Correct me if I'm wrong, but I searched and nothing came up. So what are your opinions? Do you think it's wrong for your boyfriend/girlfriend to say that other people are hot? (Non Celebrity likewise.)

My boyfriend doesn't call other people hot, and i don't call other guys hot either. sometimes i'll say "oh wow she's really pretty.." to see how he reacts and he'll say "not as beautiful as you." i guess i'd kinda feel uncomfortable/insecure if he commented other girls. he should be happy with me and not want anyone else!

well my bf dose that but its the people on tv and he only dose it to piss me off.

me and my gf will say some ppl are hot and stuff...

it doesnt really mean anything.

I'd rather be called beautiful or pretty than hot.

^Yep same here.

i personally dont like it.. but my bf does it as a joke , on girls who are obviously NOT hot generally speaking.. lol

^ i think you may have misunderstood tina, what if your boyfriend called someone else hot?

^ Ohh. *hits self*

Well, I wouldn't mind if he had good taste. I would mind though, if it's someone who I strongly dislike, and he knows it.

Well, we do it as a joke, or rather, I do it as a joke. We don't really do it that often, but I wouldn't like it if he wasn't joking.

I don't mind. I think it kind of shows that you guys are comfortable with each other. But like Linda said, it wouldn't be funny if he wasn't joking joking. =|

I honestly wouldn't care...its no big deal!! I know who he is making out with and sleeping next to at the end of the day and that is really all that matters!!

Mine never did... only whenever he saw Cameron Diaz. But then he'd try to be smooth and throw in something like, "But she's no Melissa Ann." Eh. He usually knew better. But if he ever did, yeah, I'm sure it would bother me a little bit, but I've always been like that.

I just see them as eye candy. I wouldn't mind. But if my boyfriend kept talking about the same girl everytime, already keeping in mind his track record, then I'd be a little suspicious..

nonononononononono
im a jealous person

i think its fine. im very jealous, too. i mean verrrry jealous. but honestly, you think people are hot too, right? like more then just your bf/gf. so why wouldnt your gf/bf be allowed to at least think somebody else is hot?

I used to be an insanely jealous person but I'm easing out of it. I personally don't care as much anymore. Sure we have a relationship but that doesn't mean that we're dead and can't admire other people. He has pictures of half naked chicks all over his apartment that he shares with his roommate. Sometimes, I admire them too, he has good taste

However if he does more than admire some other girl, I'd be pissed. Looking is fine but touching? Oh hell no. Unless it's just a friendly hug and a kiss on the cheek with a friend.

I don't mind, but he does. He doesn't want to call people "hot" in front of me, although I'm fine with it.

Hm, personally i dont mind that much. Occasionally I would call guys hot, most of the time even girls. Haha, only to fish out the words," no way, you're howevermany times hotter/prettier."

i wouldn't mind that much, if i know he's just joking around

It depends on how your relationship is going sometimes. They can think it but not say it too. They can be joking, but people would not say it in front of you.

no way. i mean cmon.... would u rather have ur bf/gf keep their opinios from u? heck i dont. i rather have them straight forward tell me whatever they want and be honest

this is no big deal, seriously. its a very stpud reason for somebody to be jealous

I don't think I mind. As long as he doesn't go all crazy and "wowww."

i think it's not too big a deal, just as long as you've been dating each other for a while. also, if he's just commenting and not focusing on someone for a particular amount of time. and, it's okay to joke around once in a while.

True, true. But jealousy is a peculiar thing. It ignores reason.

I'm a very jealous person That answers the question.

^ As well as I. I'm not a big fan of having my boyfriend comment on other girl's appearances.

my boyfriend, not only does he says, but he tells girls they're hot. man that makes me pissed off.

If it's non celebs...well then I'd be offended! I don't tell him other guys are hot in front of his face (although he jumps to the conclusion I think they are...) and I'm sure he doesn't tell me other girls are hot, but I'm sure it's on his mind. It's just really...aggravating when your significant other will all of a sudden say that person's hot when you're right there beside them. Makes you feel...like your not good enough.

ARGGHHH. That was the reason why I broke things off with my last boy. Unforunately, I could say that he was a bit "popular" and that there were quite a lot of girls after him, and he flirts quite a lot. But when he was talking to his friend about this girl in another school he fancied (when he was going out with me...) and how he thought she was so hot and how thrilled he was that she felt the same about him, it just pissed me off. Can't he just be happy with what he's got?

So, my answer to the question is, I get upset when my guy says that another girl's hot because it makes me feel like I'm just not good enough to satisfy him. If he thinks they're hot, fine, just don't say it around me. If I feel like I have to compare with other girls, there's something lacking in our relationship.

it depends on the situation.

a. what kind of relationship are you guys in? a deep one or like one we're you two arent really getting along quite well?
b. How is the way he/she says is?
c. >_>

hes messed up

^ That guy's messed up I would of broke it off as well if Daniel commented on other girl's appearance in front of me, or even went up to them to tell them :mad

it really doesn't matter if i had a significant other that made it an effect to remark on how hot some girl was just as long as he doesn't touch and tries to flirt with her but if he does, then we have a big problem

hmm, i voted depends. i don't know i mean..i don't really care if he says another girl is hot or whatever i guess, just so long as he remains faithful to me then it's all good. i know i'm going to be saying that other guys are hot around him so i can't really get mad at him...

its good to be honest and both me and my gf comment on other pplsl looks....usually her more than me!!!! i dont mind bcuz i know that theres a reason we are together and that shed choose me over any of those guys in a heartbeat and vice-versa.

I think it's okayy if my boyfriend calls a celebrity hott.. but I wouldn't like it if he called some girl at our school hott.. b/c then I would just strike an attitude with him && be like well why don't you go be with her then. I guess I'm the jealous type && I would jusst be like that.. But yeahh that's kind of like me saying ohhh look that guyy looks so hott.. thats something you would say with your friends not with your boyfriend or girlfriend.. You have to learn to respect your partners feelings.. So I voted for it depends you have to explain yourself a bit better!!..