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MyCATSwatchingtv
okay so theres this guy. and he was in my class and we really talk alot in it and stuff and he asked me for my screename. he ims me sometimes; but acts very uninterested in the convo and takes forever to respond. when we actually do have convos he includes alot of stuff about girls or dates hes been on or kissing games hes played. is he trying to impress me or is he just being stupid. recently he said we should hang out ; we planned like the weekend he was gonna get his wisdom teeth out? im not sure i really like him i dont understand boys though at all .
Chii
I don't think he's trying to impress you, why would a girl be impressed by how much experience a guy has had? Bragging about things like that kind of makes him seem sleazy.

I think he's saying those things either because he likes you and wants to see if you get jealous because I guess that would make him believe that you like him back, or that's just what he likes to talk about with friends.

When you two hang out together that weekend, you'll probably be able to figure out whatever it is that he wants.
silver-rain
Ahh, my friend once told me that he would tell the girls he was interested in about other girls to make them feel jealous...
But yeah, he might be interested by trying to make you jealous. But who knows, just see how the weekend goes for now.
My Cinderella.
Maybe the guy just needs someone to talk to. This is very confusing indeed. I'd have to second with that, Chii. You should wait til you guys hang out.
IceCream4U
I'm pretty much in the same situation right now, but yes, it sounds like he likes you. =DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
aubbob
haha... thats funny because i kind of do the same thing.
talk to people i'm crushing on from my school on aim
& then i act like i don't like them.. and i take forever to write back
when i really do like them. so i say he likes you
priyas
QUOTE(Chii @ Mar 26 2006, 7:29 PM) *
I don't think he's trying to impress you, why would a girl be impressed by how much experience a guy has had? Bragging about things like that kind of makes him seem sleazy.

I think he's saying those things either because he likes you and wants to see if you get jealous because I guess that would make him believe that you like him back, or that's just what he likes to talk about with friends.

When you two hang out together that weekend, you'll probably be able to figure out whatever it is that he wants.


^^i agree totally.
newyork__lies
uh. the only way you'll find out is ask him flat-out. if you're not perfectly certain you like this dude.. what is there to lose? he can't get mad. there's no reason. and if he says yes, awesome!
subway
dont get fooled by those evil things. they want sex. _dry.gif
Paradox of Life
Don't assume that he likes you and don't assume that he doesn't like you. Just lay low, be neutral and watch for more signs until you're not as confused.
_sarcastic_
^agreed. you can't really tell if he likes you or not unless that is..you ask him yourself.
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