i need some advice.. please.
me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 11 months.
we had a small break up 3 months ago.
i feel like he doesn't care as much anymore.
he doesn't call me unless it's to make plans.. and he wont SMS/IM me unless i SMS/IM him first..
does this mean he's loosing interest?
also- i find myself getting angry at him because of this.
any advice? help?
thanks.

maybe he is loosing interest
why not talk to him about it, tell him how you feel

i think he is loosing interest...
maybe you tell your feeling to him?maybe he really doesnt know you are angry because of those stuffs.

What do you mean by that? It could've affected him more than it affects you. Talk to him about how you feel. Ask him if he's mad at you. But also consider that maybe it's time to move on.

i'm going through a similiar situation. i feel like my boyfriend is losing interest too cause we dont have the same talks on AIM the way we used to.

you should talk to him about it. ask him to tell you straight up how he feels about the relationship. if he's really losing interest, theres nothing you can really do. you may just have to move on.

talk to him about it

if he really cares about u he'll listen

Yeah, definitely talk to him. Tell him how you feel and try not to get angry because that will get nowhere.

thanks guys :)

You know maybe just maybe you guys BOTH need some time aart to just chill with friends key word APART from each other usually after this trial week or w/e things go back to normal. I mean if you two love each other than its worth trying everything to make the situation BETTER i was kind of going through this a couple of months ago but its all better now. Hope every thing really works out form the better.

XOXOXO

my idea? he's being who he really is. a guy. im sorry but most guys arent super romantic and constantly shower you with affection every time he gets the chance. its been eleven months now. either he is becoming more like himself around you, or he is losing interest.

when you go out together, does he still act the same as at 2 months? base it on how he spends his time with you, not how often he sends you a message.

Since no one in here has said it yet...

COMMUNICATION

He probably doesn't know how you feel, and he never will unless you tell him about it. Tell him exactly what you told us, that you feel as if he's not very interested.

^ I was a tad bit confused on that note.

Threaten him:

"IF WE DON'T GO OUT ANYMORE, I'LL F'ING KILL YOU!"


or suddenly become Adriana Lima or Alessandra Ambrossio and he'll be interested. :)

i have a similar problem. i've been with my boyfriend for over a year, but it seems like i'm always the one making the first move to do something. i know that he's shy and all, but it's still a bit depressing. i guess it's just how he is.

maybe your boyfriend doesn't know how you feel. if i were you (and since i should do the same thing haha), i would talk to him about it. it'll make life more enjoyable

Well maybe he is. Why dont you talk to him about how you feel, relationship takes honesty and the truth to make it strong.