Alright, my bestest friend in the whole wide world... is my ex boyfriend. We met last year and went out for about 7 months, then I broke up with him for the most stupid reason in the world. Now, I pretty much think he thinks I'm one of the guys or something. Because he talks about sooo much gross stuff!! In the beginning I really didn't mind it, but now it's freaking annoying and racks on my last nerves each time.

Which brings me to my next problem...

I have a short fuse and I pretty much everytime that happens or something wrong is said, I take it way too seriously. I've been trying for months to overcome it, but I let it build up and then an outburst of rage follows. Take today for example, his bestfriend is a total jerk to me. he always had been! and recently I've started to say things to his face instead of talking to my best friend (his best friend too) about it. Now my best friend is taking shots at me saying how maybe if I was nicer, he'd be nicer! I've tried that, TRUST ME it didn't work at all. It's like that jerk has brainwashed everyone into thinking I'm the cause of everyone's anger and it makes me feel like even the freaking war in iraq is my fault too. I'm all out of things to do!!! I don't know what to do, or say without possibally loosing my best friend. If I loose him, my life would be over.

any advice on what I should possibally try doing?

Try being nice to him again. But when his best friend is being rude to you, point it out to your best friend.

Topic Moved to Relationships.

New best friend. Easy.

Treat him the way you want to be treated and if that doesn't work tell your best friend. If that doesn't work then maybe you need another friend.

if you've already tried treating him nice, he should do the same.
why don't you talk to him about it. or maybe your bestfriend.

i dont understand how your ex boyfriend can become your best friend... dont you find it the least bit awkward?

i agree. he shouldnt be putting you down like that :mad

I do point it out when his best friend makes me angry. But nothing really seems to happen then.



I try, but I get angry to easily and I'm trying to work on that. I don't want another best friend, even though we have a lot of downs, he such a great guy.




I don't really find it awkward... even though I still like him a lot.

Hmm...in that case, whenever it happens again go to your best friend and tell him how it makes you feel. Tell him that it makes you mad and you really don't know how to take it. Show him that you're serious.