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xOpRiNcEsSpReTTy
uhh. do you ever feel like your boyfriend is cheating on your, even when you know that he isnt?? cry.gif blink.gif
i want to talk to him about it, but i dont know what to say. he's really hot, and i know that a lot of girls like him. im not acusing him of anything, and i dont want him to think that i am, but i just want clarification of some sort... stubborn.gif
AnnahhbeL
this should be in relationships.

and i dont feel anything because i currently dont have a bf. lol
xOpRiNcEsSpReTTy
i was gonna put it in relationships i started the post there, but then i was thinking well guys don't have bfs, so why would they wanna answer this?
chinchilla1987
HEY, i have the same feeling as the beginning relationship with my BF,
i can "see " his heart, but i not reli believe in him.
i afraid that he isnt reli love me!!
thus, i give he same tests to see wether he reli love me...
but remember, guys are the impatient animals... dun treat them too strict!! XD
Blow_Don't_SUCK
Especially when he's drunk
Bridget_rules_4eva
I used to feel that way like all the time and i would talk to him about it and then i would feel better. So I suggest you just talk to him about it.
silver-rain
Eh, sometimes I do. And, it's not really because of his look, but his sense of humor and his charming personality. And, yeah, when he's out with his friends and they're drinking.
But sometimes, you just have to trust him.
Ambuletz
I feel like that constantly. My boyfriend is really popular at my small school, so I get paranoid constantly.

But lately he's been paranoid about ME. It's kinda funny.
xOpRiNcEsSpReTTy
lol. i'll talk to him about it. thanks for the advice.
anniepiee
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Mar 19 2006, 12:44 PM) *
Sure. I felt that my ex boyfriend was cheating on me with alcohol.

Just know that he's yours. And it's good that you talked to him about it. Tell us how it goes.



oh man, i'm definitely sure he's cheatin on me with WoW.
last night, a few of his brother's friends came over and saw him play. they were amazed by the fact that he can play AND have a gf. stubborn.gif


but back to the topic, i never thought he was cheatin on me, but maybe a slight sense that he had feelings for another person. does that count?
EddieV
All the time, I've been cheated on with every relationship I've been in.
mipadi
I can't say that such a worry has been at the front of my mind while dating someone. I think that, if the relationship is strong, such a worry shouldn't be present. Why worry about something unless given reason, anyway?
dorkk-ie
i know he wouldn't but another part of me isn't too sure... i'm in the same situation as you.. hot bf, lots of girls like him, blah, blah. but i trust him enough to know he wouldn't cheat on me.. lol just my insecurities?
but alcohal, dats a diff. story =)
_sarcastic_
QUOTE(xnofearx @ Mar 19 2006, 11:27 PM) *
All the time, I've been cheated on with every relationship I've been in.

ouch. i'm sorry pinch.gif

just talk it out with him, clarify things.
i had a feeling my bf (now ex) was cheating on me, i was pretty much right
My Cinderella.
QUOTE(pastellove_ @ Mar 19 2006, 11:17 PM) *
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oh man, i'm definitely sure he's cheatin on me with WoW.
last night, a few of his brother's friends came over and saw him play. they were amazed by the fact that he can play AND have a gf. stubborn.gif
but back to the topic, i never thought he was cheatin on me, but maybe a slight sense that he had feelings for another person. does that count?
^ My boyfriend's in love with WoW too. rolleyes.gif

For the question, yes I have felt like he was cheating on me. And for your situation, I think it's because you feel insecure. You feel that he's attractive and perhaps you fear that you aren't good enough for him so he'll secretly go for a girl that likes him. _dry.gif But I highly doubt that.
alphanumeric
Oh, I could be like that. I just say to myself I'm being too insecure & paraniod & get over it :) But even if he's not cheating, he could be doing other things still. You never know..
mipadi
QUOTE(pastellove_ @ Mar 19 2006, 11:17 PM) *
^ laugh.gif
oh man, i'm definitely sure he's cheatin on me with WoW.
last night, a few of his brother's friends came over and saw him play. they were amazed by the fact that he can play AND have a gf. stubborn.gif

WoW was so 2005.
thumb_war_thoughts
QUOTE(Bridget_rules_4eva @ Mar 20 2006, 4:07 AM) *
I used to feel that way like all the time and i would talk to him about it and then i would feel better. So I suggest you just talk to him about it.


the same thing goes for me
i mena id tlak to hi mabout it and id feel better
because i had already known he wasnt cheatign on me
but hten all those girls that liked him wud be really agggresivly affectionate towards him and id start to feel liek i did before then we'd talk and id feel better its a never ending circle
Jackieice
I have never felt that my boyfriend was cheating on me mostly because i don't believe in very serious relationships and I like to keep the bounderies fuzzy therefore really there is no cheating....But thats besides the point I believe that the best route is the direct route and you should go right to the point and ask him!!
anniepiee
QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Mar 20 2006, 3:05 PM) *
^ My boyfriend's in love with WoW too. rolleyes.gif

For the question, yes I have felt like he was cheating on me. And for your situation, I think it's because you feel insecure. You feel that he's attractive and perhaps you fear that you aren't good enough for him so he'll secretly go for a girl that likes him. _dry.gif But I highly doubt that.



i feel you, girl. XD


QUOTE(mipadi @ Mar 20 2006, 6:44 PM) *
WoW was so 2005.



laugh.gif laugh.gif laugh.gif i WISH. lmao.
xOpRiNcEsSpReTTy
haha you guys cheer me up. :) thx
xforgottenlove
well.. yes i've felt at times that my bf could P0SSIBLY be cheating on me. and i feel SO horrible cuhz i know that he is SUCH a great bf and he would NEVER do something like that to me. :/ mann i think i have problems lol. i should be trusting him XD
vash1530
kind of related with this...i dont realli mind if my gf flirts w/ other guys but i find it annoying when she talks to me abt a crush she has on sum1 i kno. i kno he asked her to prom b4 he knew we were going out but i thought it waz weird that she didnt tell me. I kno i dont hav anything to worry abt (she REALLI likes me) but i can't help feelinf kind of jealous...
thumb_war_thoughts
QUOTE(vash1530 @ Mar 24 2006, 2:00 AM) *
kind of related with this...i dont realli mind if my gf flirts w/ other guys but i find it annoying when she talks to me abt a crush she has on sum1 i kno. i kno he asked her to prom b4 he knew we were going out but i thought it waz weird that she didnt tell me. I kno i dont hav anything to worry abt (she REALLI likes me) but i can't help feelinf kind of jealous...


sumtimes girls do that sort of thing ot make their bf's jealous
i mean it sounds stupid but she might have saw u with sum other girls and gotten jelaous herself or maybe sum other girls told her they liked u
theres alot of different things and if she makes u mad and u get jealous she knows that u still like her
Looow
Yeah I'm the kind of girl thats kind of paranoid but keeps it to herself to avoid drama and all this stuff. I don't know. Right now, I am kind of worried.
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