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IceCream4U
Okay, so here's how it went.

One of my best friends (let's call her Rachel), told one of my other friends (Lets call her Bree) that she liked this one guy (lets call him Patrick). Well right now in math class, we're doing some stupid little games where we have to solve a problem, roll a dice to shoot and see how many points we got (Its like basketball). Well anyway, Bree and Pat's (Oops, I mean Patrick) teams (They're on seperate teams) made it to the top four. Well anyway, during 6th period, Bree asked Pat if she could borrow some of his basketball shorts for tomorrows game (They have to wear something basketball), and he could just wear his jersey.

See, the problem is that Bree asked Pat for his pants, even though Rachel liked him!! And Bree is always doing these type of things to Rachel...and I guess my question is, should Rachel talk to Bree about it?
mipadi
Maybe I'm just too old, but I don't see what the issue is. She needed some shorts. Oh, maybe she's flirting a bit, but that's what kids in high school do. If I recall, back in The Day, I flirted with pretty much anything and anyone.

My opinion: I think Rachel should just let it go. She doesn't own Patrick, and sometimes she'll have to deal with other girls flirting with the guy. Maybe it's a bit sneaky on Bree's part, but I don't see why it's a big deal.
Lil Dr69on
I think she should. and their relationship will not like before. But I think it's better than keep all that in silence, mayb it will go worse in the future. So just tell Bree wat she feels. Its like a test for their friendship i think
My Cinderella.
Agreed with Mipadi. Rachel doesn't own Patrick, so I see this as something pretty normal. In my point of view, it just seems like Bree wanted to borrow a pair of pants. huh.gif
_sarcastic_
it's only shorts...i don't see a big deal in it
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 29 2006, 9:20 AM) *
My opinion: I think Rachel should just let it go. She doesn't own Patrick, and sometimes she'll have to deal with other girls flirting with the guy. Maybe it's a bit sneaky on Bree's part, but I don't see why it's a big deal.


I couldn't agree more. Rachel's being a little overprotective and possessive and she's overreacting. She should just let it slide and move on with her life.
Chii
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Mar 29 2006, 10:22 PM) *
it's only shorts...i don't see a big deal in it

I agree...she asked for his shorts, she didn't ask to fondle what was in his shorts. I don't think that it's flirting.

If Rachel likes Patrick so much then she should go after what she wants instead of sitting back and being paranoid of the girls who are around him.
subway
wow she borrowed shorts. OH MYmy not single cousins let me borrow his shorts

goodness if "rachel" gets mad at her because of that she is really weird no offense to her
IceCream4U
Well I guess Rachel is mad at Bree that she is always hitting on the guys she likes. Now, I'm not calling this shorts thing hitting on somebody, but Rachel's being a little iffy around her because.....she's like a said, always hitting on Rachels crush.........................ughh.......
RCKstarh
i think rachel should deffinately confront her but in a positive way so it doesn't cause trouble
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(carnelliz2sexy @ Mar 30 2006, 4:51 PM) *
i think rachel should deffinately confront her but in a positive way so it doesn't cause trouble


... How do you 'positively confront' someone? And wouldn't a confrontation be causing trouble, period?
anniepiee
If Pat isn't going out with Rachel, Bree has the right to do anything she wants. Even though it might cause some conflict between the two friends, but things like this happen in high school, right? Bree might just be a little flirty (if borrowing shorts is really flirting..) to Pat because she knows Rachel likes him. It's this thing girls do, when someone is wanted by another person. He is 50% more worth going for. IMO.
priyas
its just shorts. no biggie.
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