Background:

I really like this girl and have for some time now and have always been a little hesitant to take it any further than friendship or ask her out because i dont know if she feels the same way about me. I like hanging out with her either way and I dont want to make things awkward between us by doing something rash and stupid, so I was wondering if you could look over this conversation and see if she really is flirting, or if its just me... thanks alot for any help


it is a bit long, so im going to bold the parts i think are important

her (12:32:24 AM): sped monkey sirrrrrr
Me (12:32:31 AM): m
Me (12:32:32 AM): m
Me (12:32:35 AM): miss minkee mam
her (12:32:54 AM): merry daylight savings
Me (12:33:46 AM): oh yeah, that was at 12
her returned at 12:35:18 AM.
Me (12:36:16 AM): uh.. merry daylight savings to you too?
her (12:37:18 AM): puahahhaha
her (12:37:29 AM): guess what
her (12:37:38 AM): i kidnapped your brother
her (12:37:39 AM): harharhar
Me (12:37:48 AM): wah?!
Me (12:37:57 AM): no wonder he hasnt come home yet...
Me (12:38:05 AM): good, keep him
Me (12:38:11 AM): u couldnt pay me enough to take him back!
her (12:38:24 AM): heyy
her (12:38:26 AM): this is ransom
her (12:38:29 AM): i don't pay you
her (12:38:32 AM): youuuu pay meeee
her (12:38:34 AM): muahaha
her (12:38:37 AM): harhar
Me (12:38:37 AM): ok
her (12:38:38 AM): haa
Me (12:38:43 AM): then what do i have to pay you to keep him?
her (12:40:04 AM): HAH
her (12:40:09 AM): you're funny
her (12:40:17 AM): i don't know
her (12:40:17 AM): haha
her (12:40:22 AM): give me your power

( I had hulk face paint on before - inside story/joke here)
her (12:40:25 AM): the HULK power
Me (12:40:41 AM): ive lost my hulk power..
Me (12:40:47 AM): it washed away in the pool
Me (12:41:57 AM): if u think ur sad u should of seen how hard it was to get me in that pool in the first place
her (12:43:08 AM): bummers
her (12:43:10 AM): what a waste
her (12:43:20 AM): i coulda be super hulkie minkee
Me (12:44:35 AM): maybe thats a good thing
Me (12:44:38 AM): well for me atleast
Me (12:44:57 AM): i wont be afraid of getting jumped downtown by ms hulk
her (12:45:36 AM): damnit
her (12:45:39 AM): fine you know what
her (12:45:41 AM): have your brotherrrr
her (12:45:46 AM): you see him?
Me (12:45:57 AM): no no no
Me (12:46:00 AM): im not opening my eyes
Me (12:46:04 AM): you take him back this instant!
her (12:46:15 AM): NO
her (12:46:19 AM): muahahhahahhahaha
her (12:46:29 AM): open your eyesssss nowwwww
her (12:46:34 AM): or. .. turn around
Me (12:47:12 AM): fine ill turn around
Me (12:47:15 AM): but not opening my eytes
Me (12:47:17 AM): i refuse!
her (12:47:22 AM): now that's just awkward
her (12:47:31 AM): FACE REALITY . .. with your eyes open
her (12:47:31 AM): harhar
Me (12:47:52 AM): im not opening them
Me (12:48:03 AM): now u cant just let a cute innocent kid be all alone can you?
her (12:48:53 AM): no sorry
her (12:49:00 AM): i'ma child molestor
Me (12:49:15 AM): molest away, my eyes are closed
Me (12:49:37 AM): no wait... that didnt sound right
her (12:50:02 AM): hahahahaha
her (12:50:06 AM): you're so silly
Me (12:50:16 AM): i try
her (12:51:28 AM): open your eyes NOW
Me (12:51:40 AM): why?
her (12:52:17 AM): because
her (12:52:33 AM): it's there's an amazing view behind ya
Me (12:53:06 AM): oh yeah? how amazing
her (12:53:49 AM): turn around and you shall see hardyharhar
Me (12:54:10 AM): fine, but if its that little annoying guy im gonna be upset
her (12:55:28 AM): SMILE
Me (12:55:42 AM):
her (12:56:10 AM): goodjob
her (12:56:17 AM): now turn around looking like that and. .. yeah
Me (12:56:39 AM): fine fine
Me (12:56:47 AM): *turns*
her (12:57:17 AM): how's your view?
Me (12:57:37 AM): breathtaking
her (12:57:55 AM): enjoyed it huh
Me (12:58:15 AM): i do indeed
her (12:59:47 AM): goodjob
her (12:59:50 AM): now you're blessed
Me (1:00:07 AM): what kind of blessing?
her (1:00:22 AM): uh .. .. . blessed by the minkist
her (1:00:23 AM): yesyes
Me (1:02:01 AM): i like this blessing
her (1:06:58 AM): lalala
her (1:07:06 AM): do you feel any older than you did 59 minutes ago?
Me (1:10:05 AM): i age quickly
Me (1:10:18 AM): it feels more like 63 seconds passed...
her (1:10:27 AM): it's because
her (1:10:30 AM): you've been blessed
her (1:10:32 AM): hardyharhar
her (1:11:04 AM): well i is outties don't let the minkers bite
Me (1:11:33 AM): lets hope no bite marks show..

Seems like you guys connected very well. There were some parts where she was rather friendly. In my opinion, I can't tell for sure but it seems to me like she's interested.

she might be interested, but on some parts i think she was just being silly

The fact that you like her might make you believe she's being flirty/interested. She's just being silly.

yeah, thats the reason I am asking for help.. ive made the same mistake before

stole the words outta my mouth

She may be interested, or she might just be goofing around with you. Lots of people do that with me who aren't actually interested. Why not ask her?

Hmm, to me, it doesn't really sound like she's too interested in you. Like other have said, maybe she's just being silly and goofing around with you. I think you should just continue being her friend and see if she makes any obvious moves.

^ agreed. I talk like that all the time (esp online at 1 AM lol) to my good guyfriends...and I don't have feelings for them. I would stay friends for now. take it slow

I think you guys are just friends it seems like.. That was one hell of a freaky conversation..lol..

she sounds friendly but not flirty.
maybe its because you like her and you want to believe that she likes you.

hate to say it bud, but it seems to me that she's just being friendly.
i goof around alot too, it doesn't mean that much.

i don't think she is interested THAT way...

sh's just fooling around... i am like that... its just for fun

Its kind of hard to tell. You guys FLIRT weird0. lol. Anyways i guess it dose seem like shes kinda soorta in an odd way intrested.... Go for it romeo.

it may sound silly, but the way she was acting was more like she was a guy talking to someone he fancies, not a girl. Girls tend to be more flirty, guys more jokey. Tbh I think she just sees u as a mate and was just being silly.