Well I'm 14 and I had my first french kiss but I'm still confused on how it works. I felt so out of place because it was certainly not the first time he had french kissed a girl. I know I'm not supposed to use a whole bunch of saliva..but what are you doing with your tounge? Do you twirl it around the other persons tounge, or just stick it in there and take it out? lol
I don't think a guy would be low enough to dump a girl because she doesn't know how to kiss, but you never know - this day and age.. people are cruel like that.

And what I hope to achieve from this post isn't "just go with it" lol

ummm... this is awkward lol. But I twirl it, I like it better, but make sure you like don't gag him hahaha.

What I do to really turn my guy on is to sort of tease him with my tounge, like tap it, then move it away, and then twirl it around really strong and hard. And I know you're only 14, but you could get his hand and put it on top of your breasts, that scores major points.

just dont stick it in and leave it there. nor act like a snake and flick it in and out...just play with it, have fun. its just a kiss, not a life decision. if he likes his tongue circled then go with that...

wow... interesting lol....

Since all people are different and they may like doing it a different way, I think you should just start it off by sticking your tongue in there and wiggling it around. In time, you'll grow into a pattern you're both comfortable with.

Well, I'm 18 and I just don't french kiss at all since the only guy I french kissed was very sloppy.

If a guy dumps you because of something so stupid then just forget him. I don't french the 21 year old I'm dating and he hasn't dumped me. He tries to but I just pull away

try and massage the guy's toungue with yours... apply gentle pressure

What does *that* have to do with french kissing?

You just need to find a rhythm. Try to take it slow and meet his tongue with your own. You'll get the hang of it eventually. :)

Everything.

I stand (sit) corrected.

um. okay

its kind of hard to even DESCRIBE. you've been through it; 7 you'll get used to it... just GO WITH THE FLOW

It's really hard to describe...I've only Frenched about 3 times? Essentially you stick your tongues into each other mouths...and you sorta..move them simultaneously? Find a good rhythm/movement and stick w/ it. When I Frenched with my ex bf, we had this twirling movement and an up and down movement...Frenching is really hard to describe =S

haha this is cute. Umm...the best thing you can do is gently follow what his toungue does. I dont really like french lissing people. it gets so messy. even when u try not to. but you can compromise by having a tastful kiss with a little tongue. its still techinically a french kiss because of the tongue, but its not overwhelming. Just play with his lips and his tongue. avoid his teeth, and never give him ur whole tongue. That will gag him and u will wind up with saliva all over ur face. its the weirdest thing but youll be like "why is there spit in my eye" i swear lol!! so just be gentle and play with it. Its supposed to be light and romantic.

when you french kiss.. just do what feels right.. twirling is a basic thing to do if u dont know what else to do... just move your tongue around a bit.. your boyfriend should be doing something too so just go along with what his tongue "tells" you to do ;) .. once you get comforatable kissing him you can initiate some more action.. but until then let him do most of the work =)

Actually, "just go with it" would be the best advice. If you don't know what to do, most likely you're not ready for it or you don't even want to be frenching him. If you feel comfortable around your man, you shouldn't be self-conscious about what you do.

But I think that when french kissing, keep your motions soft and smooth and slow. You can twirl or just slide it in and out, whatever. Just remember to have a mint before trying it out.

Dart your tongue in and out like a jackhammer, and make sure you slobber a lot too. Jk Jk








Massage his toungue with yours. Not like a real massage with your tongue, but like ... caressing and massage caress massage ..

get a jolly rancher, you can keep away with it. tongue style

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haha, yeah, me and my boyfriend did that with a mint. It was hilarious! Eventually I gagged on it and swallowed it whole tho.

oops.

then one of you will choke and die

oo yay i think i can help ok first make small motions with your mouth. Then if he hasnt stucks his tongue in and you want to use tongue tap his lips with your tongue. Then try to tap his tongue. and yeah keep doing that. if you twirl your tongue dont do it fast, and dont just stick your tongue in his mouth. If your making out mess with his hair or put your arm around his neck. Eventually it will come natually. Thats the best advice i got.

Well .. what I usually do with my boyfriend is, we both would start off by kissing. Then kissing eventually for us, leads to frenching. You don't really want to just stick your tongue in his mouth .. &&. eventually lead him to gagging. Wiggle it .. or .. as my sister had taught me. Move your tongue in a " 8 " shape. Yeah , it's weird .. but she taught me to move it in a 8 shape sort of . Cheer up. I'm sure people won't break up with girls just because they don't know how to french kiss. Everyone has their 1st times. (;

Also, if you're worried he might get bored with the same motions you can start massage spelling out your name or something. Just make the motions of the letters slowly, just for a little diversity.

find his tongue and fence with it. :) nicely of course. ok that might not have been the best description...
just dont tongue around his teeth or too far back into his throat. keep it where his tongue is and um dont just let it stay there...flip it around a few times or do with it what you would if you were licking ice cream

QUOTE(starlette @ Apr 17 2006, 5:48 PM)

haha this is cute. Umm...the best thing you can do is gently follow what his toungue does. I dont really like french lissing people. it gets so messy. even when u try not to. but you can compromise by having a tastful kiss with a little tongue. its still techinically a french kiss because of the tongue, but its not overwhelming. Just play with his lips and his tongue. avoid his teeth, and never give him ur whole tongue. That will gag him and u will wind up with saliva all over ur face. its the weirdest thing but youll be like "why is there spit in my eye" i swear lol!! so just be gentle and play with it. Its supposed to be light and romantic.

what she said just follow what he does

twirling i think.

so is making out just frenching over and over again or how does that work?

Nice. =D LMAO


Mix it up..? play with his tongue, bite his lip[not hard, guys hate it when you try to EAT them], kiss his lower & upper lip gently, twirl your tongue around his blah blah blah. It's not hard. You'll eventually figure out what you do & don't like.

HAHAHAHAHA way to give advice to kids, man. Kudos.

Just don't think about it much. Follow what he's doing.