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shadowchild
I like keeping my eyes closed when I kiss, but my boyfriend thinks it's weird and he actually physically tries to hold my eyes open. I can't keep them open or I go cross-eyed, but he won't close his eyes. Is it just a guy thing? Or is he just weird? lol.

what do you think?
Chii
Eyes closed when kissing. But, when we slightly pull away, I open my eyes then close them when we lean in again.

I guess some people like it when their eyes are open...I think it's kind of weird too...
shadowchild
yeah, I do the same thing. And I get really mad when he pulls my eyelids open...
julianaaa
i like keeping my eyes closed. it seems sorta weird to me to have them open.
it's rude to stare!
SuzieRawkSoxx
Closed most def.
shadowchild
well, I guess my boyfriend's just weird then lol.
jooleeah
i think it'd be weird to keep them open.
oXMuhNirvanaXo
i like think its better to have your eyes closed but it really doent matter to me if im getting a kiss then .. yeah :-)
Hiphop d[-_-]b
I find it weird open. Imagine opening your eyes for a little glimpse at him while your making out and seeing his eyes just boring into yours. A lil' creepy.
bananapants
i close my eyes it helps the moment
pinacoolada
the thing is..I try to close my eyes but they automatically stay open. Not all the way open though..just slightly..and afterwards, I realize that my eyes were open the whole time.
My Cinderella.
I always close my eyes when I kiss. I find it odd to just kiss while staring. They say that if you open your eyes when you kiss, you're thinking about someone else.
xforgottenlove
closed. haha like most of the people said, i think it's awkward to keep my eyes open. lol probably cuhz i don't know what to look at laugh.gif
SimplicityGirl
Closed. Staring is rude =P
silver-rain
I usually keep my eyes closed when we're kissing.
tanichick
Closed: More romantic (to me)

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xcaitlinx
QUOTE(shadowchild @ Apr 14 2006, 1:00 PM) *
I like keeping my eyes closed when I kiss, but my boyfriend thinks it's weird and he actually physically tries to hold my eyes open. I can't keep them open or I go cross-eyed, but he won't close his eyes. Is it just a guy thing? Or is he just weird? lol.

what do you think?


uhh he's definitely just weird. i don't know anybody that keeps their eyes open when they kiss. me and my boyfriend always close our eyes. it's more comfortable that way and i consider keeping your eyes open rude.
Ambuletz
I like having them closed. It just somehow makes it seem more romantic, like in the movies.

Plus it's just awkward when both of you open your eyes at the same time and stare at each other that close together. =P

And yeah, shadowchild, I've never heard of a guy who tries to keep your eyes open..that's definitely odd..
disco infiltrator
Closed. mellow.gif Open is weird.
shadowchild
wow... I'm gonna have to tell him that lol. I mean, it doesn't bother me, but it is a bit awkward.
AngelinaTaylor
Closed.. it's like an instinct :P Besides, it's more romantic..

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shadowchild
sooo true. It is more romantic.
Just_Dream
I usually keep my eyes closed. That way you can only focus on the physical aspect of the kiss. wink.gif
shadowchild
so so so true.
mylittleMiracle
close eyes,relax and enjoy the kiss XD staring is weird....
priyas
closed. its more romantic.
shadowchild
okay, I guess everyone agrees with me lol.
whenALLelsefails
closed. i find it weird to kiss with my eyes open
ms. independent
it's freaky to me they have their eyes open while we're kissing… it's like "HELLO HONEY… AREN'T YOU A BEAUT! Wait… OMG, WE'RE KISSING!?!!? *o*"

…scary. o_o
Sparkle09
closed. It seems like it would be weird if they were open.
shadowchild
yeah, he closed them today... so it's all good. I guess he just had to get used to it.
megan_x3
We both close our eyes when we kiss. But he love staring at my " perfect chinky eyes " .. &. often tries to open my eyes because he loves staring into them. But rather than that , we would close our eyes .. if we're closing the kiss .. I would open them & then .. lean forward for another kiss ? (:
imm
Wow you see that [1] next to "open"? Yep, me. I have this weird habit of keeping my eyes open, but now I'm starting to close them more. =)
KiKiSzY
Closed... it's rude to stare..
anniepiee
Closed fo sho. well, occasionally i would peek and see where it's going, but never wide open.
myrebelliouslife
i kiss with my eyes closed i guess.
KissMe2408
I usually close my eyes when I kiss someone.
Even when I hug a guy that i'm interested in, I find that i close my eyes then too.
lil_blue04
I keep them closed, and after what happened to my friend, i'm keeping them that way. My friend once told me that she was kissing her guy and was curious about what her boyfriend looked like while they kissed. So...she opened her eyes and *SCREAMED*! She got startled because she saw his big-o, unblinking eyes starring at her, LOL!
mighty megan
umm i usually keep them closed every now and then illl open them for a second... i think at least but a kiss is a kiss it shouldnt matter =]
Paradox of Life
It's rude to stare.
3ssx
QUOTE(lil_blue04 @ Apr 21 2006, 4:38 PM) *
I keep them closed, and after what happened to my friend, i'm keeping them that way. My friend once told me that she was kissing her guy and was curious about what her boyfriend looked like while they kissed. So...she opened her eyes and *SCREAMED*! She got startled because she saw his big-o, unblinking eyes starring at her, LOL!


lol ^
visualfusion
what if the person just likes eyes? I like eyes... though I dont stare while kissing cause that's just weird.
Looow
closed.i dont really think about it. they just..close. t's creepy when they're open tho.
hi-C
CLOSED. Staring is impolite. As well as creepy.
me1issaaaa
Usually closed, but I often find myself opening them up to see if his are closed or not. Then close them again... and I tend to keep checking. I guess it's just out of curiosity, I don't really know.
hi-C
QUOTE(shadowchild @ Apr 14 2006, 1:00 PM) [snapback]1991769[/snapback]

I like keeping my eyes closed when I kiss, but my boyfriend thinks it's weird and he actually physically tries to hold my eyes open. I can't keep them open or I go cross-eyed, but he won't close his eyes. Is it just a guy thing? Or is he just weird? lol.

what do you think?

He forces your eyes open?! Yeah, he's insane.
Afrodisiac-aka-Antho
QUOTE
closed.i dont really think about it. they just..close. t's creepy when they're open tho.

Yeh, dats true.

happy.gif anyway, i can't stand lookin into sum1's ugly a$$ grill 4 dat long
priyas
QUOTE(ms. independent @ Apr 17 2006, 5:04 PM) *
it's freaky to me they have their eyes open while we're kissing… it's like "HELLO HONEY… AREN'T YOU A BEAUT! Wait… OMG, WE'RE KISSING!?!!? *o*"

…scary. o_o

thats funny. laugh.gif i used to keep mine open. but now its closed for me.
THAT-ONE-GIRL-143
i close my eyes..but there are occasions when i open them. i know my boyfriend opens his eyes more times than i do, but he closes them on occasion..so we're like..opposite haha
EyeOfTheTiger5
If you both have a really spicy, sexy look in your eyes, then it can be pretty fun to open your eyes for a little bit while you're kissing.

But most of the time, closed is best.

And the pulling open your eyelids thing is REALLY weird.
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