf to begin with.. they would hit the roof if they knew i even frenched him... so i have no way to get to a doctor.. not to mention the embarassment factor...

That sounds pretty bad...
It can't simply be dry skin if there are painful bumps... You may have contracted herpes...hopefully not but you definitely should go see a gynecologist.

You could go to a Planned Parenthood, I believe they have a policy of confidentiality.

Don't you have those doctors who allow anonymous teen patients in your area?

i havnt checked.. i'll do some research and see if i have any near here.. thanks

go to a clinic & not to mention; ask your boyfriend if he has anything serious and to be there for you; through this whole thing

It sounds like crabs, although I don't know how you would have gotten it from oral sex.



I'm sure it's obvious that you should contact your gyno as soon as possible... If you don't get early treatment, it'll end up a lot worse than it started out.

damn girl hahahaha u got burnt! sorry hun but yur dude gave u sumthin nasty, but maybe not... i guess it depends, have u ever experienced anythin like this b4? if not im guessin its not a coincidence!

they could just be ingrown hairs irritated from the...*experience*...unless you dont shave then yea.....but it would be wise to get it checked out though. better safe than sorry

you're so f**king rude.

Agreed. It sounds more like shaving related than oral-sex. Have you shaved your cho-cha recently? If so, then you have ingrown hairs.

^ agreed also. It depends though. You should still get it checked out. It could be a variety of things.

that's really rude. she came here for advice. that's very inconsiderate and un-needed right now.

Seriously - go to your ObGyn and SOON. If there is a potential problem, you might have an infection that could grow steadily worse. This is not an area of your body to neglect.

I understand that you don't feel comfortable speaking to your parents about this. Perhaps go to Planned Parenthood?

sometimes that happens when you shave your pubes. it could be from that but it depends - have you shaved down there recently?

First off. Was your bf tested?

I understand that your parents dont like you having a bf. But some STI's such as syphilis can be fatal if they are not treated. Others such as aids are life long. Its better to tell your parents or your conditons will get worst?

I suggest going to a doctor; what's the worst your parents can do? Ground you? I really, really, hope they wouldn't kick you out of the house

I'll pray for ya, and make sure your boyfriend is with you through this

aw thanks everybody for your concern.. it really touched me



i did find a walk in clinic around here.. and i went with a really good friend to get it checked out.. and the doctor said it wasnt herpes or anything.. and that it was just an irritation.. he didnt say from what though.. coz i dont shave down.. there.. LOL but everything is okay =)



thanks again

Yayyyyyyy